FabSwingers.com forum: Endless searching...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are a new couple looking to meet a female playmate...losing the will to live ... Profile after profile.. Trying to engage conversation...nothing! Please any advice on how to improve this situation. Or tell us straight are we mingers? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not mingers at all. But what shag said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not mingers

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Op , you have only been on the site a couple of weeks give it time and i am shure you will find what your looking for ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only you was looking for a bi male to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a new couple looking to meet a female playmate...losing the will to live ... Profile after profile.. Trying to engage conversation...nothing! Please any advice on how to improve this situation. Or tell us straight are we mingers? X"

To be truthful, i cant help and give out advice on the situation. But what i can say is honestly, you are not mingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take your time and put yourself in the shoes of a single fem - they get loads of messages so make it about them - we have met a few single fems and some we see over again - fulfill their fantasies and make them feel special xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like a lovely couple actually. On the flip side, I've met a few couples playing with Mr while Mrs watches and joins in a bit etc. I really enjoy this but oh my I get chatting and it just fizzles out. Maybe there's no pattern, maybe it's just people! If you're looking for a bi lady though and I think the majority are, I've heard it's quite difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are losing the will to live after two weeks, then buckle your seat belts cuz you're in for a rough ride. Finding a single bi female is the hardest thing to do on this site (or so I hear). You need to be proactive and have patience. Clubs might be a good idea too.

Don't expect it to happen too quickly. Good luck and have fun!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you peeps... If I were to give advice to someone else I would say exactly the same... X

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

No, as others say it will take time. Like us, you live in a mainly rural county, so you dont really have the same population density as London, Birmingham etc. So you have less chance of finding what you are looking for within a reasonable distance.

I think the fastest way to get at least some FF action would be a club, but clubs aren't for everyone. We are far to shy and are fairly rubbish in clubs as we find it hard to approach people so your levels of sucess in a club will depend on your personality.

Bi-single women are referred to as "unicorns" in the lifestyle because of their rarity. Happy unicorn hunting

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

Clubs are definitely the way forward. I'm not saying it's going to be easy pickings for you in the club but there are allot more of us that frequent clubs then meet off here. Talking from experience, myself and most of my bi fem friends only meet in clubs for the safety aspect. Neither do we advertise we are bi as we are not wanting to meet couples outside a club environment either. I don't believe any of my friends advertise that they are bi but I can assure you they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not mingers but patients needed on here as meny sites try a club

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We've been on here for about 18 months now and the only single ladies we've been in contact with have either had a bloke who comes along too, or they've been obvious fakes (as if a slim attractive 19yr old is really going to contact us).

Clubs are certainly a better option for finding single ladies, but we're having loads of fun playing with couples and groups

Cal

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