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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id love to give my hubby an mmff but ive never had one , whats the best way to start ? what sort of Cpl would be best for us , a Cpl like us who haven't had one yet or a Cpl who have done a fair few , wow stressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it felt better meeting a couple who has a bit of experience as I found the other couple could be just as, or even more nervous than us and sort of just made it more difficult. Try not to stress about this, it's supposed to be fun and without pressure. Try going to clubs where you can talk to couples without expectation and figure out what you are comfortable with and what you don't like.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Either way will be fine. I think it has more to do with a couples attitude rather than experience. Our first was with another new couple, but as long as you are all happy to only play as fast as the slowest person you'll be fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't found a couple for mfmf yet either, not as easy as it sounds is it lol. Still, we don't mind taking time to find them, it's definitely not something to be stressed about, enjoy the search, we do

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

We usually meet in clubs. It's a nice relaxed environment. Get talking to some people in there and see where it leads. Absolutely no pressure. We always enjoy talking to people in clubs.

If we were meeting for the first time again we'd prefer more experienced. Don't get stressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was probably the most easy thing we have arranged to be honest. Had a few in clubs and then also met up with people from here or attended parties.

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

OP - One of your pics seems to show mmff - how did hubby organise that one? (I'm assuming he took part as you've never had one?) perhaps you could follow the same process?

Failing that the suggestions of a club are a great idea

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