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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

My submissive slut is due to have her training over the weekend and I've decided to take suggestions for ideas as to what training she should be given. May post the best photos from her training.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Depends what kind of training you are talking about. Do you live together?

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak."

1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

You can't train a sub in a weekend...Training is constant!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.

1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?"

Sweet potato fries, hand battered onion rings, butting mushrooms, peas and a mug of coffee to wash it down with.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

She should get a real dom/Domme.

Tell her to put nettles in her knickers each day.

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.

1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?

Sweet potato fries, hand battered onion rings, butting mushrooms, peas and a mug of coffee to wash it down with."

I like this guys style

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If that's all you want a women for then bully for you!

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

She has constant training!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.

1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?

Sweet potato fries, hand battered onion rings, butting mushrooms, peas and a mug of coffee to wash it down with."

Mash and gravy with a steak???

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

Have you sent her out in a short skirt and no knickers especially around a supermarket making her bend over and squat down to pick things up?

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

She isn't allowed knickers as a rule. But yes and done so in more public places!

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"She isn't allowed knickers as a rule. But yes and done so in more public places! "

Have you ever added remote control electrics to the mix when out in public?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of slut training is it, sexual or mainly social?.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Send her out dressed in a manner of your choice to buy a few small risqué items. But don't allow her to use a carrier bag so she has to carry them on full view how the shop handed them over.

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yes have the wevibe4 but should use that more tbh!

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Sexual training really!

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Send her out dressed in a manner of your choice to buy a few small risqué items. But don't allow her to use a carrier bag so she has to carry them on full view how the shop handed them over."

I do like that idea although if I'm honest I am not sure it is testing enough for her but I can probably work more it to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a very interesting video regarding sub training involving a shock collar on another site. Too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can she do my ironing I have got abit behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea of 1950s housewife training. She is always on hand to cook dinner etc whilst looking glam, then she is decked out in sexy vintage underwear and treated as a man's plaything at night.

The whole idea of wearing no knickers etc seems a bit 80s page three for me. I like the glamour of the 50s housewife mixed with burlesque, just seems sexier.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"What kind of slut training is it, sexual or mainly social?."

I think she should be sent to Penge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"
I agree

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Read 'The Loving Dominant' if you want some good ideas

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"

The OP said they have decided to take suggestions, that's all.

You make quite a leap to get from there, to where you see things!

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair! I agree "

Read and re read can't see where he refers to himself as a Dom .... You start your phrase with 'to me..." Exactly this.... To you that's your view.

Next it will be the usual you're either Dom by nature or you're not...., the OP just asked for some ideas!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Read 'The Loving Dominant' if you want some good ideas "

And Screw The Roses, Send Me Thorns

(I'll keep banging on about this book until every kinky minded person has read it...I'm not on commission)

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Send her to the shop heels shortskirt low cut top no undies

She is to buy

Condoms

Lube

Cucumber

Lads mag /erotic book

All must be on same till receipt and she is not allowed a bag to carry them

She must either walk to and from shop or use public transport no driving

This must be done at a time of day of your choice

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By *evilishCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Read 'The Loving Dominant' if you want some good ideas

And Screw The Roses, Send Me Thorns

(I'll keep banging on about this book until every kinky minded person has read it...I'm not on commission)"

love this book!!

Have you played with vaginal weights before, OP? With a sub of mine, I made her hold the heaviest one in and attached more weight to it while she stood naked. If the weight lowers then she was spanked or flogged on her ass/tits or thighs. Because she had to keep her pussy muscles tightly gripping it, she was constantly stimulated and begging for play at the end of the scene

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"

This!

I feel a bit sorry for the poor woman.

Maybe she loves it, who knows but it just seems so demeaning

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I did a thing once with some light restraints, a blindfold, a Cohiba cigar and one of those blowtorch lighters.

:D

Let your imagination run free

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By *issGorgNipplesWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"

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By *afkaMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

The biggest part of being a dom is mental. If you can find out her limits, her desires, her fears and her turn ons and use these.

A good dom could make a sub experience all of these emotions in a short space of time...the unpredictability and loss of control is why people enjoy it.

My advice is to learn your sub ro be the better dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send her to the shop heels shortskirt low cut top no undies

She is to buy

Condoms

Lube

Cucumber

Lads mag /erotic book

All must be on same till receipt and she is not allowed a bag to carry them

She must either walk to and from shop or use public transport no driving

This must be done at a time of day of your choice "

Change shopping list to

Condoms

Pack of needles

Baby names book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My submissive slut is due to have her training over the weekend and I've decided to take suggestions for ideas as to what training she should be given. May post the best photos from her training."

Asking for suggestions does not indicate a lack of ability , it just means they are looking to the forum for suggestions, chill a little

I'am male sub and useless at Dom role, plus without understanding of like\dislikes and what has\has not been done before any suggestions would be a stab in the dark and most likely already being done,

Do post the pics though, interested to see

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"

the main actor of 50 shades is crap, he has an arrogant approach at being a dom and shouldnt even be classed as one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!

the main actor of 50 shades is crap, he has an arrogant approach at being a dom and shouldnt even be classed as one"

Just as well he was an actor then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Figging is a good way of punishing a disobedient sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good doms share experiences, good subs reap the benefit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"Figging is a good way of punishing a disobedient sub. "

Id like to see pics of this !

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Saw a very interesting video regarding sub training involving a shock collar on another site. Too much?"

Could you send a link please?

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over a year ago

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"She should get a real dom/Domme.

Tell her to put nettles in her knickers each day."

Now you know about true D/S relationships

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over a year ago

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Good luck with your weekend x

I'm sure you will both have fun x

Slightly confused as to the training aspect - surely this is an ongoing process

Do you mean more about filthy and creative acts you can do together to enjoy and expand your relationship?

Can I suggest early in the weekend you do two things

One - cum into an ice tray and freeze it x you will need this later x

Two - fill a condom with water approx one and half times your cock x

May I suggest during play you have lubed up your partner x you tell her to suck your cum cube and you unwrap you icicle dildo and pleasure your sub x

On

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS once again the fab forums fail to disappoint. OP asks a simple question and the judgemental flock to shout him down. He and his partner like to indulge in BDSM games, who cares whether or not that interest came from 50 shades of shite? I don't see where he claims to be a dom so why not cut him some slack and maybe give some advice. I know it goes against the grain for some to be helpful but it's the weekend so why not give it a go?

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