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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Asking out of curiosity here; does the meet today-function work? It takes a while for us to arrange meets with another part, so we are curious how this function works out for people on here.

S

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We got our first ever meet on Fab by advertising in the Meets section with meet today...but that was the only time it did work, so who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does. Its the main way we meet others.

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By *H91Man
over a year ago

E

Depends what you're looking for. If you where looking for a single male it would probably work, but apart from that you may be struggling a bit more.

I had a couples profile on here with an old fb and that always seemed to be the case with us.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It has never worked for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes...sometimes no...lots of dreamers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never worked for me.

Generally most guys contact me to say they can't meet when I have requested but could I do between 9-10am the next morning (you get the picture).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sort of a luck thing for a single guy if a couple is looking but as a couple it definitely works I've had some random meets off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mee worked for us either, gonna test again though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys for you answers. I guess it is like some say, it might be easier to meet a single guy that way. But hey, nice to know it works for some, might try it out. :P

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By *ickomxxxMan
over a year ago

Cornwall

Meet today does work...had the best meet ever on a meet today basis..in fact have had several other meets on the spur of the day...so yes it does work..post your meet with a phone number, it sorts out the time wasters and dreamers..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meet today does work...had the best meet ever on a meet today basis..in fact have had several other meets on the spur of the day...so yes it does work..post your meet with a phone number, it sorts out the time wasters and dreamers.."

I agree that leaving a phone number is efficcient but it sounds a bit risky to leave a phone number. Had any rabbit boilers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I use it is when I'm looking for a meet on my Couoles profile. Yes it works but it does attract a lot of dreamers

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Asking out of curiosity here; does the meet today-function work? It takes a while for us to arrange meets with another part, so we are curious how this function works out for people on here.

S"

Just tried it for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent tried this but am thinking of trying it for this weekend. Not brimming with confidence though

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Perhaps it depends who is posting it

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

For single girls it works most of the time

for couples it works more often than not,

For single guys hardly ever works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've used it a couple of times. It seems to attract the wrong kind of people for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it don't work. I hardly put a meet up, here is London's meet today:

1 woman

10 couples

43 men

So you see women don't need to put one up lol, cos its a cock fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to talk to someone for ages before I meet so the meet today wouldn't work for me

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Has never worked for me, guy's say they can meet, but then back out as soon as you tell them how long it takes to get ready..... As if I walk around all day looking like my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the only way we play on here meet sign up... loads of message's...pick... play ...job done so yes it works for us everytime

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By *ickomxxxMan
over a year ago

Cornwall

I keep my number as a play phone--if they wish to waste time on it so be it--soon as they dont talk its bin time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For single girls it works most of the time

for couples it works more often than not,

For single guys hardly ever works.

"

And you can propose all those theories, how? Lol

As a single girl it has never worked for me.... As I stated earlier most guys contact me and try to arrange for another time rather than when I am specifically looking.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It rarely works for me as I'll get messages from men wanting to meet every day apart from the one I am available.

However 'Who's Near' on the mobile site works every time

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"It rarely works for me as I'll get messages from men wanting to meet every day apart from the one I am available.

However 'Who's Near' on the mobile site works every time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It rarely works for me as I'll get messages from men wanting to meet every day apart from the one I am available.

However 'Who's Near' on the mobile site works every time "

Whose near doesnt work on my phone

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It rarely works for me as I'll get messages from men wanting to meet every day apart from the one I am available.

However 'Who's Near' on the mobile site works every time

Whose near doesnt work on my phone "

That's a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in Manchester it worked perfectly well. But I think the men in Manchester might be more reliable and turn up when they say they are going to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It rarely works for me as I'll get messages from men wanting to meet every day apart from the one I am available.

However 'Who's Near' on the mobile site works every time

Whose near doesnt work on my phone

That's a shame "

especially when im available at short notice, it is yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It worked for me when I had a hotel for a few days. I think it was a lucky run though. I did another since and had much less fun.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

It's guaranteed to work when you pay for Platinum membership!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asking out of curiosity here; does the meet today-function work? It takes a while for us to arrange meets with another part, so we are curious how this function works out for people on here.

S"
We have had 30 offers today all from single (married) men.....no women no couples no tv/ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i often post meet today ,, and never get a meet ,, like last night ,,

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Thanks guys for you answers. I guess it is like some say, it might be easier to meet a single guy that way. But hey, nice to know it works for some, might try it out. :P"

A lot of single men in Stoke use the feature from what I see in my updates - some are looking for couples too.

Good luck xx

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

I have used it several times as a couple and as a single woman..worked fine..well when I say fine..sone of the meets were disasters but you take your chances with a spontaneous meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has worked a few times..last one was a few weeks back

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Sometimes.....I've had some last minute invitations which have led to me meeting some really good fun people.

Also I find it can be a carpe diem kind of thing where people you've chatted to for a while see you are looking the same day they are and - well seize the day!

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By *imandherindoorsCouple
over a year ago

chester

Works for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works brilliantly for us , we get at least one in ten who say they will meet turn up

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Never works for me, don't know why I still have mine up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes but dont usr often as I have a bunch of regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it don't work. I hardly put a meet up, here is London's meet today:

1 woman

10 couples

43 men

So you see women don't need to put one up lol, cos its a cock fest "

Hey shag, I just had a look + the good news is there are now 2 females looking to meet today.

The bad news is, there are now 147 guys advertising for today.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Not for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has never worked for us "

I am away abroad at the moment but I would love to make it change and work for you one of these day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us it hasn't most contact us for following day after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never worked for me.

Generally most guys contact me to say they can't meet when I have requested but could I do between 9-10am the next morning (you get the picture). "
why on earth would they want to put you off for a day phwarr x

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

It has worked for me in the past, probably more by luck than anything though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it don't work. I hardly put a meet up, here is London's meet today:

1 woman

10 couples

43 men

So you see women don't need to put one up lol, cos its a cock fest

Hey shag, I just had a look + the good news is there are now 2 females looking to meet today.

The bad news is, there are now 147 guys advertising for today."
Yes 2 women is good, yeah I guess as the evening comes more puts meets up, so you can say the meet ratio is 147 males to 2 women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For single girls it works most of the time

for couples it works more often than not,

For single guys hardly ever works.

And you can propose all those theories, how? Lol

As a single girl it has never worked for me.... As I stated earlier most guys contact me and try to arrange for another time rather than when I am specifically looking. "

Yeah that's what usually happens to me 'I see you're looking for a meet tonight..can you meet tomorrow'

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

can work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it don't work. I hardly put a meet up, here is London's meet today:

1 woman

10 couples

43 men

So you see women don't need to put one up lol, cos its a cock fest

Hey shag, I just had a look + the good news is there are now 2 females looking to meet today.

The bad news is, there are now 147 guys advertising for today.Yes 2 women is good, yeah I guess as the evening comes more puts meets up, so you can say the meet ratio is 147 males to 2 women."

Mind you, 50 of them are mine.

It's a numbers game right ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it. May do one day

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Well had a meet up for the last two days. No replies and not one person has even looked at profile today.

I believe you have to have faith when posting as a single guy in the hope that one day a lady will respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it don't work. I hardly put a meet up, here is London's meet today:

1 woman

10 couples

43 men

So you see women don't need to put one up lol, cos its a cock fest

Hey shag, I just had a look + the good news is there are now 2 females looking to meet today.

The bad news is, there are now 147 guys advertising for today.Yes 2 women is good, yeah I guess as the evening comes more puts meets up, so you can say the meet ratio is 147 males to 2 women.

Mind you, 50 of them are mine.

It's a numbers game right ??"
That's right and yes its the numbers game there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never posted a meet but im actually free next Friday so I'm going to advertise and get a head start! Hopefully I'll get some interest but with the current ratio its a challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna be using that function a bit over the next year because I won't know from one day to the next when I'll be free, but I've had no luck from posting and the near me seems to like York in preference to Nottingham sometimes life's rich tapestry and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has worked on the odd occasion but very hit nd miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very strange adds in 'Meet today' usually

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

It's worked for me x

But then I totally marmite x

If you want what I offe - bingo x

If not better luck next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never tried it. May do one day "

Haha as if you need to. Bet your diary is full

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Has worked for us. But we have also had some failures

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Asking out of curiosity here; does the meet today-function work? It takes a while for us to arrange meets with another part, so we are curious how this function works out for people on here.

S"

I have met a few couples by putting up a meet now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked for us a few hours ago

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By *tallionExoticaMan
over a year ago

Islington

Its worked for, though not all the time.

But then, when you've got so many men listing meets, its easy to get lost in the crowd.

That's why I also update my status + Put a description of what I'm looking for.

If it interests anyone, they wink / message.

Most of the time its more about looking for people who're in the same wavelength as me on what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve used it - usually last minute for an unexpected free playtime not planning ahead

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Yep, " meet today" so does work!- Less time for either partner to get the jitters so all you're left with is the excited anticipation.

Some of the best meetings I've had have been short notice.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Yep, " meet today" so does work!- Less time for either partner to get the jitters so all you're left with is the excited anticipation.

Some of the best meetings I've had have been short notice.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

We know a couple that put them on all the time and it just makes them look desperate in our eyes, they never get any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never worked for me...and I've tried it many many times.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Doesn't work for me.

I spend 8 hours on there yesterday looking for a hotel meet for last night. All it attracted was everything i wasn't looking for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never worked for us.... Only get messaged when we aren't looking.

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By *otter coupleCouple
over a year ago

pdi cumbria

looking to meet today long beach LA couples drink & fun xxhorny soft swing only

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