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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe their not interested or have loads of messages to read

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"

13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"

Average of ten men per woman on here. Try something else or be patient.

Try sending messages that give something to talk about, your message needs to stand out from the other 99 she's received today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol not much to add to the first 2 responses which are exactly correct

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

a) she's not interested in you

b) yours is one of 200 she received that particular hour

c) all of the above

Choose 1.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

It took me a while to figure out what that was on the end of your cock - until I realised it was your foot.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???

13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply"

Good point, also the profile is over a year old so needs updating unless you were on the site while in a relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a) she's not interested in you

b) yours is one of 200 she received that particular hour

c) all of the above

Choose 1.

Women get all the attention; I only had 27 messages in the last hour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Points taken on board thanks

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

"It took me a while to figure out what that was on the end of your cock - until I realised it was your foot. "

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"
Perhaps it is the numerous cock shots and lack of profile op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're still working through the queue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get millions of emails aday and don't got time to reply to them all, sometimes they do mass deletes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women get millions of emails aday and don't got time to reply to them all, sometimes they do mass deletes lol."

Millions?

wow. It's all becoming clear now

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"It took me a while to figure out what that was on the end of your cock - until I realised it was your foot. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women get millions of emails aday and don't got time to reply to them all, sometimes they do mass deletes lol.

Millions?

wow. It's all becoming clear now

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lol or few hundreds.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"It took me a while to figure out what that was on the end of your cock - until I realised it was your foot.

Me too

Unrecognisable growths from the end of the cock..not a great look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some very helpful threads about what makes a good profile, message, picture gallery on the forums already. Do a forum search. And good luck

-Courtney

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums, fab and the world of swing!

May I take the opportunity to suggest adding some more content to your profile?

Also a few too many cock shots!

Inject a little humour, as mentioned previously, be patient!

Be polite

Never expect and use the forum to raise awareness and show your personality.

In the mean time you could attend socials or a club.

I hope you find this helpful and I wish you a very enjoyable Fab experience

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

'relationshop'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"

Don't message saying "wanna split ya arse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???

Don't message saying "wanna split ya arse"

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Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have nothing on your profile to attract them and the cock pics will probably put any off of replying.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"

I read the profile before the message. Sorry, I'd delete your message unread.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???

13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply"

Spot on!

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By *anderlust1981Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Listen to their profile and reflect what they've said in your message. Make it different. Make it stand out. I explicitly state that I don't see guys who are unverified or can't accom, yet guys fitting those criteria message me nonetheless, suggesting they've just not read what I'm looking for. I have actually met a guy who wasn't verified as he made reference to that stipulation in his message and offered me reassurances and we did a social first. Take that time to make it bespoke and it will be rewarded. I also had a guy message me with the headline "Oi oi bread in!" which I read simply as it was so different and piqued my amusement.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Points taken on board thanks"

Well done. Only six cock pics and 25 words in your profile.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Points taken on board thanks

Well done. Only six cock pics and 25 words in your profile.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a first aid thread when I read the title!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Points taken on board thanks

Well done. Only six cock pics and 25 words in your profile.

Well it's a start I suppose...

At least there are now more words than cock pics....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???

13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply"

17 words in the question.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 - Read their profile FULLY before sending a message

2 - Try and be imaginative and complimentary

3 - Sort your own profile and photos out

4 - accept most just won't be interested

We get *dozens* of messages that break rule in the very first line of our profile and our blocklist grows daily because some guys think its fine to not bother, so why would we?

Genuinely got a message from some random guy with no profile tetx, no pictures, nothing and his message was 'Hi'.

thats it! 'Hi'!?!

Of course we immediately set up a meeting with him and had great 3 way sex... NOT.

Its not rocket science dude - be respectful, sexy and imaginative and READ PROFILES and you may get some luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 - Read their profile FULLY before sending a message

2 - Try and be imaginative and complimentary

3 - Sort your own profile and photos out

4 - accept most just won't be interested

We get *dozens* of messages that break rule in the very first line of our profile and our blocklist grows daily because some guys think its fine to not bother, so why would we?

Genuinely got a message from some random guy with no profile tetx, no pictures, nothing and his message was 'Hi'.

thats it! 'Hi'!?!

Of course we immediately set up a meeting with him and had great 3 way sex... NOT.

Its not rocket science dude - be respectful, sexy and imaginative and READ PROFILES and you may get some luck."

Number 1 is almost impossible for most and have you ever replied to a "hi" message? If I'm bored I sometimes do and they always go pretty much the same way. I reply hi, they say how are you, I'm good thanks, you? I'm good. End of conversation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he has a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for quantity. 3 messages is not enough. Try 300, then you might get a response!

Guys are the lower class in here. Messages don't have to be long, but do read the profile and take that into account. And ditch the cock pics.

P.S. I am no expert!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"

you're probably pressing "send" button with your finger. try closing your right eye, stand on your left leg and press the button using your nose.

different procedures apply if you're using a desktop pc.

works for me,I recommend emailing next to a wall to aid balance.

happy messaging, captain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"

Probably nothing at all wrong. Females are in high demand and can afford to be choosy if they wish.

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