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"We met in the site, so we know its mutual. However, we have been in situations where we are not sure the other is entirely comfortable ... and grown from it, by discussion and being open to the ideas and experiences of the other. Some we will never repeat, other situations we have changed the dynamic and become comfortable with. We are both very easy going in trying new experiences, but neither is happy if the other is not. We are both one hundred per cent able to talk about what we want and our deepest darkest desires. Pepper won't do anything unless she one hundred per cent wants to, black cop will try anything once. " Only quoting part because thats the part that rings true to us. I Cin got Ginger into the swinging and then into cuckolding. We talk though about our do's/don'ts and after every meet to make sure we're both comfortable still. I know there are desires I have that will never get explored but thats fine as wouldn't want Ginger to ever be doing something she's not happy to do and vice versa. Obviously with our particular kink/fetish if she does take the driving seat won't be a bad thing in my eyes as long as everything was still out in the open | |||
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"Late night discussion .... as per usual with us, and off the back of some of the thread here this evening. If you were a couple before you started swinging, where did the idea come from? Who started the ball rolling? If you did, how do you know your partner really wants to do it and is not doing it just to please you? Did you have to 'coerce' in any way to begin with, even emotionally use emotional tactics ... And, as a follow up, as it has changed, now what? I have heard, from many people, that often the man instigated, but when the woman gets a taste, she becomes the driver in it all, send even though he wants to back out and stop it all, she won't because she is enjoying it so much. Is this true for you? (don't think anyone would admit to it though) We met in the site, so we know its mutual. However, we have been in situations where we are not sure the other is entirely comfortable ... and grown from it, by discussion and being open to the ideas and experiences of the other. Some we will never repeat, other situations we have changed the dynamic and become comfortable with. We are both very easy going in trying new experiences, but neither is happy if the other is not. We are both one hundred per cent able to talk about what we want and our deepest darkest desires. Pepper won't do anything unless she one hundred per cent wants to, black cop will try anything once. " Easy .....The wife was a slut | |||
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"Couples .... Who started it?" First rule of marriage: If it's good, she started it, If it's bad, he started it. Or is that just us? Mr ddc | |||
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"Couples .... Who started it? First rule of marriage: If it's good, she started it, If it's bad, he started it. Or is that just us? Mr ddc" We did exactly the same with the wallpaper we put up in our son's room - if you like it, it was mum's idea, if you are not keen, it was dad's .. he liked it and I confessed - it was not my idea | |||
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"All very interesting reading as I think there is an assumption that Mr started it ... and Mrs was dragged along. We did find it weird suddenly swinging as a couple after being singles. Now the coupledom has totally taken over. I think if we continued or not, we would still talk about and share everything, and tackle everything together. that is the nature of our relationship. " Not with us, she made the profile then laid hints about threesomes. Only after about say two three weeks she told me about this site and the fact we had a profile.... I was shocked at first but thought hey this could be fun. | |||
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