FabSwingers.com forum: Sick of ignorance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. Been on the site a few months now with no success....have had a couple of email conversations but nothing more. I am sick of being ignored when I mail someone who's profile needs I seem to match. And yes I know this subject has been covered on the forums before, but I really get annoyed when I see my messages have been deleted without as much as a "Thanks but no thanks". I never contact people unless I meet what they are asking for, and I always write a polite message. So why the ignorance? Its starting to pi$$ me off now!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yup it is shocking absolutely shocking.

so is famine, the homeless sleeping rough tonight and wars..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ok if you have seen this subject on the forums before did you read any of the replies?

Im only saying this because I doubt that the responses will be any different in this thread

If you're only having a rant then I hope you feel better for it now

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

then read the replies on the other posts on this subject or go straight to frequently asked q and a s and its fully covered there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not ignorance - maybe they just don't like the look or the sound of you.

After all, unless one has been passed recently, there is no law which states anyone has to like you or reply to you

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

And just as good a reply to their reply too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just didnt feel the need to be told to f00k off. Uncalled for.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Just didnt feel the need to be told to f00k off. Uncalled for.

And they won't appreciate being called idiots either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another great example about how not to win friends and influence people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway why are you still here?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"anyway why are you still here?"

I don't think he said anywhere on the thread that he was leaving!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Now play nice everyone

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Hi all. Been on the site a few months now with no success....have had a couple of email conversations but nothing more. I am sick of being ignored when I mail someone who's profile needs I seem to match. And yes I know this subject has been covered on the forums before, but I really get annoyed when I see my messages have been deleted without as much as a "Thanks but no thanks". I never contact people unless I meet what they are asking for, and I always write a polite message. So why the ignorance? Its starting to pi$$ me off now!

okay if a person gets hundreds of replies to an ad why do you think YOU are somehow owed....

if you don't take rejection well then to be honest Swinging is probably not for you.... Sorry but I am so sick to death of the endless whinges than I may as well tell it like it is....

the site DOES make it work for you... for example...

have you ever gone to any of the countless socials... if not why not?

have you ever gone to any of the local clubs... if not why not?

have you ever just gone into the chatroom and just chatted for the sake of chatting... again not why not...

before now... have you ever been in the forums to get yourself known.... if not why not???

not everyone uses every piece of the site.....

a profile and a reply to a profile is just a small part of a larger jigsaw...

I'm sorry... you are not owed anything... you get out what you put in.....

jesus it must be whinge on sunday!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps Sundays are the new Thursdays for whinging and moaning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be all them cock shots thats puting people off, are you sure you haven't missed an angle

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"must be all them cock shots thats puting people off, are you sure you haven't missed an angle

sssssh.... no profile Critiques....

I was going to ask him if he had 10 cocks as a reason to have 10 pics of it...

thats says to me he doesn't "get it" as such.. so getting no advice from me...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"must be all them cock shots thats puting people off, are you sure you haven't missed an angle

sssssh.... no profile Critiques....

I was going to ask him if he had 10 cocks as a reason to have 10 pics of it...

thats says to me he doesn't "get it" as such.. so getting no advice from me..."

yep, agree with that! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sssssh.... no profile Critiques....

I was very tempted though, then I remembered the recent hoo ha's about profile critiques, hence I didn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"Perhaps Sundays are the new Thursdays for whinging and moaning!

Seems like it so ive cracked open the baileys for some delicious numbness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HANG ON A MIN!!!, to the opim a single bloke i hardly get any mail or replies..its just the way things are m8 dont take offence by it.just keep pluggin away im sure you will in time, ive just started posting after 6mths its got me a little intrest not much but a little is better than NONE. try it and see! good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawn...not another one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi if you dont like it why dont you just f00k off somehere else"
..., sup carnt ppl post in forum now with being told to fuck off ? OP should have added rude as well as ignorant OMG !!!

* sits on coffin *

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am going to be so nice here.

It doesn't take a 1st class honours degree from Oxbridge to fathom out how this all works.

Create a profile that sells yourself. Be unique in someway and stand out from the masses.

Be clear WHO YOU ARE and WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.

search for couples, females or guys that meet what you are looking for and as importantly, are you what they are looking for. if not... do nothing.

if you are,craft a nice message...... and send it..

there it ends... until they come back to you to take conversation further.

some will, some won't.

don't hotlist them and every time you see them on line... message instantly saying 'hi babe, hows you'... or 'are you lookin to meet'...

go to socials

go into chat

post in the forum and engage in conversations that don't solely revove around you get your leg over...

now for the record.. I couldn't care less from now till doomsday if you get your end away, or any other 'look at me', 'rate my profile', 'have you ever seen a bigger cock than this shite'... fellow bleaters..

I am just being nice and offering advice.. as you will be getting messages from people saying... 'it's all a clique'.. 'they bullied me too' yak yak yak..

but the supposed 'clique' are usually the only ones who answer most of these posts and give advice... the issue is.. hardly anyone reads and acts upon it as....

it was posted to get a meet that night and they couldn't give a shit about it after that..

so I took the time to write this..

no offence meant... hope it helps... and if it doesn't...

don't worry as there will be another thread like this along in the next few hours.

good luck and have a lot of fun on the site.....

now I am going back to the X factor x

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Christmas has come early...

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By *istress CherWoman
over a year ago

lancashire and loving it.

Not very often I comment on these single guys moaning, but if someone works the site, uses the forums, goes to socials like _abio has said.

And even goes to clubs, then you do get to know different people.

i may be a single woman, and have an advantage, but I have been to clubs, and I am now getting to know lots of different people.

It works both ways, and attitude has a lot to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sssssh.... no profile Critiques....

I was very tempted though, then I remembered the recent hoo ha's about profile critiques, hence I didn't!

I think there are a few of us sitting on our hands and biting our tongues on this one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to those who wrote sensible replies, not telling me to f off! I have taken your advice, and perhaps a toning down of cock shots on my profile was in order! I would go to socials and clubs but home/family circumstances make that difficult. Hence I tend to stick to swinging "online". And as for using the forums and chatrooms, I may do that in future to get to know people more ( as long as I dont get told to f off again eh?! ).

And yeah I get plenty at home thanks, but am naughty and want more...

Night all.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Thanks to those who wrote sensible replies, not telling me to f off! I have taken your advice, and perhaps a toning down of cock shots on my profile was in order! I would go to socials and clubs but home/family circumstances make that difficult. Hence I tend to stick to swinging "online". And as for using the forums and chatrooms, I may do that in future to get to know people more ( as long as I dont get told to f off again eh?! ).

And yeah I get plenty at home thanks, but am naughty and want more...

Night all."

well thanks for coming back and saying thank you.

good night to you too

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

And yeah I get plenty at home thanks, but am naughty and want more...

Night all."

Night, give your wife/girlfriend a big kiss, she's such a lucky lass. Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Sorry, just reread your last message - you can't do clubs or socials due to being married or whatever so how would you meet anyone? Sorry,am I missing something? Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Z - I can only "meet" on certain days/times, when the gf is at work. Anyways, am not going to drag this out.....Take care.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

this so isn't going to end well........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what do you mean Fabio?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dog and a bone comes to mind...with some peeps!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Z - I can only "meet" on certain days/times, when the gf is at work. Anyways, am not going to drag this out.....Take care."

lol - good for you fella, I must say that your lass is a bit of a goer, when you think she's at work, she's on here! Whats good for the goose and all that! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah she said she'd met you!

Anyways folks can we put this topic to bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

o jesus here we go!!! just agree to diagree!!! come on its nearly CHRISTMAS!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Yeah she said she'd met you!

Anyways folks can we put this topic to bed? "

Night then. Z

ps - if she 'knows' why do you need to sneak about when she's at work? Z

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"dog and a bone comes to mind...with some peeps!!!

I am not going to be the one to tell him... but my conscience is clear swinging.. and that how it will remain...

no help from me.... and leaving the conversation....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HOLD THE DOOR IM COMING TO!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

[Removed by poster at 28/11/10 21:02:53]

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Z - I can only "meet" on certain days/times, when the gf is at work. "

Ooooooooooooo the temptation not to comment on that is very difficult to resist

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Z - I can only "meet" on certain days/times, when the gf is at work.

Ooooooooooooo the temptation not to comment on that is very difficult to resist

I am going to stop looking at this one now! Nice to see you, haven't seen you for a while but we don't get into the forums as much these days! Z

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Nice to see you, haven't seen you for a while but we don't get into the forums as much these days! Z"

Nice to see you Z, don't get much chance nowadays, working nights Monday -Sat morning

Hope Steve and you are both well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can now see why his emails might be ignored

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Nice to see you, haven't seen you for a while but we don't get into the forums as much these days! Z

Nice to see you Z, don't get much chance nowadays, working nights Monday -Sat morning

Hope Steve and you are both well

We're great thanks, bye for now as we're hijacking this thread! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Can now see why his emails might be ignored

Yes, there's always a logical explanation! Z

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"hi if you dont like it why dont you just f00k off somehere else ..., sup carnt ppl post in forum now with being told to fuck off ? OP should have added rude as well as ignorant OMG !!!

* sits on coffin *

I totally agree.

Wether people like the subject started or not, telling someone to fook off is out of order....and it is hardly surprising to see the man respond.

What is ( not in the least surprising ) were the same people telling the man who was abused first off for answering.

Please have some respect for other members as it is a requirement of being able to post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I bloody love these threads

gives us a clue as who to avoid

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Read the site rules mate...your not allowed to moan about anything......

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