FabSwingers.com forum: Bi couples... can't seen to find one

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been here nearly 6 months and we're struggling to find any bi couples to meet with.

Anything wrong with our profile that's putting people off?

Not saying we have the right to meet who we like of course but just any time we arrange something or people chat cold feet seems to set in or some really weird excuse is given.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Are you using the advanced search option?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah we sometimes look on there but recently we've put meet requests up and not a decent response.

Stayed in a gorgeous spa hotel for the past two days with an open invite and free access to facilities etc. But nothing lol.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

It must be difficult looking for bi couples. From what I've seen on the forums, there doesn't seem to be that many guys willing to class themselves as bi curious or bi and I guess that follows through to couples too.

Good luck though and keep plugging away

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yeah we sometimes look on there but recently we've put meet requests up and not a decent response.

Stayed in a gorgeous spa hotel for the past two days with an open invite and free access to facilities etc. But nothing lol. "

I'd say the same to anyone - single male/female or couple.

Simply popping a meet post up won't have hoards of people rushing to message you - turn the tables and go looking for exactly what you want rather than rely on people seeking you out.

For four months on site you don't appear to be struggling and you've made reference to a bi club night. You're far more likely to get results with that approach than online.

Happy hunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep looking op some of us are honest with there sexuality some like to keep it to there selves until they get chatting , but there is quite a few out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I might be so bold - the problem could be that you are bi-curious.

One of my partners and myself play with bi men and bi couples as often as possible, but we don't play with people who are bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I wouldn't really consider the guy in the photos to be 'athletic'. Athletic on this site usually means 'gym fit' and I fear people using that as a search term might be expecting something a little different.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

You do seem to have a lot of meet verifications. However, I would not consider meeting you guys because of age (I make the decisions as to who we meet, or who Mr Law meets on his own, so I am speaking from my personal experience and preference here). I also have a dislike of profiles which give descriptions of each other by the other, and go on about what a great sex life, how everything is wonderful, etc - I would think that goes without saying and in terms of how wonderful each of the people involved are, well, let the people you meet find that out. I guess from my experience as a single women who never met couples, I did not because it was more all about them than all about who they were meeting (not that you guys are necessarily like that, by virtue of posting here, probably not). Finally, it is rare that I play with other men, however I do not state it openly in the same way on our profile and it just does not read right to me. I am not sure though about looking for too many people's opinions about profile text as it is your profile and is a reflection on you and as soon as you start bending it to other people's preferences, you lose some of yourselves and who and what you are about - surely? Pepper

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Hi there. Just realised I'm doing this from the wrong profile. We are filthyandgorgeous and we are both bi. Where we would struggle is, in your profile, there's a lot of V does this but not that, and K doesn't" but I lost the thread a little. We are both bi and when we meet we like to play fully nothing barred.

You have some great pictures though just got confused with who will do what to whom.

We wouldn't filter out bi-curious but from your profile I think we'd assume that there wouldn't be much guy-guy action which makes a couple meet a little one dimensional for us. We might have that wrong of course.

Shame you're not closer. You could join us at an abfabs bi night. We have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also I wouldn't really consider the guy in the photos to be 'athletic'. Athletic on this site usually means 'gym fit' and I fear people using that as a search term might be expecting something a little different."

Perhaps. No idea what you mean by gym fit though.

I'm a competing strongman with two national titles. I would doubt there's anyone stronger in or out of the gym on this site. Plenty of people in this country have tried.

I take the point though but then the options are not exactly perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi there. Just realised I'm doing this from the wrong profile. We are filthyandgorgeous and we are both bi. Where we would struggle is, in your profile, there's a lot of V does this but not that, and K doesn't" but I lost the thread a little. We are both bi and when we meet we like to play fully nothing barred.

You have some great pictures though just got confused with who will do what to whom.

Shame you're not closer. You could join us at an abfabs bi night. We have lots of fun

Thanks for the constructive post. We could perhaps tidy things up a bit on that score.

We do travel around a bit.

Oh and we do have a lot of meet veris but only two of those were actually a play meet. The rest were socials.

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

Bi couple here and not to far from you take a look see what you think xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the end of your profile is slightly confusing to me as u say that Mrs wont play with anyone else. Does this mean if u met a couple she would only play with yourself? For me playing with a bi couple results in a bit of a messy pile on which is fab so having restrictions when youre looking to play in this way is kibda confusing to me. I may just be reading it wrong though so apologies if I am!

Miss Nico x

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

Bi nights at clubs are probably a better starting point to meet bi couples rather than relying on people finding you here. A monday at Chams is worth the trip - bank holiday Mondays are especially busy and are usually busy from early afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the end of your profile is slightly confusing to me as u say that Mrs wont play with anyone else. Does this mean if u met a couple she would only play with yourself? For me playing with a bi couple results in a bit of a messy pile on which is fab so having restrictions when youre looking to play in this way is kibda confusing to me. I may just be reading it wrong though so apologies if I am!

Miss Nico x "

Should mean she'll play with fems and TV/TS but not guys just yet.

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By *cmsideCouple
over a year ago

WIRRAL

It's tough to find a bi cpl but we'll worth persevering x

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I tend to agree with the other poster that you need to tidy your profile up - I'm still not exactly sure what each of you do/don't like.

I may be wrong but I read it as the male plays with both but the female only plays bi, not with males and not sure if any play is soft or full.

I'm not saying that info isn't there but if it's not obvious people just move on.

From what I can see though I'd be surprised if you didn't have lots of fun at Chams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd adjust your profile to..

Not a soft swap couple cos I want to nail your wife without you nailing mine.

Would love to get pegged while I'm banging your missus and to get your woman in the mood for me my missus will yours a bit of a tickle.

See how that works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd adjust your profile to..

Not a soft swap couple cos I want to nail your wife without you nailing mine.

Would love to get pegged while I'm banging your missus and to get your woman in the mood for me my missus will yours a bit of a tickle.

See how th

at works

I think that will be a winner may try that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps. No idea what you mean by gym fit though.

I'm a competing strongman with two national titles. I would doubt there's anyone stronger in or out of the gym on this site. Plenty of people in this country have tried.

I take the point though but then the options are not exactly perfect. "

'Athletic' on sites like this usually means slim, in shape, with a six pack. Bodybuilder rather than strong man.

When I was powerlifting I'd never have described myself as 'athletic' because it wasn't what people were expecting. I just used to describe myself as 'slim'.

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