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Daytime Bi Parties in London

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By *urrey Dave 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

I'm sure I'm not alone in that I have a very high sex drive but have found myself in a sexless marriage and look to satisfy that sex drive by trying to arrange daytime meets. For a mature guy on this site that's very difficult, almost impossible so I'm now trying another approach and have decided to try and run some daytime parties. I'm bi curious so the parties will be aimed at the bisexual and bi curious and to try and get the right ratio I've made it free for ladies and mixed sex couples and cheap for T Girls. The first party is on Monday 28th September (11am to 3pm) I've hired a well known venue in Sutton, built a website and created an event on Fab.

I know some guys won't like the pricing structure but please consider it positive discrimination in favour of ladies and couples rather than something negative. This is my first party but I hope it will become a regular event and the purpose of posting on this forum is to ask for help. Please contact me if you'd like to be involved or have any hints, tips or suggestions on how to make these daytime parties a success.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Host one in Brighton. You'd be swamped. No adult clubs, no where to meet.

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By *urrey Dave 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

Isn't there some swinger and bi events held at The Subline Bar?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Isn't there some swinger and bi events held at The Subline Bar?"

I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure we can make that date but in principle we'd be interested in giving it a go. . V xxxx

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By *ighorn2006Man
over a year ago

Ceredigion / N France


"Host one in Brighton. You'd be swamped. No adult clubs, no where to meet. "

I am surprised, you'd imagine Brighton being Bohemien and alternative. Although we did go to a fetish fair there once and was very disappointed with that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At £55 for a bloke, I don't think you will get many there.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Host one in Brighton. You'd be swamped. No adult clubs, no where to meet.

I am surprised, you'd imagine Brighton being Bohemien and alternative. Although we did go to a fetish fair there once and was very disappointed with that !"

There you go then. It is surprising and mildly disappointing.

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By *urrey Dave 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey


"At £55 for a bloke, I don't think you will get many there.

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The response has been good so far with most men appreciating the reason for the pricing structure. If we charged everyone the same price necessary to cover the venue hire and hosting costs (approx. £20) the party would be all male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many men complain about spending £50 for a swingers club fee, good luck with your event, hope all goes well for you

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I'm sure I'm not alone in that I have a very high sex drive but have found myself in a sexless marriage and look to satisfy that sex drive by trying to arrange daytime meets. For a mature guy on this site that's very difficult, almost impossible so I'm now trying another approach and have decided to try and run some daytime parties. I'm bi curious so the parties will be aimed at the bisexual and bi curious and to try and get the right ratio I've made it free for ladies and mixed sex couples and cheap for T Girls. The first party is on Monday 28th September (11am to 3pm) I've hired a well known venue in Sutton, built a website and created an event on Fab.

I know some guys won't like the pricing structure but please consider it positive discrimination in favour of ladies and couples rather than something negative. This is my first party but I hope it will become a regular event and the purpose of posting on this forum is to ask for help. Please contact me if you'd like to be involved or have any hints, tips or suggestions on how to make these daytime parties a success.

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Sounds good, just what we would like, but as we both have day jobs, its not feasible for us

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Why is it an assumption that blokes will pay; whatever price for "party"?

If you've got even a reasonable sex drive and enjoy the lifestyle and only do 2 parties per week at the typical price of £50+ per event that over £440+ fuel drinks condoms etc per month. So you've got to have a full time job & LOTS of "disposable income", which isn't the reality for most of us . But i wish you well in your venture and hope the first party goes well.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is it an assumption that blokes will pay; whatever price for "party"?

If you've got even a reasonable sex drive and enjoy the lifestyle and only do 2 parties per week at the typical price of £50+ per event that over £440+ fuel drinks condoms etc per month. So you've got to have a full time job & LOTS of "disposable income", which isn't the reality for most of us . But i wish you well in your venture and hope the first party goes well."

An alternative and entirely plausible reality is that a bi guy would pay out but only once a month.

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By *urrey Dave 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

£50 is on a par with major sports and music events and the party is for four hours. The venue has to be hired and there is a lot of other costs and time consuming work that has to be done to make any event happen so I don't think it's not an outrageous entry charge. Single ladies are free admission, T Girls only £10 and if a guy comes with a female friend both get in free. You try and put on an event and all that happens is you get shot down, probably by the same guys that complain there is nowhere for them to go.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Why is it an assumption that blokes will pay; whatever price for "party"?

If you've got even a reasonable sex drive and enjoy the lifestyle and only do 2 parties per week at the typical price of £50+ per event that over £440+ fuel drinks condoms etc per month. So you've got to have a full time job & LOTS of "disposable income", which isn't the reality for most of us . But i wish you well in your venture and hope the first party goes well.

An alternative and entirely plausible reality is that a bi guy would pay out but only once a month. "

My sex drive is too high for just one outing a month. I wonder how many others feel the same? Not that i want to hijack Dave's thread on the continual argument about the cost to single guys. There are other places to do that!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is it an assumption that blokes will pay; whatever price for "party"?

If you've got even a reasonable sex drive and enjoy the lifestyle and only do 2 parties per week at the typical price of £50+ per event that over £440+ fuel drinks condoms etc per month. So you've got to have a full time job & LOTS of "disposable income", which isn't the reality for most of us . But i wish you well in your venture and hope the first party goes well.

An alternative and entirely plausible reality is that a bi guy would pay out but only once a month.

My sex drive is too high for just one outing a month. I wonder how many others feel the same? Not that i want to hijack Dave's thread on the continual argument about the cost to single guys. There are other places to do that! "

I meant the outing to the club once a month, not just sex once a month. Presumably that wouldn't be the only outlet (or inlet )

OP: I complained (in a manner of speaking) about the lack of meeting places in Brighton but not about not meeting people.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Op, do you really think lots of people can make it in the day?

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By *urrey Dave 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

I agree the format of the party being daytime and aimed at bi and bicurious will limit it's appeal. I'm bi curious and only play during the day so there is a lot of self interest in doing it this way. So far the response has OK but I know the format wont appeal to everyone.

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By *pangalatMan
over a year ago

windsor

I for one am a single guy who supports such a price structure. It keeps numbers down and i personally don't want to be at a party with 200 other blokes who don't have gumption and class to invest a bit in what they do.

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By *eighbi4uMan
over a year ago

watford

I love the idea and only play daytime usually but alas not at £55. The wife will ask where the cash has gone, lol

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By *ip73Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

Bi events always a Monday,never a weekend. (Would love a bi venue to open and be bi all week)

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