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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. I am trying to set a meet with this guy. On first meet I usually just do oral see how we go and anal later.

He wants anal straight away what do people think

Katie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yer my thinking. To be kindest it's a couple I really want to play with both but he won't less he can do anal with me.

Not been with a couple before

Katie

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

What do you want??

It's good to change the record occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it."

Well thats nailed that one (so to speak)

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yer my thinking. To be kindest it's a couple I really want to play with both but he won't less he can do anal with me.

Not been with a couple before

Katie "

Just tell them how you are feeling, that you might want to play that way, you might not. If anyone said to us "we'll only play if you promise to do this", that would be the end of the conversation. They wouldnt be the right people for us.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it."

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I am trying to set a meet with this guy. On first meet I usually just do oral see how we go and anal later.

He wants anal straight away what do people think

Katie "

It shouldn't really matter what we think, it's what you're comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anal never for me but i wouldnt meet someone who would only meet if i was to do a certain something - worries me does that -

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

"

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right

Don't promise anything beforehand

No let downs then is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?"

Then maybe they shouldnt meet as both parties want different things and ahould find someone who would want to do what they want to do. But no one should be expected to do something they arent comfortable. I would suggest that you should both find someone more suitable to your needs.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?

Then maybe they shouldnt meet as both parties want different things and ahould find someone who would want to do what they want to do. But no one should be expected to do something they arent comfortable. I would suggest that you should both find someone more suitable to your needs."

Exactly. No-one is wrong, no-one is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yer my thinking. To be kindest it's a couple I really want to play with both but he won't less he can do anal with me.

Not been with a couple before

Katie

Just tell them how you are feeling, that you might want to play that way, you might not. If anyone said to us "we'll only play if you promise to do this", that would be the end of the conversation. They wouldnt be the right people for us."

Exactly pushy demanding people male or female not interested straight out the door. (BTW this written by the male of this couple )

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?"

But what if the guy changes his mind?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?

But what if the guy changes his mind? "

Which guy?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?

But what if the guy changes his mind?

Which guy?"

The guy in the couple who is being so demanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a specific request. If you aren't happy.. Dont go.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.

this totally.

both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.

If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?

Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?

But what if the guy changes his mind?

Which guy?

The guy in the couple who is being so demanding."

But what if the CD changes his mind?

And why is it demanding? He's merely saying he'll only meet if he gets to shag the CD up the arse. It's a condition, not a demand.

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend


"If you want to do it, then do it.

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it."
As ever, the voice of common sense round here.

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