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By *kdnWelsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Hey sexy people got a huge favour to ask of you ... could any of you explain to me what the social nights are please ?? Seen loads of people asking to be on invite list and to say I'm slightly curious is an understatement lol .. so if any of you fancy explaining then I thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall watch this post with interest as I wondered the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What it says on the tin... a "social" where you meet likeminded people.

Chat, drink, flirt, get to know people

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By *kdnWelsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

What so just like going to chams or xtasia ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A social, is just that, a chance to meet others from the site, either in a pub or a club with no expectations.

Though they are a good way to get to know people and make connections for later

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have attended socials and they have been evenings where people get to know each other socially (sorry I couldn't think of another word).

The ones we've attended have been in pubs so just like any other evening really except you can network . If you're hoping for a sort of orgy style event you're out of luck mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be anything from a night organised at a club to a small gathering at a house party. Socials are just that, a chance for us to get together, put faces to names, share experiences without pressures to indulge in sexual activity.

Most are guest listed to control numbers, message the organiser to get your names down

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By *kdnWelsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Thanks guys for answering glad to know I'm not missing out on some secret mass orgy lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Thanks guys for answering glad to know I'm not missing out on some secret mass orgy lol "

You are, it's just not labelled a social...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get the "without pressures of sexual activity" as bandied around when talking about socials... Never seen any pressure to engage in sexual activity in clubs, socials seen to have all of the disadvantages of not going to a club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't get the "without pressures of sexual activity" as bandied around when talking about socials... Never seen any pressure to engage in sexual activity in clubs, socials seen to have all of the disadvantages of not going to a club! "

Granted, maybe 'pressure' was the wrong choice of word. What I mean is that some folk want to meet with other swingers but refrain from sex activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't get the "without pressures of sexual activity" as bandied around when talking about socials... Never seen any pressure to engage in sexual activity in clubs, socials seen to have all of the disadvantages of not going to a club!

Granted, maybe 'pressure' was the wrong choice of word. What I mean is that some folk want to meet with other swingers but refrain from sex activity.

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And you can do that in a club, why meet in some vanilla pub where frankly the conversation may have to be somewhat stifled and maybe inappropriate for the surroundings?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't get the "without pressures of sexual activity" as bandied around when talking about socials... Never seen any pressure to engage in sexual activity in clubs, socials seen to have all of the disadvantages of not going to a club!

Granted, maybe 'pressure' was the wrong choice of word. What I mean is that some folk want to meet with other swingers but refrain from sex activity.

And you can do that in a club, why meet in some vanilla pub where frankly the conversation may have to be somewhat stifled and maybe inappropriate for the surroundings?"

We've been to organised socials in "some vanilla pub" and it was fine. Not everyone wants to pay an entry fee and the conversation wasn't stifled we all sat well away from prying ears. So my answer to that would be.....why not?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What if the pub was fully booked out, ie no prying ears?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We don't get the "without pressures of sexual activity" as bandied around when talking about socials... Never seen any pressure to engage in sexual activity in clubs, socials seen to have all of the disadvantages of not going to a club! "

Socials are great for newbies, the "no pressure" angle means that, unlike a club/party, they can relax knowing no-one is going to expect anything more than a chat, a drink, maybe a little flirting.

We think of them as a great night out with old friends, with the chance to make new friends.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We don't get the "without pressures of sexual activity" as bandied around when talking about socials... Never seen any pressure to engage in sexual activity in clubs, socials seen to have all of the disadvantages of not going to a club!

Granted, maybe 'pressure' was the wrong choice of word. What I mean is that some folk want to meet with other swingers but refrain from sex activity.

And you can do that in a club, why meet in some vanilla pub where frankly the conversation may have to be somewhat stifled and maybe inappropriate for the surroundings?"

The ones in South Wales are held in function rooms of pubs, so everyone there is a swinger, theres a door list, so things can be more relaxed, and you can, within reason, be as open as you want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What if the pub was fully booked out, ie no prying ears?"

The one we used to go to knew that it was a social for members of an "internet forum" and used to reserve a large corner for us. It was fun and the pub benefited from our custom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The socials that are organised in South Wales have a good reputation

They're often held in a private function room, but are purely social, and after events sometimes include going on to Chams in Newport

Have a browse through the Wales forum and look at the social threads. Chat to the organisers and fund one that's near you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An organised social is your opportunity to meet like minded people with no expectations other than a drink and chat ...flirt and the opportunity to see if you wish to meet again...they work very well for people who don't have much time to meet as you can meet several people in one night and go from there...in all honesty I prefer the pub ones to club ones these days purely because there isn't a rush to make the most of the entry fee you paid to get into the club...even though I know many organisers get a deal for entry ...my best advice is try one of each and go with what you find more on your comfort zone...and don't be shy to mingle...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What if the pub was fully booked out, ie no prying ears?"

York social books a room in a pub and lays on a buffet. Its a good night out.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great way to get that first verification and meet lots of people - and of course have a brilliant night out

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