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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been chatting to some nice and genuine people on fab, to get ourself ready for swinging. We wanted to meet couple first which still do but my wife want to try MMF first which I'm happy with that and quiet turning on. Is it us or anyone who's first time has this feeling.

Kind regards xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have been chatting to some nice and genuine people on fab, to get ourself ready for swinging. We wanted to meet couple first which still do but my wife want to try MMF first which I'm happy with that and quiet turning on. Is it us or anyone who's first time has this feeling.

Kind regards xx"

I think we all did and still do to some extent. It's normal.

I hope you have a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wanted to make sure it's not only us 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes. We still do, and consider the nervous build up all part of the attraction to swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a natural human instinct really and will add to the over all joy of the meeting. I still get a nervous excitement before a meet. Good luck to you both and enjoy your time creating lots of found memories

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's quiet turning on, feels good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quiet turning on, feels good."

With each chat you have and the closer you get to the actual meet that excitement builds. Then on the day you will be fit to burst and the time flies by and you all have had a great meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are having our first Mmf Friday and we feel nervous excitement too! Hope yours goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are having our first Mmf Friday and we feel nervous excitement too! Hope yours goes well "

Good luck for Friday peeps! I am sure you will all have a great time once you relax and get into the swing of things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are having our first Mmf Friday and we feel nervous excitement too! Hope yours goes well "

You too have a great time let us know how you got on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get excited and nervous with every meet.

Hope all goes well and you have a great time!

I remember my one and only MMF very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes every time I meet someone new but it adds to it in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still get the nervous and excited feeling before every meet , and we've had a few

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Its a great feeling. Hope you never loose it.

Be wary though that the nervous feelings get stronger nearer to a meet.

My advice would to be honest about your feelings and to suggest a social meet first. This will allow you to take things further should you desire but also make it a lot easier to go through with your first meet.

Have FUN

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are talking on the phone few times a week which so far has build a good relationship. Ofcourse we gone meet at bar first before the fun. Is it ok to have quite drink while chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are talking on the phone few times a week which so far has build a good relationship. Ofcourse we gone meet at bar first before the fun. Is it ok to have quite drink while chatting? "

We definitely will be!

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

The day we stop feeling nervous and excited will be the day we stop swinging. That's all part and parcel of it for us and we love it!

Have fun guys and enjoy! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that feeling and I call it " nervahorny" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We too have experienced the first time nerves thing, as have all swingers I suppose. Like others have said, we still get nervous when it comes to meets, but it's an exciting nervousness if that makes sense? Only natural really.

Hope you guys get on ok and above all, have fun!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the real fun of a meet once that feeling goes I find its time to move on

Hope you enjoy it's the best combination and always has seemed very natural to have mmf threesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had three meets on fab (two meets 121, and one greedy girls party) and all made me terrified to some extent beforehand; the second 121 meet we'd chatted for quite a while and met once socially first so that was slightly less daunting.

I guess the fear is that the beautiful brunette you think you've been chatting to is actually a 20 stone trucker from bull and you are about to lose one of your kidneys for sale on the black market. Fortunately this has never come to pass, yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nervous and excited at every meet! Part of the fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tonight is the night! So nervous and excited!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

I get butterflies, nervous and excited (nervited) before all my meets, even when I'm just going to the club, it adds to the thrill and the sexual tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get nervous & excited before every meet, they day we don't is maybe the day to take a break

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I am expecting my first meet soon and the nervous energy is intense!! It's like a first date all over again

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I can't imagine ever not feeling like that - I look upon it as part of the thrill.

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

It's always the same and always a great part of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's always the same and always a great part of it!

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Glad your feeling the same!

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts


"It's always the same and always a great part of it!

Glad your feeling the same! "

Naturally. No reason to be nervous but plenty to be excited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we still get those butterflies and feel its part of the whole thing- if we stop getting them we would be missing out

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