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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm not sure if this is quite the right section but I do need advice.

Someone I know through an old fuck buddy of mine has offered me £500 for three hours with him and a few pictures.

Funny thing he's not unattractive and although he's not my type (which I told him and he offered the cash), I want to do it cause of the easy money, I'd enjoy doing it and yet I feel like id be degrading myself. Another side says he's just gonna fuck me over and not give me anything and he's had his wicked way, which I think would make me feel even worse.

I know this is all illegal. And just for the record I don't know him from fab and I don't think he's on here so I feel confident asking in public.

Although I think he's super ugly he's got a decent enough body and he's shown me some pics that are pretty good but what bugs me is why offer me the money, I kinda think he doesn't need to pay to have sex.

Any advice/ comments would be welcome, I'm stuck in an ethical dilemma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not illegal to have sex for money....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm not sure if this is quite the right section but I do need advice.

Someone I know through an old fuck buddy of mine has offered me £500 for three hours with him and a few pictures.

Funny thing he's not unattractive and although he's not my type (which I told him and he offered the cash), I want to do it cause of the easy money, I'd enjoy doing it and yet I feel like id be degrading myself. Another side says he's just gonna fuck me over and not give me anything and he's had his wicked way, which I think would make me feel even worse.

I know this is all illegal. And just for the record I don't know him from fab and I don't think he's on here so I feel confident asking in public.

Although I think he's super ugly he's got a decent enough body and he's shown me some pics that are pretty good but what bugs me is why offer me the money, I kinda think he doesn't need to pay to have sex.

Any advice/ comments would be welcome, I'm stuck in an ethical dilemma. "
hey stop beating yourself up about it all sex involves money in some shape or form wether it's dinner or a hotel or drinks ,so take his money and shove a paper bag over his head

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

£500 isn't much money. Get the photos watermarked. Or laminated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up"

Physically he's toned, maybe a little overweight but no one is perfect - facially not great and has AWFUL teeth. It's the teeth that make me want to say no more than anything else! I'm not talking a bit bent or slightly yellow they're black in parts and quite stained. Didn't want to be too rough on the guy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up

Physically he's toned, maybe a little overweight but no one is perfect - facially not great and has AWFUL teeth. It's the teeth that make me want to say no more than anything else! I'm not talking a bit bent or slightly yellow they're black in parts and quite stained. Didn't want to be too rough on the guy though "

Good Luck you seem to contradict yourself alot

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up

Physically he's toned, maybe a little overweight but no one is perfect - facially not great and has AWFUL teeth. It's the teeth that make me want to say no more than anything else! I'm not talking a bit bent or slightly yellow they're black in parts and quite stained. Didn't want to be too rough on the guy though "

Save your soul and tell him to spend the 500 on dentistry.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Get the money first before sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up

Physically he's toned, maybe a little overweight but no one is perfect - facially not great and has AWFUL teeth. It's the teeth that make me want to say no more than anything else! I'm not talking a bit bent or slightly yellow they're black in parts and quite stained. Didn't want to be too rough on the guy though

Good Luck you seem to contradict yourself alot "

Not entirely sure how explaining a contradiction - made only because there are attractive and unattractive parts to the dude - is still contradicting myself a lot, but oh well.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

If he has contacted you via this site he has broke the site rules and needs reporting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up

Physically he's toned, maybe a little overweight but no one is perfect - facially not great and has AWFUL teeth. It's the teeth that make me want to say no more than anything else! I'm not talking a bit bent or slightly yellow they're black in parts and quite stained. Didn't want to be too rough on the guy though

Good Luck you seem to contradict yourself alot

Not entirely sure how explaining a contradiction - made only because there are attractive and unattractive parts to the dude - is still contradicting myself a lot, but oh well."

Maybe read your original first post op,then the one about the teeth Also sex for money is legal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he has contacted you via this site he has broke the site rules and needs reporting "

He did say he wasn't from fab, so he's ok on that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said he wasn't unattractive...then said he was super ugly

Make your mind up

Physically he's toned, maybe a little overweight but no one is perfect - facially not great and has AWFUL teeth. It's the teeth that make me want to say no more than anything else! I'm not talking a bit bent or slightly yellow they're black in parts and quite stained. Didn't want to be too rough on the guy though "

Teeth... That for me is a no brainer... Cant abide horrible teeth...

(said in broadest scouse)SWERVE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you its your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cash up front?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure sex for money goes on at fab as well get the money first lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Decided not to go for it thought about it all night and although I could use the money, I just don't feel it's my style and I'd feel a bit tainted about it all.

Thanks for everyone's help and input!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me I'd probably do it and I would want the money upfront and control of the photos.

And I'd also want to make sure it was neutral ground and safe.

Sex is the oldest currency. Why not use it to your advantage if and when you can.

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By *osheaMan
over a year ago

manchester

the fact you are unsure say dont do it, buut if you do

Money upfront

no face pics, sounds like the kind of bloke who may use them further down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Decided not to go for it thought about it all night and although I could use the money, I just don't feel it's my style and I'd feel a bit tainted about it all.

Thanks for everyone's help and input!

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You're the one that has to live with your choices at the end of it all.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just fuck him and if he offers you the money say no thanks I don't seel myself for money

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