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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi we newish but still very nervous .for first meets is it better to meet a genuine single male or a couple. Fem is curious and both Like to sample the lifestyle but what's best when starting off. Be nice to try a single fem but hard to find .

Advice from couples of females .

Lizi & Cal

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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Go to a club first. We did. It's less pressure than a private meet and you get to chat to a variety of people. That way you can make your own mind up safely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club first. We did. It's less pressure than a private meet and you get to chat to a variety of people. That way you can make your own mind up safely."

Great advice

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By *lexavierWoman
over a year ago

north birmingham

Join one of the social meets at a club, that way you are much more likely to find someone you have chatted to through here who knows exactly how you are feeling, plus they tend to have a lot more folks simply chattering, relaxing and catching up socially rather than feeling you're the only one not joining in.

Mind you, it works the other way too, there will be plenty of folks to play with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was thinking of club but both have public jobs and was looking for descreete private fun !

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Since you don't welcome the opinions of single men on this issue, suggest you stick to couples!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Which one is nervous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking of club but both have public jobs and was looking for descreete private fun !"

Why does that matter? Make a night of it & go to a club that isn't local to you. Everyone there is there for the same reason and you'll find that discretion is upmost in a good club. Plenty of people have respectable lives/jobs but we all have the same motive which is to relax and enjoy good company and perhaps good sex. You'll be fine once you've broken the ice, enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking of club but both have public jobs and was looking for descreete private fun !

Why does that matter? Make a night of it & go to a club that isn't local to you. Everyone there is there for the same reason and you'll find that discretion is upmost in a good club. Plenty of people have respectable lives/jobs but we all have the same motive which is to relax and enjoy good company and perhaps good sex. You'll be fine once you've broken the ice, enjoy! "

As was said above!

And as for discretion, its just the same as going to a swimming pool, your all there to get wet!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Smart dressed guy , only put that due to guys normally just have there own agenda due to some of mails me get . Want to take it slowly and be comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to club but if your gonna meet couples and males off this site makes sure they are verified, too many fakes on here, always have a social meet 1st over a coffee or a drink, don't dive straight into it

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Smart dressed guy , only put that due to guys normally just have there own agenda due to some of mails me get . Want to take it slowly and be comfortable "

Understood...was just having a giggle. Me and my kind do jump on these threads as a means promoting ourselves.

Good luck

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