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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, me and my fuck buddy are going to try pegging tomorrow as she told me she has a strapon. Any advice as to positions that are good for a guy? I've only had straight seX before so it is a bit new to us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggy usually the easiest

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I found being on my back with my bum overhanging the edge of the bed or couch with my legs lifted onto my partners shoulders was my favourite.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi all, me and my fuck buddy are going to try pegging tomorrow as she told me she has a strapon. Any advice as to positions that are good for a guy? I've only had straight seX before so it is a bit new to us both"

Part of the fun is to explore for yourselves, surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just thinking about easing myself in for a first time, also positions guys like to rub against their prostate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your back with perhaps a cushion under you if needed. More options this way.

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

you forgotten the most important bit plenty of lube first time ouch

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By *unsurreycouple1Couple
over a year ago

Surrey


"On your back with perhaps a cushion under you if needed. More options this way. "

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Only you will really know or rather find out what is the best position for YOU!!

Just a couple of pointers from my experience ..

If the guy is on his back first (this can tend to be more relaxing for him and also maintains eye contact), bear in mind it is quite tricky for us to be on top and entering gracefully - so a couple of pillows under your hips will help quite a bit. Unless the dildo is quite long (as in more than say 5 inches), it may slip out quite a bit - as obv we have no sensation feedback to feel how deep we are in. or not.

If you are on all 4's (my fave, as when he is used to it this is where he usually tells me 'faster! harder! deeper! MORE!!) you may find you have to spread your knees quite wide to drop your arse down. Else it just ends up looking like a chihuaha trying to mount a rottweiler. so a few pillows under your belly might help take some pressure off your thighs trying to maintain position.

oh and would advise against a curry and a few pints of guinness beforehand

Enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and explore yourself. Everyone is different. Mr A loves me taking control. So take your time and explore yourself. Good luck & enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggy, lying flat on your stomach with a pillow under your hips, cowgirl (but you're the girl) or on your back legs up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only you will really know or rather find out what is the best position for YOU!!

Just a couple of pointers from my experience ..

If the guy is on his back first (this can tend to be more relaxing for him and also maintains eye contact), bear in mind it is quite tricky for us to be on top and entering gracefully - so a couple of pillows under your hips will help quite a bit. Unless the dildo is quite long (as in more than say 5 inches), it may slip out quite a bit - as obv we have no sensation feedback to feel how deep we are in. or not.

If you are on all 4's (my fave, as when he is used to it this is where he usually tells me 'faster! harder! deeper! MORE!!) you may find you have to spread your knees quite wide to drop your arse down. Else it just ends up looking like a chihuaha trying to mount a rottweiler. so a few pillows under your belly might help take some pressure off your thighs trying to maintain position.

oh and would advise against a curry and a few pints of guinness beforehand

Enjoy!! "

Id like a bit iff that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves reverse cowgirl or is that cowboy? She just likes to sit on sofa and have me ride her strap-on although I do love it when she pounds me hard from behind whilst I'm usually bent over the arm of the sofa or over the dining room table

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Depends on your height differences....

And is your arse used to being penetrated?

Doggy - either all fours - or just arse up / face down...

On your back with a pillow or two under your bum...

Or you riding her cow girl style - (at least then you can control the speed and depth of penetration).

IME

(Obviously the usual - douche / prep / lube / relax!)

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On your back with perhaps a cushion under you if needed. More options this way. "

This position is amazing

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

The majority of ours is on all fours doggy style, though when she tired I sometimes end up on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on choice of strapon as well.. the wife and i have tried 4 before we got it right.. too hard..too wide straps not correct..not fitting her etc etc.. but good luck..its so worth it..

P.s we settled on a doc johnson detachable with few different cock sizes.. doggie works for us best..

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Bend him over tell him to brace himself and slam it in hehe

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By *tu griffMan
over a year ago

bridgend


"Bend him over tell him to brace himself and slam it in hehe "

Yes please ??

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Bend him over tell him to brace himself and slam it in hehe "
then shout now you know what it feels like bas**** hehe (joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you back into it first to ease your self in its much easier for the first time. Maybe squat into it as you can have more control and then relinquish control over to her and hold on for dear life.

You will live it though feels amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bend him over tell him to brace himself and slam it in hehe "

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something ive dabbled with,,make sure you dont end up with a blob of turd on the white shag pile. It could put a damper on the proceedings..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a real cock I like to be on top or on my back with my legs over his powerful shoulders or ankles in his strong hands.

Damn; I'm feeling horny now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, me and my fuck buddy are going to try pegging tomorrow as she told me she has a strapon. Any advice as to positions that are good for a guy? I've only had straight seX before so it is a bit new to us both"

Popper's good quality lube and spoon position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say for a first time cowgirl is good...you're in complete control...I've found can take it deeper too that way...might just be me...as others have said...lots of lube...you really can't use too much...good luck and enjoy

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By *ichael_OxlongMan
over a year ago

London

I prefer on my back but on my knees in front of a mirror comes a close second!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positions vary on both your heights, sizes and flexibility just try them and see. My only advice if it's your first time is take it slow to start. Slide in then stop, hold that position for a few seconds before carrying on. Each time you enter for a new position do the same thing. You'll find the muscles relax while you are holding that position enough to make penetration loads easier x

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