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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm a "single"male on this site I'm photo verified but not had a meet so can't get a personal one as I seem to find out that you cant seem to have one with out the other.

I'm also starting to think I'm the only honest guy on her that reads profiles and doesn't send annoying m one line messages to people who I don't fit the criteria for.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If the second paragraph was true, the first wouldn't be!

Get to a social event, it all gets easier.

Or get a video veri from chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried both of those on video chat I've asked people to talk with me on cam and had no luck.

And I've sent messages to people hosting socials and not got replays even tried hosting one myself to get nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried going to a club or party? You can get a verification by meet, even if it's from someone you didn't play with. That's how we got our first verification.

-Courtney

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Before people reply, they usually take into consideration not just messages, but what you write in your profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And where do you get off on running down other single guys?

"Starting to think you are they only honest guy on here" really ??

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

You seem to have alienated almost everyone here.

You suggest single guys are not to be trusted and you seem to only want women because your partner is not within reach at the moment.

Not a good basis to start looking for meets, perhaps you should have a re-think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's your lack of verification that's your problem, to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verification system is one of the greatest strengths of this site. It's one of the reasons I joined, and it can be a Catch 22 if you let it.

There are plenty of posts in the forums from guys asking for a profile review or help and advice. Search for a few and see what responses they get.

A couple of things stand out, no profile avatar, plenty of people will ignore a sillouette profile, even if the profile has photos.

Your biog starts well, although it feels like it tails off at the end. Also, this might come as a surprise, not all women enjoy receiving oral sex, and that does seem to be all you're offering.

Do a search for other men in your area and look at their profiles, see how the successful men structure their profiles. These guys are your competition, make your profile stand out from them.

And don't copy and paste their profiles into yours.

Good luck op, put a bit more quality effort in, be patient and most of all, try not to post moaning threads on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank all for the advice and I'm sorry if the comment about feeling the only honest guy on her offended I wroteit when I was frustrated and annoyed .

Itcoame from constently seeing complaing statues about people not reading profiles and messaging people they don't fit the criteria for.

I'm sorry for the offence I have caused

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Thank all for the advice and I'm sorry if the comment about feeling the only honest guy on her offended I wroteit when I was frustrated and annoyed .

Itcoame from constently seeing complaing statues about people not reading profiles and messaging people they don't fit the criteria for.

I'm sorry for the offence I have caused "

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Just a question as you have clearly said you are more honest than many guys on here.

Does that honesty extend to your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, scratching my head here, you state your honest and single but on your profile you say you have a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She knows I use the site we are open about are sex lives she's currently in Australia with work on a six month contract

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Ok, scratching my head here, you state your honest and single but on your profile you say you have a partner. "

We read that as well.

Curious about what the answer will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And where do you get off on running down other single guys?

"Starting to think you are they only honest guy on here" really ??"

I suspect that it's the attitude behind this comment that is the real issue. It screams entitlement and bitterness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one bites the dust,perhaps his honesty caught up with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one bites the dust,perhaps his honesty caught up with him."

Or his other half caught him on here?!!

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