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how to get going? - New single male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for some tips and knowledge on how to get started?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice, seriously, is to use the search function on the forum as over the year there's been loads of advice threads for newbies that offer excellent practical advice to those wanting to get the best experience out of the site.

Welcome and good luck, I hope you enjoy your time on here and get what you want out of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here a year with no verifications. Give up, start over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for some tips and knowledge on how to get started? "
if you are a patient guy and not too pushy and you are attractive to women or men whatever floats your boat you will have success patience is a virtue and you need it here in bucket loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here a year with no verifications. Give up, start over."

Lol good advice

Search past posts especially mine do not do what the women say except for the ladies comments above

You need to be different I would suggest

Parties socials and gang bangs all women and couples remember the guys from them

Women usually go for the variety , amount of or easy change of men

Couples have each other

Your basically a toy for women and couples and it's a big toy box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for some tips and knowledge on how to get started? "

Can't stand the profiles that say "I have been told I am good looking" as that is subjective....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I would amend one line. After the word BDSM I would remove the other words such as bondage as BDSM means bondage, discipline, D/s and s&m so you don't need to add those.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"You've been here a year with no verifications. Give up, start over."

I agree.

This length of time without a meet will make people wonder why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice; revised prorile.

I made my account over a year ago but only started to use it properly recently.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 20 years old will put a lot of people off.

Being on the site for a year without a veri will also put people off.

Go to a club or social and be friendly and speak to lots of people. You should hopefully get verified that way.

Good luck

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

When I first joined I rushed like a bull in a China shop sending stupid messages which I now regret. Having read these forums which give great advice, I'm now taking my time sending the odd message trying to be original and funny. This site is about being patient and the right lady will reply or get in touch.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Been here before and had some meets but finding it difficult this time for some reason but hang in there. What is the point of starting over? At the end of the day can't get a veri until a meet so a viscous circle.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Been here before and had some meets but finding it difficult this time for some reason but hang in there. What is the point of starting over? At the end of the day can't get a veri until a meet so a viscous circle."

The point of starting again is that a year without a meet will put people off in droves...

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Get some balls and go to a club, we did when we first joined mrs was apprehensive at first at going to one but nerves soon went, but weve met some fantastic people. No veri is off putting to some especially after a long period of time ..... Also look at the meets plenty of people put them up so you know there looking too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would change your display pic/public pic, hard to make out and not hugely interesting tbh.

You will need more patience than a saint to survive on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go to a club if I was you. I was in the same boat. Not having much joy on here, but since I've been going to a club, been having quite a few meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is they key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is they key lol"

Yeah wait another year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make mistakes like I was like a bull in a china shop, but I ended up making myself out to be a bull shitter all because I hadn't thought things through, the best thing of being human is we learn

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By *ussy.loverMan
over a year ago

heswall

Try re doing your profile and adding new photos I did and have had a lot more response and chats since to some really nice people on here.

You might not be everyone's cup of tea but it's a start in the right direction, also posting in forums helps people get to know what your like as a person ,

Good luck and hope you have some fun soon

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By *eorgy26Man
over a year ago

Sutton

For what you are looking for I would recommend going to a club.

You are on a hiding to nothing otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get some balls and go to a club, we did when we first joined mrs was apprehensive at first at going to one but nerves soon went, but weve met some fantastic people. No veri is off putting to some especially after a long period of time ..... Also look at the meets plenty of people put them up so you know there looking too"
yes I agree clubs the place any hole will do

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Looking for some tips and knowledge on how to get started? "

Go to a club buddy, be decent expect nothing have a laugh and chat. Opens all kind of doors

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