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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been on here a while now, and was wandering howto broach subject of group sex to wife, and wat sort of reaction i might get. we been together 21 years and need spice

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition!! sigh

But before they arrive, why not suggest the 'why don't we each make a sex wish list and then compare them' route?

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a crash helmet and give her your request via loudspeaker from another room.

What kind of relationship do you have? Is she kinky? Has she ever been? Is she a member of the WI that bakes scones and finds swearing offensive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know your wife better than anyone and you must have an idea how she would react.

The last thread you started asking more or less the same thing people gave you advice on how to bring the subject up.

Not sure how strangers can tell you or advise you how to approach her inless you are starting these threads to get a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well my hubby asked me suring fun if i would fancy meeting up with a guy with him so i could have two guys., something i always fancied...... and once i tried loved it so progressed from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best way is to suggest visiting a club see if its ok for the 2 of you.you dont have to play if you dont want to.thats how we got started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best way is to suggest visiting a club see if its ok for the 2 of you.you dont have to play if you dont want to.thats how we got started"
If my hubby had suggested meeting in a club i would have freaked out and never met lol............. well done you !!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Everyone's being helpful and nice. Am I on the wrong site?

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"been on here a while now, and was wandering howto broach subject of group sex to wife, and wat sort of reaction i might get. we been together 21 years and need spice "

Maybe you could start by teling her you have a single male profile on here and see where it goes from there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on here a while now, and was wandering howto broach subject of group sex to wife, and wat sort of reaction i might get. we been together 21 years and need spice

Maybe you could start by teling her you have a single male profile on here and see where it goes from there lol"

Maybe he could arrange a meet with his wife on here.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Everyone's being helpful and nice. Am I on the wrong site? "

Tis the season of goodwill

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

Im confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that you're looking at the wrong profile

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Think that you're looking at the wrong profile "

Opps!!! I'm not awake yet!!

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

Now im not confused

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Now im not confused"

I'm always confused doesn't take much for me to confuse other's either!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Bogof needs to go to bed and refresh his eyes

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Bogof needs to go to bed and refresh his eyes "

Any offers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey...deja vu!!!

Is it too early to be starting on the voddie?!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Im confused"

Nice to meet you. I'm ridiculous.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't bother, she has her own profile here and is doing very well without your 'input' She's a lovely lady, great fun! Z

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"Im confused

Nice to meet you. I'm ridiculous. "

we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best way is to suggest visiting a club see if its ok for the 2 of you.you dont have to play if you dont want to.thats how we got startedIf my hubby had suggested meeting in a club i would have freaked out and never met lol............. well done you !!! "

Agree with you we tried a club after several months of swinging and we both agreed that if that had been our first experience it would also have been the last. Clubs are something you either love or hate and can be very over whelming if you are new to this sort of lifestyle

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


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What kind of relationship do you have? Is she kinky? Has she ever been? Is she a member of the WI that bakes scones and finds swearing offensive? "

Oh, yes.... those are the best! It's always the quiet ones you have to watch the closest

I find my local librarian to be very sexy. She may look like she spends her evenings listening to the Archers on Radio 4 or browsing the latest Laura Ashley catalogue for new curtains, but I'm sure that really she's a dirty little minx who is horny as fuck.

Whilst at work she may look very prim with her boring glasses and boring haircut... but it's all an act. She wants you to think like butter wouldn't melt in her mouth, but when she gets home and takes off those glasses and lets her hair down ("like she's just stepped out of a salon") then she comes out of her shell and is more kinky than any woman I've been with in the past.

Er.... I need to go and lie down for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What kind of relationship do you have? Is she kinky? Has she ever been? Is she a member of the WI that bakes scones and finds swearing offensive?

Oh, yes.... those are the best! It's always the quiet ones you have to watch the closest

I find my local librarian to be very sexy. She may look like she spends her evenings listening to the Archers on Radio 4 or browsing the latest Laura Ashley catalogue for new curtains, but I'm sure that really she's a dirty little minx who is horny as fuck.

Whilst at work she may look very prim with her boring glasses and boring haircut... but it's all an act. She wants you to think like butter wouldn't melt in her mouth, but when she gets home and takes off those glasses and lets her hair down ("like she's just stepped out of a salon") then she comes out of her shell and is more kinky than any woman I've been with in the past.

Er.... I need to go and lie down for a while."

I'd better not ask you what you think about the lollypop lady and her pole then!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"been on here a while now, and was wandering howto broach subject of group sex to wife, and wat sort of reaction i might get. we been together 21 years and need spice "

would love to be a fly on the wall when you show her the profile first you set up... oh.. and the people you've met before you bring up the question of group sex with ya nearest and dearest...

after all... honesty is the best policy... isn't it!!!

oooh... I'd even get some popcorn for this one.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it have been better to sort it out with her before you opened a profile?

Who knows, you might have been on here with a couples profile now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you could start by teling her you have a single male profile on here and see where it goes from there lol"

Not sure if that's a good idea, I hate funerals .

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