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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

We are considering our first mmf.

The gf is very keen and I think it could be horny.

Just looking for some advise as to whether you think we should go somewhere like chams to find a guy or put a post up here.

We are going to effrenata too so that is an option but would like to test the water first

I guess we are quite fussy and want it to be someone we get on ok with.

Would love some thoughts from people xx

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Normally this question is asked by those far less experienced than yourselves.

I would say you are more than qualified to do it either way.

A club has the benefit of quantity and definitely no "no shows" as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha I guess so.

We have played with couples and bi fems previously though and never actually done the mmf thing.

I guess it's just nerves.

Thanks though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recommend club. Select your 'victim' and use a private room. Easy exit strategy if things go pearshaped, but I bet they won't

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Well, you probably have experienced the mmf aspects at some point during play....maybe when one lady needs a break

You both look good and have group experience. It will be easy peasy, booby squeezey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first mmf a few weeks ago

From a male pov it's strange but good the mrs loved it and that's the main thing

We go on verifications

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our mmf threesomes have been from fab. There are two things to consider (1) from fab there is the very real probability of a no show, from our experience. But (2) at clubs, if you're picky you may not find a single guy you fancy enough to play with (which has been my experience). So which is more of a concern for you?

Hope that helps.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to disagree with the club thing.

I think if you choose well on this site, not easy as everyone will point out, go for a social first to see how well you get on. If all three of you get on well, discuss it with your partner and you are both happy invite or meet the lucky man at a later date.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I tend to disagree with the club thing.

I think if you choose well on this site, not easy as everyone will point out, go for a social first to see how well you get on. If all three of you get on well, discuss it with your partner and you are both happy invite or meet the lucky man at a later date. "

Agree 100% with this unless the couple just want a quickie. Definitely best if all get on and can have a laugh. All three should enjoy I think.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton


"Most of our mmf threesomes have been from fab. There are two things to consider (1) from fab there is the very real probability of a no show, from our experience. But (2) at clubs, if you're picky you may not find a single guy you fancy enough to play with (which has been my experience). So which is more of a concern for you?

Hope that helps.

-Courtney"

We have pretty much given up on arranging this on here and have been going to clubs mostly and have found finding a guy she fancies quite difficult in the club environment so can testify to this being the case.

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By *punkyhelmet5Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

I have done quite a few MMF now at clubs and home. If your doing it at home choose somebody uve been.chatting with before or even.met before. Makes you feel more,at ease and relaxed and rather having those 1st meet nerves. Good luck enjoy can be really good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're hoping for this ourselves at some point, ideally after we've had our first full swap with a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to disagree with the club thing.

I think if you choose well on this site, not easy as everyone will point out, go for a social first to see how well you get on. If all three of you get on well, discuss it with your partner and you are both happy invite or meet the lucky man at a later date. "

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I tend to disagree with the club thing.

I think if you choose well on this site, not easy as everyone will point out, go for a social first to see how well you get on. If all three of you get on well, discuss it with your partner and you are both happy invite or meet the lucky man at a later date. "

Do you disagree because you don't go to clubs?

I am picky but I have never failed to find a guy for an MMF or several for MMMMFs at a club.

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By *urious couple 69Couple
over a year ago

east durham


"We're hoping for this ourselves at some point, ideally after we've had our first full swap with a couple."

Came here to say this

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

Hard as it is to remember( literally ) I remember my first threesome........was very nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard as it is to remember( literally ) I remember my first threesome........was very nervous"

I was too,and very nearly bottled it . . . . Sometimes you've just gotta take the bull by the horns. .

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