FabSwingers.com forum: Dry clubs v Wet clubs

By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

No, not a fight, but what is the format in dry clubs , like Xtasia? We use Chams, I wear a towel Mrs W wears nice lingerie or mesh dress etc, we like it.

How does it work in the dry clubs? What do men wear, do they strip off there and then in a play room and get dressed again after play? Any advice greatfully received

M+D.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

"No, not a fight, but what is the format in dry clubs , like Xtasia? We use Chams, I wear a towel Mrs W wears nice lingerie or mesh dress etc, we like it.

How does it work in the dry clubs? What do men wear, do they strip off there and then in a play room and get dressed again after play? Any advice greatfully received

M+D. "

Are these clubs with a wetroom for watersports? Not sure I understand

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

How does it work in the dry clubs? What do men wear, do they strip off there and then in a play room and get dressed again after play?"

Yes in the three that I've been to: Unit 18, Azzures and Route 69.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Oh no! Sorry should have been clearer. We refer to Chams as a wet club in that people wear towels and use the jacuzzi area a fair bit.

Other clubs have dance music and seem more nightclub style.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Ahh, that's me ... don't do clubs enough, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wear the same in any dress down club wet or dry - a pair of boxers, personally I don't think wondering round in a towel is a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dry club everytime for us prefer to see nicely dressed men and women in sexy outfits can't think of anything as unsexy as guys just in towels and boxers or women for that matter

Only time we ever went to a kinda wet club felt all sexy and fun in the bar everyone nicely dressed, then had to go to the lockers to get into towels to go to the play area what a passion killer, just felt like being at the local swimming pool lol x

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Ok, we understand preferences as to club type, the main question is you go dressed up,great - no problem, but then what? If you are in a play area do you just drop your clothes in a pile , play , then get dressed again ? And the same again if you find another connection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dry for us too.

Getting out of a hot tub & then shivering as your body adjust to air temperature is not attractive or inviting.

Then there's erhm hygiene ...you're essentially sharing a bath with 20+ strangers (who are all horny & leaking fluids)...the hot tub water is likely gonna be dirtier than the sea off Rio De Janeiro http://tinyurl.com/pw8z2nl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, we understand preferences as to club type, the main question is you go dressed up,great - no problem, but then what? If you are in a play area do you just drop your clothes in a pile , play , then get dressed again ? And the same again if you find another connection? "

Every club is different, perhaps enquire with the club your intending to go to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as Dry Clubs are fun...Wet clubs tend to be easier for me to interact and chat to people..naked in a hot tub tends to be alot easier for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will depend on the club. I only know for La Chambre that people either kit off in the individual rooms or strip down leaving their clothes in a locker (different rules apply to single guys, this again will depend on the club).

I would imagine lockers or similar would be available in most clubs

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"No, not a fight, but what is the format in dry clubs , like Xtasia? We use Chams, I wear a towel Mrs W wears nice lingerie or mesh dress etc, we like it.

How does it work in the dry clubs? What do men wear, do they strip off there and then in a play room and get dressed again after play? Any advice greatfully received

M+D. "
Just ask the club, lol.

Guys dress smartly, to impress, ladies dress erotically, to tease as long as they are comfortable. Like going out for an evenings date, maybe a dance or two, chatting to other sexy couples around the club. You may find you prefer not to see everything! Dancing gets more erotic throughout the night. Play can occur at any time, can be a quick blow job with flies down, to far more involved play where you hang your clothes on the pegs in the room to get down and dirty...and then dress again back to club. Showers available of course for use at any point. Hope that helps. Many folks who use Chams have been to us as well, so just ask around the club. Some love both, others will have definite views, best bet, try both and see what you like personally.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Thanks, it was the actual mechanics of dressing and undressing and dressing again that we wanted to understand, certainly not a criticism of any club. We will be visiting Xtasia and other clubs as well as returning to Chams. We just like to know how things work so we can plan accordingly.

Thanks again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As much as Dry Clubs are fun...Wet clubs tend to be easier for me to interact and chat to people..naked in a hot tub tends to be alot easier for me

We agree. We found the two dru clubs we have attended were lacking in play and having to get undressed And dressed a right ballache.

To answer the op question... The clubs we went to yes, you took your clothes off in a pile or one you hung them up... And then got dressed again x

We went to Chams today and both ended up happily naked and then our towels x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We love wet clubs, its wonderful to be up close with so many sexy naked people enjoying themselves.

A decent hot tub or pool is one of the main attractions for us, otherwise we may as well just arrange meets at home.

I also love the build up of sexual tension in a hot tub when playing with other full swappers, you start with the soft swapping and you really want to full swap, but its not like condoms would work very well underwater, so it extends the pleasure until you cant take it any longer and have to get out and fuck each others brains out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been to wet clubs love them

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"I'd wear the same in any dress down club wet or dry - a pair of boxers, personally I don't think wondering round in a towel is a good look. "

Bang on the money....

We LOVE Chams apart from the number of people who shuffle around in towels... I mean... Come on guys and girls.

So hoping that lots of people make the effort on Sunday bonk holiday party. We certainly will??

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"No, not a fight, but what is the format in dry clubs , like Xtasia? We use Chams, I wear a towel Mrs W wears nice lingerie or mesh dress etc, we like it.

How does it work in the dry clubs? What do men wear, do they strip off there and then in a play room and get dressed again after play? Any advice greatfully received

M+D. Just ask the club, lol.

Wot he said....

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Thanks, it was the actual mechanics of dressing and undressing and dressing again that we wanted to understand, certainly not a criticism of any club. We will be visiting Xtasia and other clubs as well as returning to Chams. We just like to know how things work so we can plan accordingly.

Thanks again. "

A dry Club is like a night club with sexy extras. Our experience of one such Club is that people dress to impress and that on its own is much more sexy than a flaccid, threadbare towel.

You hit it off with someone in a regular nightclub and you go outside for a knee trembler up against the wall outside or you go home with them. In a swingers club, you hit it off with someone and there is a place you can go in the club to get it on, get showered after and continue the party after the fun.

It is a tough call to say if a wet or dry club is better they are completely different. Best of all we have the choice these days and we can enjoy both - depending on the mood.

We are going to Xtasia (dry club) next Saturday night for a party night and we know that almost everyone will be dressed to impress and the music will be banging and we will love it. Next day we are going to Chams (wet club) for what we know is going to be a wild afternoon and evening - but in a different way and we will love that - albeit we hope that most people reject the towel concept and go for sexy underwear instead.

Both are great places and we should be grateful and happy that we have the choice to go to a place that suits our mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I couldn't decide whether to reply to this thread or not....I have a bit of an issue with the whole 'dress to impress' philosophy. Dress to impress who? For me I feel the sexiest when I am the most comfortable and that varies depending on my mood. Sometimes that involves corsets, stockings and thigh high boots, sometimes bra, knickers and stilettos and other times a towel will do just nicely.

I much prefer wet clubs....I can vary my attire to suit my mood and whilst it is rare that I will wear a towel at Chams, I find it can certainly provide some level ground and ease people's nerves. I love a chilled Sunday afternoon in the jacuzzi.

Whilst I have frequented dry clubs more times than I can remember, getting in and out of a little black dress really is a bugger!

Ali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This all seems a bit confusing to me. A newbie if I go to a club. A stupid question but no mention of towelling robes or use your own?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"This all seems a bit confusing to me. A newbie if I go to a club. A stupid question but no mention of towelling robes or use your own?

I cant recall ever seeing a robe or dressing gown, just towels that are provided by the club

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

My local is a dry club, think sexy, chic nightclub. Dress to impress, chat, dance and get to know each other then upstairs, undress, get comfy and play. Then maybe dress and back for more dancing ! Of course some clothing maybe removed for sexy dancing and some doesn't get put back on until it is time to leave !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This all seems a bit confusing to me. A newbie if I go to a club. A stupid question but no mention of towelling robes or use your own?

I cant recall ever seeing a robe or dressing gown, just towels that are provided by the club "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both but much prefer dry clubs as I like to make an effort. And wet clubs play havoc with my quiff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy both but much prefer dry clubs as I like to make an effort. And wet clubs play havoc with my quiff!"

Same for us (except for the quiff).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer wet clubs. I'm not really into clothes and I don't own any "nice" underwear.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Each have their up sides and down sides for me, but I seem to gravitate more towards wet clubs. mainly because once my clothes are off, I prefer them to stay off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also don't like the way that guys are told to 'dress to impress' (i.e. a suit or similar) and women are told to 'dress sexy' or wear lingerie.

I can rock a suit more than I can rock a dress on any day of the week.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Thanks yet again for the replies.

As we said , this wasn't intended to cause any friction, people have their preferences and that's that, but we understand the format more now and can plan accordingly.

Hope to see all of you in both types of club!

M+D

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Oh I couldn't decide whether to reply to this thread or not....I have a bit of an issue with the whole 'dress to impress' philosophy. Dress to impress who? For me I feel the sexiest when I am the most comfortable and that varies depending on my mood. Sometimes that involves corsets, stockings and thigh high boots, sometimes bra, knickers and stilettos and other times a towel will do just nicely.

Whilst I have frequented dry clubs more times than I can remember, getting in and out of a little black dress really is a bugger!

Ali x"

Thanks for that, lovely profile BTW. Hope to see you when we come up there.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"This all seems a bit confusing to me. A newbie if I go to a club. A stupid question but no mention of towelling robes or use your own?

They don't normally have robes, I always have my own in my shag bag which I leave in a locker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd wear the same in any dress down club wet or dry - a pair of boxers, personally I don't think wondering round in a towel is a good look.

Bang on the money....

We LOVE Chams apart from the number of people who shuffle around in towels... I mean... Come on guys and girls.

So hoping that lots of people make the effort on Sunday bonk holiday party. We certainly will??"

Well i wear a towel (at times) but i don't think i shuffle

Personally i only look at the people wearing towels as any item of clothing there turns me right off, can't stand it at a club.

We seem to do ok in our towels, it's a good job we all like different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer wet clubs. I'm not really into clothes and I don't own any "nice" underwear."

I agree with you, i wear what i like when not at a club and a towel when at chams, i do have "nice" underwear but thats cus I like it and not to impress others at a club ... well said you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also don't like the way that guys are told to 'dress to impress' (i.e. a suit or similar) and women are told to 'dress sexy' or wear lingerie.

I can rock a suit more than I can rock a dress on any day of the week."

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i trust i know what you are getting at..personally i go to jaydees which has a hot tub and a dance floor..

its not a dress down club which means you are expected to wear only a towel undies in the wet area/ play area...

people there, dress as they feel comfortable, sometimes changing during to evening to something a little more risque...as for after the hot tub, or playing, we do what we want, get dressed again, run around in knickers, undies or towels...nothing is frowned upon, just do what makes you comfortable...be happy and enjoy your next club adventure

by the way i do this in other clubs too....no one bats, more than an eyelid

but i avoid dress down clubs the rules make me tetchy

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

To clarify, When at Chams I, (male) wear a towel, I find it comfortable and convenient. Mrs W wears "nice" undies and/ or a mesh or see through mini dress. (Usually just the dress).

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I like both types of clubs, but with the dressed type, people dump their clothes in a pile, guys stay half dressed, or with the dreaded socks left on, then after play, they rummage all over the floor, trying to find what item of clothing belongs to who and collecting loose change that has fallen on the floor and this is awfully off putting, if it's in a large room and others are still playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also don't like the way that guys are told to 'dress to impress' (i.e. a suit or similar) and women are told to 'dress sexy' or wear lingerie.

I can rock a suit more than I can rock a dress on any day of the week."

I feel that men sometimes face a dresscode more akin to 1980s clubbing, no trainers, no jeans. Smart casual is my preferred look but I know clubs that I wouldn't get in to in Jeans and a shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also don't like the way that guys are told to 'dress to impress' (i.e. a suit or similar) and women are told to 'dress sexy' or wear lingerie.

I can rock a suit more than I can rock a dress on any day of the week.

I feel that men sometimes face a dresscode more akin to 1980s clubbing, no trainers, no jeans. Smart casual is my preferred look but I know clubs that I wouldn't get in to in Jeans and a shirt. "

Got to agree here.

I only own shirts for formal occasions, interview etc

If we're attending a none dress down club I'll wear jeans, a tight fitted jumper and Rockville ugg boots, it's a look that works for me and have never been refused attendance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also don't like the way that guys are told to 'dress to impress' (i.e. a suit or similar) and women are told to 'dress sexy' or wear lingerie.

I can rock a suit more than I can rock a dress on any day of the week.

I feel that men sometimes face a dresscode more akin to 1980s clubbing, no trainers, no jeans. Smart casual is my preferred look but I know clubs that I wouldn't get in to in Jeans and a shirt. "

Yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also don't like the way that guys are told to 'dress to impress' (i.e. a suit or similar) and women are told to 'dress sexy' or wear lingerie.

I can rock a suit more than I can rock a dress on any day of the week.

I feel that men sometimes face a dresscode more akin to 1980s clubbing, no trainers, no jeans. Smart casual is my preferred look but I know clubs that I wouldn't get in to in Jeans and a shirt.

Got to agree here.

I only own shirts for formal occasions, interview etc

If we're attending a none dress down club I'll wear jeans, a tight fitted jumper and Rockville ugg boots, it's a look that works for me and have never been refused attendance. "

Yum

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We tend to prefer dry clubs for dressing up, but find that we get damp quite quickly!

We have tried both and so long as the mood is sexy, we're happy anywhere

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over a year ago

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

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"We love wet clubs, its wonderful to be up close with so many sexy naked people enjoying themselves.

A decent hot tub or pool is one of the main attractions for us, otherwise we may as well just arrange meets at home.

This

I'd like to try a dry club though, just to see what it's like. Would love to visit a club in England sometime

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