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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can i improve profile.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete it

Ok I'm only fucking with you, but to be honest it does rather lack content

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think the pic on the profile may put some people off.

no offence meant at all, just too graphic for some

good luck and hope you have great fun

x

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"I think the pic on the profile may put some people off.

no offence meant at all, just too graphic for some

good luck and hope you have great fun

x"

I agree, maybe balance it out with some body shots, show off your shapes

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

As previously stated lack of content, as u say likeminded people few actually will be interpret what minds you have let alone if there alike. Grab few body shots even if private to u send in private messages. Put up your do's and donts if wanted, so it should narrow down msgs, and also put a codeword for people to message you with to show that they have read your profile. Also agreed that picture doesn't do too much for either of you. Make sure at least 1 pic of male half is up as well as the lady. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the pic on the profile may put some people off: too graphic for some"

Just a tad!

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"the pic on the profile may put some people off: too graphic for some

Just a tad! "

We can see its just a tad but its a graphic one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the pic on the profile may put some people off: too graphic for some

Just a tad!

We can see its just a tad but its a graphic one"

????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for advice. I shall now upload better pics than Devon chosen ones and amend the profile accordingly.

by other comments welcomed.

deviant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you make the changes as I can see no change and that pics awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you make the changes as I can see no change and that pics awful"

Looks like it must be a bit of a slow process

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By *omcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Agree with the experienced peeps on here your profile pic full ass and pussy is far too graphic ...a much more subtle one required although keep that one on your profile ...content poor lots of room to expand what you enjoy, your boundaries if there are any ? Something about if you wish to meet after talking on msn/phone in a public place etc after getting to know the couple or just pure lust and play on first meet ..your call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why ask advice then not do anything about, seems pointless to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But why ask advice then not do anything about, seems pointless to me"

I've come to the conclusion these types of threads are not real appeals for help but simply "look at me!"

We all looked didn't we: and whilst graphic I bet it floated the boats of many!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for those me you poor people who don't work nights on top me looking after your kids full time we don't always have the time to be immediate about there things. profile will change tomorrow at some point. thanks to those who are helpful, shame about those who are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you are offered advice that doesn't mean you are obliged to take it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for those me you poor people who don't work nights on top me looking after your kids full time we don't always have the time to be immediate about there things. profile will change tomorrow at some point. thanks to those who are helpful, shame about those who are not. "

You've obviously got time to reply to this thread maybe your time would have been better spent fixing your profile ????

After all, you did ask or advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... where's the green pukey icon when you need it ? "

Admin... Can we have a green pukey icon for RHCxx please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that the avatar is a graphic one.

I do think though that a profile is a personal choice. Even if someone puts up a thread asking people to look at it and comment - we are all doing that. The OP is not obliged to change anything in their profile. Neither do they have a time limit to do this. Its their profile and they can take the advice or not. People have already said that the avatar is too graphic, to keep going on and getting a bit more personal with comments is not that nice really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Updated. Hope receives less aggressive feedback than the last one.

I had told Devon before that it needed a womans touch on it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Hope the changes make the difference.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see the earlier pic, but imo your new pics are great. Deviant, I love the red nix with black lace trim - where did you buy them? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely much better pics that those you had originally!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Updated. Hope receives less aggressive feedback than the last one.

I had told Devon before that it needed a womans touch on it.

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You pictures are so much better..

And your genuine verification will be of great assistance...

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Didn't see the previous photos but can I ask where you got the boxer shorts from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see the previous photos but can I ask where you got the boxer shorts from?"

You can get them from Next,i got Paul some lol x

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By *awnpaulCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

Err, just wondering why the pics on your profile are the same as those on the profile that verified you as 'genuine' ............

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Didn't see the previous photos but can I ask where you got the boxer shorts from?

You can get them from Next,i got Paul some lol x"

Thanks, J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Err, just wondering why the pics on your profile are the same as those on the profile that verified you as 'genuine' ............"

Looks like she has verified her couples profile,didnt think that was allowed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't see the previous photos but can I ask where you got the boxer shorts from?

You can get them from Next,i got Paul some lol x

Thanks, J "

Your welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A better profile looks great deviant xxx

Good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry looked again and see you verified yourself, peeps will pick up on that sadly and will make you look not genuine because of it, sorry to say, not being nasty but I know what these forums are like

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By *awnpaulCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow


"Err, just wondering why the pics on your profile are the same as those on the profile that verified you as 'genuine' ............

Looks like she has verified her couples profile,didnt think that was allowed x"

Especially when she appears to have met herself....perhaps that's what she means by 'crypto talk' .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did think the same unless they both have the same dark hair and panties

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Heh, I see the verifications have been hidden now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heh, I see the verifications have been hidden now "

The other profile that had verified them has gone i think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats cause we cottoned onto them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmmmmm how very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should count themselves lucky that only the one got suspended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to think, when I called their original profile picture 'vile' a mod removed it.

Maybe I should have just called it 'dodgy' and i'dhave gotton away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They both should get suspended, fake verfications ruin this site for the genuine ones! But having 2 profiles with the same woman and panties on, do they think we are that thick???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the original pic was vile, we all thought that on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah we all thought it, but I said it lol

And we all know that threads asking for profile help have to be nice. Speak your mind and tell a few home truths and your post gets removed

Ho hum, c'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you too, why have forums if you can't speak your minds

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Because there are ways to say somethings and get a point across with out it being insulting

When people feel insulted they become defensive and then it all goes tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thats what we always say - speak the truth and be done with it ....

Tbh, we didn't think we'd broken any rules .. I know you can't name and shame, be abusive and all that jazz, but if someone asks for others' _iew on their profile and someone thinks that it, or any part of it is vile, why not say so ?

That's what we said - that the profile picture was vile, and we still stand by the fact that we thought it was vile. Granted others may have thought it was wonderful and they would have an equal right to say so in the forums should they so desire. Now if they'd said that it was wonderful I doubt that the post would have been removed ..

Funny old world innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fab is anyway

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

So what was the pic? I missed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what was the pic? I missed it "

I wondered that when i first read the post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

I pity the next person on here that asks for advice

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