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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think veris should be anonymous ?

I do.

Veris show you exist. You meet and give an insite into you from another persons perspective.

I've read on other threads that people look to see who you played with and your taste in playmate can put them off. Perhaps they seem out of your league because they played with someone stunning or vice versa.

As for bi guys, I often don't get veried because guys don't want people to know they like tgirls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe an option for them to be anonymous , but not compulsory .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The snag with it being optional is where a guy has an anonymous veri; everyone will assume it's another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I dont care who knows who I've met if I dont want people to know I wouldn't show them and I wouldn't want people to be ashamed to show mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it could be an option but you eitherx choose to show all as names or all as anonymous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then just the green tick should suffice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not ashamed of anyone I've been with but the vast majority haven't veried me because they are listed straight.

Even if I hid my veris they probably still wouldn't want to write one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then just the green tick should suffice.

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Ah but some people haven't been veried for a year or more. Their situation may have changed and they are now a single guy trading under the guise of the couple they used to be part of.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe, But this also links to other threads about fake profiles. We use the veris to check the profile is genuine I.e are veris from other genuine profiles. If the veris were anonymous then there is no way of knowing the person hasn't just verified themselves from another fake profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only got my recent ones showing. People get new friends that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe, But this also links to other threads about fake profiles. We use the veris to check the profile is genuine I.e are veris from other genuine profiles. If the veris were anonymous then there is no way of knowing the person hasn't just verified themselves from another fake profile. "

I get your point. Shame some abuse the system and spoil it.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

You already have options. If you don't want your name verifying someone then don't verify. If you don't want to show who's verified you ,again you have the choice to show which verifications you want. Sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe, But this also links to other threads about fake profiles. We use the veris to check the profile is genuine I.e are veris from other genuine profiles. If the veris were anonymous then there is no way of knowing the person hasn't just verified themselves from another fake profile.

I get your point. Shame some abuse the system and spoil it. "

But how would you know its a fake profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that's a problem whatever you do. Fake profiles are an unavoidable scourge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think veris should be anonymous ?

I do.

Veris show you exist. You meet and give an insite into you from another persons perspective.

I've read on other threads that people look to see who you played with and your taste in playmate can put them off. Perhaps they seem out of your league because they played with someone stunning or vice versa.

As for bi guys, I often don't get veried because guys don't want people to know they like tgirls. "

No, I think veri's are fine as they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might as well get rid of them altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at the kind of people and places that a person likes is part of my selection process. It gives me an insight into who they are and if we might get along. The verification words themselves don't make much difference to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur.. Since my new profile where I have a displayed meet with a tgirl my messages are down big time. In addition I do hear that people use the displayed verifications as a means to shop for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really you only need one veri. Anything more is just showing off. Maybe something to say you met recently to show that you're still active.

Eg.

Clem fandango.

Verified.

Last meet: july 2015.

Might stop the lamp post marking.

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By *andL-LiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Huyton


"Do you think veris should be anonymous ?

I do.

Veris show you exist. You meet and give an insite into you from another persons perspective.

I've read on other threads that people look to see who you played with and your taste in playmate can put them off. Perhaps they seem out of your league because they played with someone stunning or vice versa.

As for bi guys, I often don't get veried because guys don't want people to know they like tgirls. "

We would do more than just veri you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are saying no need to know who you are verified by,would you be honest if people asked you questions about where you meet and who? People use verifications as filters too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fine as it is you can choose to display or not to display, and if you crave verifications from those who will not leave one, then dont meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its fine as it is you can choose to display or not to display, and if you crave verifications from those who will not leave one, then dont meet them"

Exactly. You get your met in person tick,you don't have to display them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The snag with it being optional is where a guy has an anonymous veri; everyone will assume it's another guy. "

Maybe it could still say which type of profile it's from (M/F/CPL/TV etc) but have the option for the poster to keep their username hidden?

Sasha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saying which type of profile the veri comes from is why many people deline one from people like me.

I'm not short of veris myself but most guys I play with are 'straight' and so don't want to be judged by others for their choices.

I like to show what people say about me so I would like to show the verifications left for me. I also like to show I've been verified recently so potential dates can see I havent become a timewaster or let my figure go!

I think it'd be nice for people to be able to leave a complimentary veri without worrying what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying which type of profile the veri comes from is why many people deline one from people like me.

I'm not short of veris myself but most guys I play with are 'straight' and so don't want to be judged by others for their choices.

I like to show what people say about me so I would like to show the verifications left for me. I also like to show I've been verified recently so potential dates can see I havent become a timewaster or let my figure go!

I think it'd be nice for people to be able to leave a complimentary veri without worrying what others think."

Yes we agree. We like to display what people say about us (as long as it's positive haha!) But some people prefer to be more discreet and we think there should be an option if they wish x

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