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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I tell my girlfriend that I'm into cross-dressing?

p.s. before anyone starts moralising- we're in an open relationship and she knows that I'm bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she knows your bi why worry about dresses or knickers sounds pathetic to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont tell her,show her,she might even enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but try not to out do her and look sexier than her or you'll be history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cross dressing, in itself, though has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

a man who she can go shoe shopping with?

every womans dream surely?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I would say that if you have an open relationship and she already knows you're bi sexual you both sound pretty liberated so she probably wouldn't freak or anything when you tell her. The thing is, you both might be missing out on a lot of fun by her not knowing. I'd gently introduce the subject when you're on your own and relaxed without distractions. I wish you both well, take care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that if you have an open relationship and she already knows you're bi sexual you both sound pretty liberated so she probably wouldn't freak or anything when you tell her. The thing is, you both might be missing out on a lot of fun by her not knowing. I'd gently introduce the subject when you're on your own and relaxed without distractions. I wish you both well, take care."

Zoe speak sense,you are missing out,the best fun I have is with tgurls and its a massive turn on for me to see a man dressed up,so you never know,lots of women go for it,so just tell her.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I tell my girlfriend that I'm into cross-dressing?

p.s. before anyone starts moralising- we're in an open relationship and she knows that I'm bi!"

If you're in an open relationship and she knows you're bi...can't really see what your problem is!

I do like dressing up my playmates as girlies, putting make up on them, doing their hair...especially as they hate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe bring up the subject by having a few photos of cross dressers, if she reacts badly or says she finds it good... then at least you would know what she thinks.

It certainly isnt for me and I would be appalled.. but thats just my views.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell her, then you can share outfits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG YOU END UP FIGHTING . who is wearing wot ,each to there own i say , you should just walk in on her dressed up , see wot transpires ,but wear your own stiuff , not hers . lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wait until she goes out then raid her wardrobe and put on some of her clothes.

when she returns and drops her shopping in horror just tell her to deal with it.

done and done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ya as open and honest as ya say about the other things

Then just tell her cause nowt else should really shock xx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"wait until she goes out then raid her wardrobe and put on some of her clothes.

when she returns and drops her shopping in horror just tell her to deal with it.

done and done."

That's gonna go one of two ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about suggesting it in a role play scenario - for instance - 'how bout i put some stockings on too?' - see how she reacts? Then take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest in that ..if the fella i was seeing suddenly appeared in a dress and wig etc...

I would burst out laughing.

Get that bit over with and then chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be honest in that ..if the fella i was seeing suddenly appeared in a dress and wig etc...

I would burst out laughing.

Get that bit over with and then chat. "

even if they looked good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i would laugh because of the shock....They may look bloody fantastic.

But if its the last thing she is expecting....Be prepared for first.laughter...then if she really appalled ? crying with disbelief .

Were strange creatures us women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think i would laugh because of the shock....They may look bloody fantastic.

But if its the last thing she is expecting....Be prepared for first.laughter...then if she really appalled ? crying with disbelief .

Were strange creatures us women.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i would say that you have been meaning to ask her opinion about something and broach the subject then. it took a fb of mine about 9 months to tell me he occasionally likes to dress up in stockings, heels and panties.

he was still nervous as hell when he eventually did it in my presence a few months later - until he found it drives me completely nuts and that i couldn't keep my hands of him then lol

go for it and maybe it can be as good for you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well obviously cross dressing is a completely separate issue from bisexuality - sexual orientation has nothing at all to do with dressing in female clothes - a man who isnt bi could be into it.

but if you want to tell her then perhaps approach the subject of transvestism in general, guage her reaction and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be honest in that ..if the fella i was seeing suddenly appeared in a dress and wig etc...

I would burst out laughing.

Get that bit over with and then chat. "

Though id be slightly pissed off if they look better in my clothes than i do, or they stretch them to get them on and ruin them consequently we might have to hit the sales

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