FabSwingers.com forum: No shows

By *ola-Blue OP Couple
over a year ago

greenwich

Hi ya I'm wondering if there is a way to hold a name and shame for no shows ?

After 2 or 3 reports profile get deleted ideas ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will never happen, too many sad bitter people on here that would abuse it after being politely turned down.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi ya I'm wondering if there is a way to hold a name and shame for no shows ?

After 2 or 3 reports profile get deleted ideas ?"

Whilst I'm not sure I entirely understand your second point, naming and shaming is prohibited.

Assuming your second point is a 2/3 strike rule it wouldn't work as 1) people would just resign up under different name and 2) the system is open to vexatious claims.

I do sympathise with you. I have always wanted the site to introduce a dispute system a bit like eBay where each party says their piece but i think in reality it is too time consuming and costly

By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

sadly the only option is the current report/block system, anything else is either too onerous or open to abuse. All we do (as suggested by a friend on here) is we share the details of the no-shows with our friends on here and vice versa so nobody else we know gets caught out by them.