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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my f.b have arranged a meet tonight with an (un-verified) couple. When we try to send them any messages now, we can't because it says that we are 'blocked/blocked them (which we haven't) or their account has been suspended'. Text messages from them say that it is a blip on Fabs system! The question is, do we still drive over to them for the meet?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you chat with them on the phone?

and how far do you have to go to meet them?

can you cam with them on msn?

but my gut feeling is if you are having doughts about them follow your instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would'nt risk it sounds too dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On probability would guess that they not likely to show -- which is a shame on their part as you are clearly very sexy!!"

xx

R&E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it comes up with that message then they've blocked you. I'd say a big no no!! Could always ask admin if there's a blip but I think someone's taking the piss.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I would be really wary of them, I don't think I'd waste any more time with them, sound very dodgy. Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Just had a thought, ask one of your friends to try to look at their profile, see if they can access it. Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, was going to do that next. I will get asking now. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

F.B. has chatted with the male. They are about half an hour away and not sure about the cam because f.b. has arranged the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how does he feel about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit doubtful. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit doubtful. Lol."

I wouldnt travel all that way sounds dodgy x

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By *hebrummiesCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We always have a back-up plan, checking to see if there are any nice local restaurants to where we have planned to meet etc, that way, if its a no-meet, we still have a good evening...

However, if you think someone is messing around, simply explain you would be happier meeting another time as with the weather etc you don't want to take a risk, explain the situation to them, (as you have here, perhaps even direct them to the thread) if they're genuine they will understand, if not, well, like as not you'll find out from their response to that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask for a landline number,if they are unwilling to give that,fair bet they are wind ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ask for a landline number,if they are unwilling to give that,fair bet they are wind ups"

I think your wrong there. We would never give a landline number out or expect to get one.

I won't even give my normal mobile number out.

KAtie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree about the landline....I would never give mine out. We are gonna go for it anyway. Sure we will have some naughty fun even if the meet does fall through. Watch this space...... LOL.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

must be a nice pub near there anyway.by the way we r in swindon soon and looking for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

under normal circumstances neither would we,but as you have pointed out these arent really normal circumstances.

hope everything does turn out ok for you guys and it isnt a wasted journey and you all have a great evening x

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By *hebrummiesCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

lol, somehow I suspect you probably have a few other "back-up plans" now after this post!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm back. They were genuine but their account was suspending for putting a phone number on there! Anyway, turned out that the type of meet wasn't my thing, so yes, resorted to back up plan and now have a big smile on my face and sore patches on my knees.

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"I'm back. They were genuine but their account was suspending for putting a phone number on there! Anyway, turned out that the type of meet wasn't my thing, so yes, resorted to back up plan and now have a big smile on my face and sore patches on my knees. "
absolutely wicked !!! loving that made me smile

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