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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I've just messaged someone and had a reply saying "no thanks, we don't like your status updates". This is the 2nd time this has happened but the weird thing is I don't post status updates. How weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't like your status updates either.

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over a year ago

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Don't know anything about your's but status updates have put us off profiles before.

It's perception, nothing more, but that's first attraction, and it's swinging.

Good luck next time.

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By *olincollins79Man
over a year ago

Bromley

A lot of status updates posted by single women seem to be pure attention seeking, I guess it's good for the ego for some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not putting any up its odd but just sounds like an excuse to be fair. I block people who's updates turn me off, negative, rude, crude or abusive.

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Maybe there's someone with a similar username who posts douchey statuses!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Maybe it's the lack of them?

Seems like an excuse copied from a previous contact to me, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a 'one size fits all' rejection note to me. But it is strange that you've had it twice from different people so maybe (as someone else has said) there's someone with a similar username?

On the plus side at least they're messaging back with a 'thanks but no thanks' - that's more than most give!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Maybe they mean your profile header bit it's not particularly offensive so I don't see how it would put people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your profile header which looks normal to us

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Myself and my partner used to update our statuses about each other, I know, sad, but true, and we used to get people say they loved to read our 'romantic' updates and looked forward to them ... now we live together, reality has set in .... its even more fun, less time to do the status updates though

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By *olincollins79Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"Myself and my partner used to update our statuses about each other, I know, sad, but true, and we used to get people say they loved to read our 'romantic' updates and looked forward to them ... now we live together, reality has set in .... its even more fun, less time to do the status updates though"

Feeling a bit queasy...

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Myself and my partner used to update our statuses about each other, I know, sad, but true, and we used to get people say they loved to read our 'romantic' updates and looked forward to them ... now we live together, reality has set in .... its even more fun, less time to do the status updates though

No need they are not really romantic ... but I did find it a bit weird people were 'following' them

Feeling a bit queasy..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How odd!

I must say that I am often put off by status updates, especially the negative 'this site is shit' or 'been here weeks and not had a meet yet, what's wrong with me' crap but for them to say yours are off-putting when you don't use it is confusing.

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