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By *entkev OP   Man
over a year ago

Dover

All

After 2 years I've rewritten my profile in the hope that it now truly represents me.

I've taken away the 'open' cock pics and toned it down in order to let the verifications speak for me.

I'm not a loud brash sexuality confident dom, just a polite respectful Mr Average.

What do you think?

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"All

After 2 years I've rewritten my profile in the hope that it now truly represents me.

I've taken away the 'open' cock pics and toned it down in order to let the verifications speak for me.

I'm not a loud brash sexuality confident dom, just a polite respectful Mr Average.

What do you think?"

Got to ask about the decent and genuine guy bit Kev.

Is that a wedding ring on your finger?

Many will ask that, and then the next question of course; does she know you are on here?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

What is a size zero? It sounds scary ....

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"All

After 2 years I've rewritten my profile in the hope that it now truly represents me.

I've taken away the 'open' cock pics and toned it down in order to let the verifications speak for me.

I'm not a loud brash sexuality confident dom, just a polite respectful Mr Average.

What do you think?

Got to ask about the decent and genuine guy bit Kev.

Is that a wedding ring on your finger?

Many will ask that, and then the next question of course; does she know you are on here?"

Decent and genuine I read to mean 'isn't judgemental and does not take the moral high ground' ...

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"All

After 2 years I've rewritten my profile in the hope that it now truly represents me.

I've taken away the 'open' cock pics and toned it down in order to let the verifications speak for me.

I'm not a loud brash sexuality confident dom, just a polite respectful Mr Average.

What do you think?

Got to ask about the decent and genuine guy bit Kev.

Is that a wedding ring on your finger?

Many will ask that, and then the next question of course; does she know you are on here?

Decent and genuine I read to mean 'isn't judgemental and does not take the moral high ground' ... "

Good for you, we take it as being honest as well.

Don't you, or isn't honesty a part of being decent and genuine?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"All

After 2 years I've rewritten my profile in the hope that it now truly represents me.

I've taken away the 'open' cock pics and toned it down in order to let the verifications speak for me.

I'm not a loud brash sexuality confident dom, just a polite respectful Mr Average.

What do you think?

Got to ask about the decent and genuine guy bit Kev.

Is that a wedding ring on your finger?

Many will ask that, and then the next question of course; does she know you are on here?

Decent and genuine I read to mean 'isn't judgemental and does not take the moral high ground' ...

Good for you, we take it as being honest as well.

Don't you, or isn't honesty a part of being decent and genuine?"

He hasn't taken his wedding ring off, so I would assume that is honest? I will let him answer, in case she feels he is being defended when he does not need to be .... its all yours Kev, btw I am not a white knight, just get tired of some things that go on here

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By *entkev OP   Man
over a year ago

Dover

Alas some of you have homed in on my failings.

Yes I'm married, no she doesn't know I'm on here so I would guess some would see me as deceitful and dishonest. All I would say is we all have a back story, my club & fab friends are aware of mine. I'm totally happy & guilt free knowing that I've kept my marriage together by being in this world of fabs & clubs. Again I know that I leave myself open for views/abuse etc, but its my way of keeping my family together.

Also its not me that portrays myself to be 'A nice guy', its people I meet, hence the reference to the verifications.

As someone with a lot more intelligence once said 'Don't judge a man (or woman) until you've walked a mile in their shoes.

Size zero is very petite, I have met a couple of 0 females. lol

My preference is based in myself being slim. Not a judgement on larger ladies.

I hope this helps.

PS... thank you all for taking the time & effort to advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few things, you haven't really said anything about yourself, just what your looking for, also many will think as you cant accommodate your married?. most of all you need patience.

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

What totally amazes us is the perception that asking a question is judgemental and taking the moral high ground.

It is a story heard plenty of times though about keeping marriages together by cheating. An argument thrown up by that is should the unknowing partner not be the one to make that choice? And if given that choice, would they choose to keep their marriage together knowing what the partner has already done?

Still, there are loads of people on here doing the exact same thing.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think the thing is when it is asked, and asked and asked, whenever you get the chance .... why? Its pretty obvious and his business. Not all marriages are the same. Many survive and indeed thrive without swinging even. In many people's minds, swinging would be considered cheating .... and the dictionary definition of cheating includes that with a partner's knowledge. The only people I judge are those who take the moral high ground on anything ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh I bet that took some compiling!

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I think the thing is when it is asked, and asked and asked, whenever you get the chance .... why? Its pretty obvious and his business. Not all marriages are the same. Many survive and indeed thrive without swinging even. In many people's minds, swinging would be considered cheating .... and the dictionary definition of cheating includes that with a partner's knowledge. The only people I judge are those who take the moral high ground on anything ..."

Got you.

So you do judge others then?

Right. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the thing is when it is asked, and asked and asked, whenever you get the chance .... why? Its pretty obvious and his business. Not all marriages are the same. Many survive and indeed thrive without swinging even. In many people's minds, swinging would be considered cheating .... and the dictionary definition of cheating includes that with a partner's knowledge. The only people I judge are those who take the moral high ground on anything ...

Got you.

So you do judge others then?

Right. ..."

Shall we all play nice and stick to the theme of the thread!?!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

OP, the best thing about your profile is your verifications because they say what a nice guy you are ..... the only people who can and should judge you here are those who have met you. Hope all goes well for you

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"I think the thing is when it is asked, and asked and asked, whenever you get the chance .... why? Its pretty obvious and his business. Not all marriages are the same. Many survive and indeed thrive without swinging even. In many people's minds, swinging would be considered cheating .... and the dictionary definition of cheating includes that with a partner's knowledge. The only people I judge are those who take the moral high ground on anything ...

Got you.

So you do judge others then?

Right. ..."

I can't quote them all because it would be ridiculous but I couldn't agree more with every one of your posts on this thread.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Didn't take long for the harpies to swoop on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very brief. Not for us. But wish you well.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Size 0 is an American size. It equates to a size 4 here, if I recall correctly. A size 00 is a UK size 2.

OP, when you say size 0-12, do you also mean a US 12? If so, you should clarify that.

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By *entkev OP   Man
over a year ago

Dover


"Size 0 is an American size. It equates to a size 4 here, if I recall correctly. A size 00 is a UK size 2.

OP, when you say size 0-12, do you also mean a US 12? If so, you should clarify that."

No English. I'm sorry I wasn't aware of size zero being a USA measurement. A lady told me a few months back that she's a 0. Who was I to argue. Lol

Thank ALL of you for your comments, kind or otherwise.

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