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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not allowed here, report her lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block as against rules

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/09/15 21:38:13]

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

I've reported hookers, charging, mentions of payment to meet dozens of times with the site message evidence.

Most of the profiles remain

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I've had someone say to me that they would offer erotic 'favours' in return for academic help.

It turned out to be a 'test'..had I said yes, she wouldn't have wanted to meet her, as I bluntly refused, we are now meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag always sends messages like that, tell him you don't want his haribos

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I sometimes get offered money to meet or asked if I charge. I block them all but don't bother reporting

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

How much?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much? "

lol, I didn't ask!

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"How much?

lol, I didn't ask!"

Well that was stupid, she might have only wanted Cab Fare lol

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Its not allowed here, report her lol."

Who said its a she lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get offered all the time, a guy wanted a naked massage for £150, I said no but my bf said I should of said yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do most things for a bottle of wine.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll do most things for a bottle of wine....."

If I give you 2 bottles will you brew up for me all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll do most things for a bottle of wine.....

If I give you 2 bottles will you brew up for me all day"

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

"
hey let's be honest we all pay for sex in one way or another if you go to abfabs for first time you will be £75 lighter and no further forward to getting laid than before you walked in the door odds are better yes but that's all ,if you go on a social you pay for meal and drinks at least the oldest profession in the world offers you a sure thing ,it's not for me I don't pay but I understand why some women do it ,just say no thanks and move on no big deal she's just trying to make ends meet (hers and yours)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say we've ever been asked to pay to play but been given the odd offer. Haven't accepted any not been tempting enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would this work if a woman offered to pay for everything?

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By *keg funCouple
over a year ago

SKEGNESS


"Would this work if a woman offered to pay for everything? "

£1. for a bbj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would this work if a woman offered to pay for everything?

£1. for a bbj "

I always knew I was worth very little on here

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

"
v

Maybe they misinterpreted the Bisexual part of your profile, and thought the only way you were getting sex was to buy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

v

Maybe they misinterpreted the Bisexual part of your profile, and thought the only way you were getting sex was to buy it? "

I had to read that more than a couple of times before the penny dropped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Wii got offered £50 for half hour she just laughed at him hahaha

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

v

Maybe they misinterpreted the Bisexual part of your profile, and thought the only way you were getting sex was to buy it?

I had to read that more than a couple of times before the penny dropped "

Unfortunately, most of my jokes are like that

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We use to have a bloke who use to message us and we turned him down a lot, he then started asking how much it would cost him to fuck me (female) after ignoring him he offered £500 he was reported but never removed from the site after offering again he got blocked so don't know if he's still on the site

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I'm definitely doing something wrong, never been offered anything and I always offer to pay for hotels as most meets travel to me, swinging sometimes burns a hole in your pocket! Not to worry though, as long as the hole is big enough to get to my cunt, it's all good!!!!! Haha!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I've reported hookers, charging, mentions of payment to meet dozens of times with the site message evidence.

Most of the profiles remain "

What's the point of reporting if they don't get removed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thought, might try selling my arse to single males! Lol

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

"

Just curious...how much was she charging....just for research purposes only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get offered all the time, a guy wanted a naked massage for £150, I said no but my bf said I should of said yes lol"

I would be offered 50p if I was lucky but I am an old ugly git

I do look better when you had 2 bottles of wine though

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By *iRachelWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Lol if yr gonna fuck anyway you may as well earn from it haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was offered £300.00 for a bloke to lick my pussy and arse for 2 hours.Nowt stranger than folk I give it away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

So, I've just had a message asking me if I would be prepared to "pay to play".

What's the site's rules on this?

I'm a bit offended to be honest!

Does this go on here a lot? I kinda assumed everyone was in this because we are all like-minded people, who push the naughty boat out together!

"

Report and block.

It's against the rules but there's always chancers

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I had a meet arranged about a year ago, close to my workplace so was going to go after work one day. On the appointed day around lunchtime she texted me asking for £50 towards her car tax.

Needless to say we didn't meet.

There are other websites for sex work and good luck to the sex workers. On here it is against the rules. Report them.

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