FabSwingers.com forum: Hosting first party

By *ifestylers OP Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are planning to host our first swing party at our home near Worcester on Fri eve 2nd October. Anyone with experience of this got any advice that would be useful? Also would any non-smoking cpls or fems be interested in coming along?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

Invite 3 times more people than you need and give as much notice as you can. We found that as many people as we invited loads dropped out for various reasons....

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By *ifestylers OP Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Thank you for the advice on numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are planning to host our first swing party at our home near Worcester on Fri eve 2nd October. Anyone with experience of this got any advice that would be useful? Also would any non-smoking cpls or fems be interested in coming along?"

The non smoking bit will put loads of

Also only invite people that you know from clubs and ask them to ask others

At least that way they will turn up

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

I host party's regularly and always get drop outs for whatever reason make sure it's a nice relaxed atmosphere throw a few naughty party games to break the ice with people and most importantly have fun xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I host party's regularly and always get drop outs for whatever reason make sure it's a nice relaxed atmosphere throw a few naughty party games to break the ice with people and most importantly have fun xxxxxx"

I would love to go to a bare back party of yours but can't message...

I would happily bareback you one on one first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to one this year where they made a couple of theme rooms and they had some icebreaker type games to play in them before we all ended up in one room playing. A few people dropped out so invite more than you would is a great idea.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

Get a whatsapp group going. That's what we've always done. Sets the tone, you get to understand people's personalities and get the sexual tension heightening for the weeks of build up. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The non smoking bit will put loads of

Also only invite people that you know from clubs and ask them to ask others

At least that way they will turn up "

I think the non smoking policy will make many people be more interested in going to the party, many of us dont go some places cus of smokers, i know i avoid them !

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

The non smoking bit will put loads of

Also only invite people that you know from clubs and ask them to ask others

At least that way they will turn up

I think the non smoking policy will make many people be more interested in going to the party, many of us dont go some places cus of smokers, i know i avoid them !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people will want to bring friends to which is great because they get on but don't allow to many close friends or you end up with cliques. Party games are good best one we found was buy set of huge cards off eBay and play high or low just go round room and when someone gets wrong they have to kiss someone but not partner just keep going round make dares or forfeits slightly ruder each time. Let one of the women decide the dare if really brave get sex dice app on I phone and press that as forfeit there's loads of apps on iPhone wet wipes wet wipes and more wet wipes

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

Where my invite to your party alexanddoll lol

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

First of all we must say we disagree about the previous post about numbers. Couples are normally very reliable, particularly if you've had a girl-girl phone chat. TVs are also 100%. It's single guys who mostly don't show.

Our personal party formula...

1. Only one playroom - otherwise people wander from room to room trying to find where the action is.

2. Gentle lighting, gentle music

3. Porn appropriate to the party theme

4. Plenty of condoms, towels and wipes

5. The right number of people for the venue. We aim for 15 couples.

6. Modest nibbles - otherwise people spend too much time in the kitchen

7. An arrival time window. Otherwise you're forever answering the door instead of having some fun.

8. Prime some reliable friends to get the action started. Otherwise a tendency to sit around nattering all evening.

9. Bottles on the bar table are for sharing.

...I might think of a few other things later!

Hope this helps!

Janet xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where my invite to your party alexanddoll lol "

Have sent you one after looking at your photos we hope you take us up on it over fifty booked up for it and the club will be jumping the next night

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Just read your profile OP and wow, you really don't like smokers do you? Personal preference of course, but you're missing out on a lot of great, fun people...Hiw do you feel about e cigs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB (Chris...find him on my verifications) has arranged lots of parties. Feel free to message him.

Sadly I do smoke (but can go without) and am certainly NOT bbw. However we might be interested in attending.

The numbers advice is good, although he did once invite a total of 24 people to a party....and 31 turned up!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The non smoking bit will put loads of

Also only invite people that you know from clubs and ask them to ask others

At least that way they will turn up

I think the non smoking policy will make many people be more interested in going to the party, many of us dont go some places cus of smokers, i know i avoid them !"

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We tried to arrange a party once, but it all fell apart, I think we need a bit more experience, and know a few more people, that we can count on to actually turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Party invites in the South East would be gratefully accepted

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By *ensoriaCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We would recommend clear house rules about boundaries/consent/squirting, only invite those with verifications. Wet wipes, condoms and towels, soft drinks on hand and definitely some to get the sex started as others have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would recommend clear house rules about boundaries/consent/squirting, only invite those with verifications. Wet wipes, condoms and towels, soft drinks on hand and definitely some to get the sex started as others have said. "

Yeah nothing worse than everybody standing around waiting for someone to do something's. Luckily we are party sluts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A trick I learned from some friends...waterproof mattress covers on all your beds and little bottles of water in the bedrooms was a great touch at another friends party...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread guys .. Interesting tips for organising our first party XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell your neighbours you're having a party and what time you expect it to finish. It's just polite to let them know there's going to potentially be noise/music/lots of cars outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to organise bigger parties but the advice can be the same

I see you prefer nonsmokers, you may miss out on some really nice party people, maybe reconsider as you could provide an outdoor area with ashtrays even chairs, smoking areas are very good social areas for parties

you could put a bowl off mint sweets there, you don't have to personally play with smokers, if that totally out ofthe question fair anough it's your house

ratio's are important

the couples are counted as a male and fem added to the singles

so inviting 10 fems to 30 guys will probably give you 8/9fems even the full 10 to 18/20men at the actual party

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By *ifestylers OP Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Thanks for all the valuable advice everyone. All points noted.

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