FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you love clubs?

By *urvyemma OP Woman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

Ok..so for anyone who has been put off by the bad experiences. .let's have a good one..what do you love? Tell us your horny experiences?

My first visit to a swinging club made me feel like I had finally found my people!!

I love wandering round watching people enjoying each other, all shapes, all sizes, no judgement..just a private place where people can enjoy their love of sex and each other.

I love getting dressed up and looking at other women dressed up. I love watching couples enjoying each other.

I love being fucked by strangers just for the sheer physical pleasure.

When I go with my fb. .I love playing and catching his eye when we are fucking others,.kissing him whilst riding another mans cock, him whispering 'you look beautiful' whilst he fucks another woman and I am kissing her

Oooo..I love clubs! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooohhh OP, you sound like fun!!!

Yes, agree with all above. Plus for me it's instant gratification potential and convenient (saves spending ages in the internet arranging meets who might never show up), keeping this kinky part of my life private (not playing at home)and the feeling that I can flirt with my dangerous alter-ego in relative safety.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I just love the freedoms that is at the main club we go to .... anything and everything is available, or not, as you choose. As we have been social on the scene for a little while, we also live the social side and catching up. People who are genuine and genuinely interested and genuinely interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried swinging a few years back, but theother half is not too keen. We still visit clubs as a couple and enjoy the atmosphere of a sexually charged environment. We have never experienced some of the horror stories that I read on the other post.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We find clubs suit our lifestyle - we have so little time to arrange things, so it is much easier to just go to a club and enjoy the evening. We have never had a bad experience and everyone we have met has been lovely - even the single guys!

The thrill of being in such a sexy atmosphere where everyone wants the same thing is fantastic. Getting dressed up and knowing we can be as sexy and flirty as we want really works for us

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A relatively low cost (yes I know, but I take advantage of being female here), safe place go go where I can laugh with mates and shag a selection of men who I'll never have to see again? Whats not to love?

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By *psidaisiMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Only done clubs twice and it was total opposite experiences. I think its very much down to who is in on the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them but I don't go so often anymore, its just to expensive for a single man to pay entry fees nowadays lol

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By *ack_greenfinchMan
over a year ago

bristol

"I just love the freedoms that is at the main club we go to .... anything and everything is available, or not, as you choose. As we have been social on the scene for a little while, we also live the social side and catching up. People who are genuine and genuinely interested and genuinely interesting."

That's pretty much what it is for me, too. Add to that the openness of a 'towel' club like Chameleons (as opposed to the only clothed club I've been to, which was full of people making judgements about each other) - it's a bit like having more genuine conversations on nudist beaches than on textile ones. Love meeting hot people in a sexual environment and getting to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok..so for anyone who has been put off by the bad experiences. .let's have a good one..what do you love? Tell us your horny experiences?

My first visit to a swinging club made me feel like I had finally found my people!!

I love wandering round watching people enjoying each other, all shapes, all sizes, no judgement..just a private place where people can enjoy their love of sex and each other.

I love getting dressed up and looking at other women dressed up. I love watching couples enjoying each other.

I love being fucked by strangers just for the sheer physical pleasure.

Oooo..I love clubs! !"

This

I couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love clubs because there's no pressure. We can go when we choose and leave when we choose.

If no one takes our fancy then we get to have amazing sex together and with the added bonus of being watched without the risk of outdoors fun or something ending up copied and shared without out consent.

To top it all, the dungeon equipment is our thing so we get to play in ways that are impossible at home or in a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We find clubs suit our lifestyle - we have so little time to arrange things, so it is much easier to just go to a club and enjoy the evening. We have never had a bad experience and everyone we have met has been lovely - even the single guys!

The thrill of being in such a sexy atmosphere where everyone wants the same thing is fantastic. Getting dressed up and knowing we can be as sexy and flirty as we want really works for us

same for us. Love the sexy atmosphere and lighting. Completely away from the normality of life for our rare nights off

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We absolutely love the club scene.

No worries about no shows as we have had with private meets.

If you meet someone in a club who doesn't quite do it for you then you can just move on without wasting a night.

We love the anonymity in clubs, meet, chat, shag, and say goodbye. We don't want to be best friends and in many cases we don't even want to shag twice with same people (one or two exceptions to that though)

Our main like is that we go through the door and it is like spending 5 hours in another world, leave normal life behind, have a wild time then walk out back to reality without our two lives crossing. We have even nicknamed our favourite club as "Narnia"

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

The thrill of being in such a sexy atmosphere where everyone wants the same thing is fantastic. Getting dressed up and knowing we can be as sexy and flirty as we want really works for us

same for us. Love the sexy atmosphere and lighting. Completely away from the normality of life for our rare nights off

Sept can't come soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love clubs because there's no pressure. We can go when we choose and leave when we choose.

To top it all, the dungeon equipment is our thing so we get to play in ways that are impossible at home or in a hotel."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like them but I don't go so often anymore, its just to expensive for a single man to pay entry fees nowadays lol

Opens handbag stuffs him in...free entrance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love clubs because there's no pressure. We can go when we choose and leave when we choose.

To top it all, the dungeon equipment is our thing so we get to play in ways that are impossible at home or in a hotel."

This is the same for us. We also like being able to talk openly about the naughty things we like

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

went originally for the sex... who didn't

but stayed and keep on going now for the social side... brilliant meeting up and talking to linkminded people and being able to completely let your hair down....

if i play i play... if i don't i don't... but i know i am having a blast regardless...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with a lot of people, it's like stepping into another dimension, touch wood, never had a bad experience, love the atmosphere, the banter, the mad sex......love it love it love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to say it but due to the amount of fakes timewasters etc on here clubs are a good way to meet people.

We have ways had great times at clubs

Like others have said no pressure nice place to chill out and play

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"went originally for the sex... who didn't

but stayed and keep on going now for the social side... brilliant meeting up and talking to linkminded people and being able to completely let your hair down....

if i play i play... if i don't i don't... but i know i am having a blast regardless...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were not rich good looking super models and dont even know if people like us or not, but we've never felt or been made to feel different by all the lovely sexy people we've met and befriended In clubs

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

My first visit to a swinging club made me feel like I had finally found my people!!

I love wandering round watching people enjoying each other, all shapes, all sizes, no judgement..just a private place where people can enjoy their love of sex and each other

Oooo..I love clubs! !"

Fully agree with this. I love the fact that most people in a club are on my wavelength and love to flirt. made so many good friends, some I play with and some I don't. love the social side of clubs and also the spontaneous fun you can have. next time your in cupids cone and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"were not rich good looking super models and dont even know if people like us or not, but we've never felt or been made to feel different by all the lovely sexy people we've met and befriended In clubs

Know these guys from Xtasia before we realised who each other were on fab... a very popular couple of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know these guys from Xtasia before we realised who each other were on fab... a very popular couple of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me they are just a convenient place to meet people

You can spend ages on here talking, swapping pics and making arrangements only to be let down the last minute, where as you just get ready and go to a club, the guys are already there, don't have to mess about with socials just have a drink and chat to other people and play if you hit it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use clubs as a way to meet new people I have tried and failed at messaging people on fabs but with a club I'm more relaxed and can express myself more.

I go to a lot of clubs and parties and have loads of good friends and I'm always meeting more, most of people I have played at clubs have become regular fwb's so now I don't have to waste so much time on fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just see it as going into my favourite local with added extras x

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

The best thing I like about clubs is finding that hidden gem. I've met a few individuals in clubs that I have had mind blowing sex with to go on fab afterwards to find their profile and realise I would not have looked at their profile in a month of Sunday. Let alone meet them. Be it because they don't meet my age criteria or the fact their profile needs more then a little tweaking but I would have missed out on a fantastic meet had it not been for the club's. That goes for the few that are not even on fab either. It opens so many more doorways for you and to communicate face to face is the biggest turn on ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love clubs for a variety of reasons.. one is purely for the relaxed social side.. as sometimes we will go and chill and maybe not even kiss another.

We like it for the variety of play options... We like a wide variety of things.. from one on ones while watching, considering seperate rooms, mmf, mfm, gangbangs. One playing with the other watching etc..

So clubs give us the freedom to find what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to a club to meet new people, make new friends, and have a fun night out

The atmosphere is great, nice lighting, music and above all, friendly people there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an exhibitionist and a huge flirt. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best thing I like about clubs is finding that hidden gem. I've met a few individuals in clubs that I have had mind blowing sex with to go on fab afterwards to find their profile and realise I would not have looked at their profile in a month of Sunday. Let alone meet them. Be it because they don't meet my age criteria or the fact their profile needs more then a little tweaking but I would have missed out on a fantastic meet had it not been for the club's. That goes for the few that are not even on fab either. It opens so many more doorways for you and to communicate face to face is the biggest turn on ever! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an exhibitionist and a huge flirt. Simple as that.

oh I forgot the exhibitionist side of it

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