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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a meet and I really struggled to "shoot my load" the girl was really understanding and sexy. She did what I asked until I finally completed my task but was wondering if there was any advice on ways to speed things up as this is a regular occurrence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you want to speed it up,Longer sex lasts the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet and I really struggled to "shoot my load" the girl was really understanding and sexy. She did what I asked until I finally completed my task but was wondering if there was any advice on ways to speed things up as this is a regular occurrence x"

Feeling pressure to perform can make it more difficult, so don't worry about the cumshot - keep on with the sex until she's had enough. Then smile happily at her and say: "that was incredible - you've worn me out". After you've parted have a wank. That way you both end up satisfied and there's no awkward moments.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Exactly the more pressure you put in yourself to cum the harder it will be to shoot your load xx Just relax carry on till you do and if you dont dont worry about it xx

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By *urpleflowersXXXWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I have that problem with oral it takes so long sometimes and so much pressure just makes it worse! ...don't really have an answer because I just get bored then do it myself or use toys till close then let them finish me off

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can go for ages and love when a man can do the same rather than cuming far too soon. Just take your time and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this problem too at the time when i need to cum. I have even been told not to hold back.

My way of dealing with it is not to continue pounding away in desperation. Instead try to vary your sex positions and play along with it. Even slowing down and teying swthing sensual like stroking your balls and sucking on her nipples provide a change and makes it more exciting.

Eventually it will not seem like you are struggling to cum. Things should proceed naturally to cum. This has helped me with a number of women, it is nice for them to enjoy the long hours of sex with variety otherwise things will get frustrating and all you will think of is just cumming.

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