FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials or webcam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look for the women who don't need veris, or offer to go on cam for them to prove who you are?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We have had a fair few verifications from club meets, and always verify if we meet someone at a club, even if it is a social thing and we have just hatted - we do make this clear on the verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend a social, there are usually lots of organised ones in the meets and events section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials or pop in the chat rooms to get cam verified. Good luck I hope you manage to sort it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks"

Every woman? That's a sweeping generalisation

As an aside I'm always suspicious of people that claim to go to clubs but don;t get verified. Many club owners/staff will verify newbies and club goers will often give a social verify

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Socials dude and it's damn good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do meet those with no verifications, a veri is not essential.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are those who will meet people who are unverified (we have done this before).

Otherwise, you can get verifications from clubs from people you have not played with. Our first verification was from a couple at a club who we didn't play with.

You can also go to socials or parties.

There are ways. Good luck and have fun!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women do meet those with no verifications, a veri is not essential."

Some do.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ryder use the reply and quote button so people know which post you are replying to.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I've had a couple of great meets with people who were not verified. If you have a couple of decent pics, write a half decent profile and know how to talk to people there's no reason someone should not get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ryder use the reply and quote button so people know which post you are replying to.

Thanks ( this is my first post here )

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Every verified single male on site was once unverified.

They managed.

So can you.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ryder use the reply and quote button so people know which post you are replying to.

Thanks ( this is my first post here ) "

Welcome to the forum. I will move your post to the advice section.

To anyone who wants to give advice please be civil doing it.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i see posts have been removed.... including mine which i think is really harsh because I just quoted the first person who kicked off the thread....

people seem to replace verifiction for basic common sense.... bla bla blah

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

As I said before it was deleted..

I've had meets with unverified men. If you have a decent profile, good pics and a good message, then I won't let the lack of a verification be the deciding factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

club veri's - chatroom/cam veri's - mean nothing to us and many other swingers we've spoke to they are pointless and say nothing other than you've chatted or watch someone wank on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"club veri's - chatroom/cam veri's - mean nothing to us and many other swingers we've spoke to they are pointless and say nothing other than you've chatted or watch someone wank on cam

How does a ckub meet mean that?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"i see posts have been removed.... including mine which i think is really harsh because I just quoted the first person who kicked off the thread....

people seem to replace verifiction for basic common sense.... bla bla blah"

The explanation of why your post was removed is in your own post..I would have thought you would know this happens by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

check with the organisers of socials sometimes they will meet just for a cuppa to verify you so you can attend a social and get lots of veris and later in turn hopefully lots of meets good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"club veri's - chatroom/cam veri's - mean nothing to us and many other swingers we've spoke to they are pointless and say nothing other than you've chatted or watch someone wank on cam

So you don't trust your own common sense, you need someone else to verify a person first before you will meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"club veri's - chatroom/cam veri's - mean nothing to us and many other swingers we've spoke to they are pointless and say nothing other than you've chatted or watch someone wank on cam

So you don't trust your own common sense, you need someone else to verify a person first before you will meet them?"

Couldn't have put it better myself. On a side note verifications have done bugger all for me. Was on site a year nearly before I got my first meet. She didn't verify me. Subsequently met someone via a forum post and have met twice and about to meet for third time. The veris we leave each other are more as a fun thing for the two of us. One persons oppinion of another should never be used as a guide on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll verify you if you want just pm me and let me know what room you'll be in x

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks"

A better informative profile put up by the guy you are possibly interested in meeting far outweighs what some other person has supposedly said about them anyday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

A better informative profile put up by the guy you are possibly interested in meeting far outweighs what some other person has supposedly said about them anyday. "

A better informative profile? Is my profile

Not informative enough? I thought if your profile is too long then it can get boring for some women as its alot read. Correct me if I am wrong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think his is long... then I'd better delete mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think his is long... then I'd better delete mine!

Kin ell that's a novel. Will set some time aside and have a good read sometime.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks"

Keep trying. Not all women insist on veris.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks"

Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted..."

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks"

Webcam . Parties, socials,

There are plenty of people prepared to do web cam verifications , and plenty of people that will verify you if you meet at a club.

If we were advertising to go to a club and you arranged to meet us. In the club , we would verify. You , I can't see why others would not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet unverified people before our socials, mainly so that they know someone as they enter the room. We also verify everyone who attends the Bradford Socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"club veri's - chatroom/cam veri's - mean nothing to us and many other swingers we've spoke to they are pointless and say nothing other than you've chatted or watch someone wank on cam

So you don't trust your own common sense, you need someone else to verify a person first before you will meet them?"

no not at all we always use are own common sense and never use veri's to meet folk one persons liking is not everyones so we always do our own thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met unverified people - we were all there once - trusted our gut feelings and were right - but get to a social and get loads of veris - if you chat and make yourself known that is

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

Trying hard to reconcile the first statement with the second...and failing miserably!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

Trying hard to reconcile the first statement with the second...and failing miserably!

I never turn up for gangbangs because I never put my name down. I'm trying to help the OP to get verified. Wasn't really that difficult, was it?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks

Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

Trying hard to reconcile the first statement with the second...and failing miserably!

I never turn up for gangbangs because I never put my name down. I'm trying to help the OP to get verified. Wasn't really that difficult, was it?"

So let me see if I've understood this

...You're trying to help the OP get verified by not turning up or signing up to gang-bangs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every women wants to only meet a guy whose been verified and some prefer more then one verifications.

My question is:

How are we suppose to get our first verification if we get ignored for not being verified?

I have met a few women at clubs but they aren't on Fab o verify me.

What am I doing wrong? Before I get criticized I do send face pics on request or with my polite messages

Any tips/suggestions are appreciated

Thanks"

Come to Ireland, I'll take a risk on ya

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

Trying hard to reconcile the first statement with the second...and failing miserably!

I never turn up for gangbangs because I never put my name down. I'm trying to help the OP to get verified. Wasn't really that difficult, was it?

So let me see if I've understood this

...You're trying to help the OP get verified by not turning up or signing up to gang-bangs...

Yep, spot on, that's exactly what I'm saying.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

"Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

Trying hard to reconcile the first statement with the second...and failing miserably!

I never turn up for gangbangs because I never put my name down. I'm trying to help the OP to get verified. Wasn't really that difficult, was it?

So let me see if I've understood this

...You're trying to help the OP get verified by not turning up or signing up to gang-bangs...

Yep, spot on, that's exactly what I'm saying."

Hehe.. more coffee needed I think

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Get your name down for a gangbang. Make sure you turn up. Get a verification from the grateful female. Sorted...

This is quite true.

Every guy who actually turns up for a "multiman" (aka) gangbang meet is solid gold as each of the withdrawers assumes they won't be noticed...

Incidentally, in case you're wondering, I always turn up, which is one of several reasons I thrive on this wonderful site

I never turn up because they're not my thing. I just like to be helpful

Trying hard to reconcile the first statement with the second...and failing miserably!

I never turn up for gangbangs because I never put my name down. I'm trying to help the OP to get verified. Wasn't really that difficult, was it?

So let me see if I've understood this

...You're trying to help the OP get verified by not turning up or signing up to gang-bangs...

Yep, spot on, that's exactly what I'm saying."

Thanks for clearing that up....

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