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By *heekyScouse1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Hi all, been on here a couple of months now and wondering where i'm going wrong, i've read a few of the forum posts and understand that patience is a virtue and everyone has their own likes and dislikes etc but was wondering if anyone could possibly give me any pointers or advice regarding my profile. I always read people's profile's and if i meet their requirements and message them i am always very polite etc, i did meet a girl a few times when i first started out and got verified by her but she no longer uses the site so the verification disappeared, thanks for any advice, tips etc, all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don't think profiles matter too much.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Read a few of the forum posts about profiles, then look objectively at yours and ask yourself if any of that advice is relevant to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right ok. Well in my opinion - first of all, get rid of the legal thing - it's total rubbish and adds bulk to your profile unnecessarily. Also - in the nicest possible way, what the hell is that bit about trying to give a fuck... etc at the end???

I'd put a little more in about what you're looking for and what you like perhaps - at the moment it feels a bit like "sex with any woman who will have me."

I have to ask also - the first pic where you are crouched over - what is going on?? It's very small so you can't see it, and it just looks a little strange, if you don't mind me saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, profiles that start off with "just left a boring relationship" are an instant turn off for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profiles a little on the negative side

Borin relationship etc

And attempting ta give a fuck bit lol

Also get yaself to some of the many socials and actually meet people off here in a social environment you will be surprised at the response xx

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

As Soapy has said to us your profile does seem a little on the negative side and really fails to give an impression of the real you. It sounds as though you have given up on relationships and decided to try this just to get laid.

The so called legal disclaimer is total nonsense (not your fault, many peeps put it on but has no legal standing whatsoever)

I'm sure you will get some good advice here and good luck

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Oh and another thing as a single male you are going to have a heap load of competition in this game so your profile does really need to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, profiles that start off with "just left a boring relationship" are an instant turn off for me! "

I agree - anyone who feels that it's ok to publicly trash a relationship they had with someone they once cared for is a major turn off. There are some things we don't need to know. The fact you're genuinely single is sufficient information.

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By *heekyScouse1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

thank you all for your comments and pointers, going to have a go at sorting the profile out, watch this space lol

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By *heekyScouse1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Well that was quick and painless, hope its a bit better now, as always, any comments or pointers will be greatly appreciated, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt see the old one but the new one looks ok, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the profile i have just looked at seems fine to me hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you for taking on board some of the suggestions made to you.

Your profile is appealing, and your smiling, happy, handsome face an added bonus.

I hope you have loads of fun here.

Erm...post that gorgeous bum pic on the "men's bum" thread and give the other ladies a treat!!!

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By *heekyScouse1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Just want to say thanks to everyone for the comments etc. Oh miss V, i added my bum pic to the thread and thanks for the comment lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be yourself mate and for me polite and respectful is a must. but it can be difficult on here as a single guy sometimes. stick with it there are some really great people though. good luck.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Looks all right to me. Good luck.

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By *heekyScouse1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Cheers peeps

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