FabSwingers.com forum: Is anyone hear to actually have sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer you question. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To answer you question. Yes.

Next"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

You're here 3 weeks? I dunno really much about what it's like across the water but you don't sign up and instantly get meets, it takes a bit of time

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but you need patience lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thanks for replying is any females interested in meeting up sometime with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of their basic training perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not taking one for the team ... No

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do it to hopefully gain attention after all I'm here to have fun not anything else

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

Look at a random selection of profiles.

Then look at their veris.

I suspect you will find many, many people who meet.

So that may give you the answer.

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?"

Personally I'd never announce what I do for a living but some guys have slightly too much pride in what they do, that or they're hoping to use the uniform to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?"

Don't forget the fireman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

we are meeting 2 single fellas tonight - so yes there are some genuine people - but getting harder to find meets on here, we agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to fly Concorde, now I'm only a Boing Pilot, but got plenty of miles in me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do it to hopefully gain attention after all I'm here to have fun not anything else "

Try stop being so desperate...you wouldnt do it in a club. Dony do it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course geezer. Love a good shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I appreciate your feedback all happy swinging ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm mainly here to correct people's spelling in the forums.

Sorry.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

oooooooo Guess what ? They do it too.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing?

You're here 3 weeks? I dunno really much about what it's like across the water but you don't sign up and instantly get meets, it takes a bit of time"

Yes seem some guys sign up here thinking its instashag.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's you that's not appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah boys go on make his day- he is whining like a wotsit so go on give him a beasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex please with nice people.

The soldier thing is not something to pique our interest. Strictly sky remotes and cock pics.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Ah boys go on make his day- he is whining like a wotsit so go on give him a beasting

I'd prefer a breasting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

I'm just HERE to correct the bad spelling and grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, i dont even like sex

I thought this was a place to buy a swing ffs!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I last had sex in 1992 from here..but its been timewasters since, better off with facebook OP..really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this"

Wrong. Its just another in an endless procession of 'look at me' posts designed to drum up interest.

Yaaaaawwwwn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an undertaker maybe a should mention that

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

Wrong. Its just another in an endless procession of 'look at me' posts designed to drum up interest.

Yaaaaawwwwn."

We guess that is just about spot on.

Especially the Yaaaaaawn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing?

I'm just HERE to correct the bad spelling and grammar"

Are there.

It's always going to be difficult for single men here. I think many proceed with a slight misconception of what this site is. The sex is lovely of course, but there is so much more to be explored. You'll have to be patient and gently persistent. However if it's not working for you, maybe you're looking in the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is getting harder & harder to find people genuinly wanting to meet tere is to many time wasters!!!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

oooooooo Guess what ? They do it too.

They do that outside of fab though in everyday life. Teachers and doctors are the same. They always have to get it into a conversation. Not sure why they do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ave noticed lol a lot who get turned down for sex for whatever reason suddenly band the timewaster label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it is getting harder & harder to find people genuinly wanting to meet tere is to many time wasters!!!"

I agree. ..had 3 guys turn me down yesterday for a meet ...all been chatting with for weeks! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and a lot :D

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"it is getting harder & harder to find people genuinly wanting to meet tere is to many time wasters!!!

I agree. ..had 3 guys turn me down yesterday for a meet ...all been chatting with for weeks! !!!

Are they mad??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it is getting harder & harder to find people genuinly wanting to meet tere is to many time wasters!!!

I agree. ..had 3 guys turn me down yesterday for a meet ...all been chatting with for weeks! !!!

Well ta feck with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do have to be patient, it's been ages since I've had a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I last had sex in 1992 from here..but its been timewasters since, better off with facebook OP..really"

92, what a year.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've never even had a timewaster. Feeling left out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

Nah. We just like to wave. If you can't find a meet, consider why.i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I last had sex in 1992 from here..but its been timewasters since, better off with facebook OP..really

92, what a year."

yup..and I have a half bottle of thunderbird to drink from then...its gonna taste so good, now its aged

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this"

You won't have offended anyone. Most get uppity who ever speaks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't no I dont

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

oooooooo Guess what ? They do it too.

They do that outside of fab though in everyday life. Teachers and doctors are the same. They always have to get it into a conversation. Not sure why they do that

I never tell anyone I'm a Doctor. Say arrrrrrrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had 2 timewasters this weekend 2nd this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

oooooooo Guess what ? They do it too.

They do that outside of fab though in everyday life. Teachers and doctors are the same. They always have to get it into a conversation. Not sure why they do that

So what do you do lol

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

when you signed up to this site did you realise that men outnumber the ladies 100-1

and you would be in competition with them all;

1-1/2 lines on your profile won't cut it.

what are your unique selling points(why a lady should pick you)and what can you do for the lady that others can't do ?

aim your profile a pleasing the ladies.

What you like to do can be covered at the end and brought up when you are chatting to them as once you get a meet you will find most of your wishes will happen.

The most important part is to make the lady feel special.

I hope this helps and you don't take it the wrong way, as this was my strategy when I was a single on here and found it did work.

any way good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, i dont even like sex

I thought this was a place to buy a swing ffs!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just that a lot of people on here like to have a moan about nothing or are arrogant even when you just send a friendly message. seems like it's hard work to be pleasant on here for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I certainly don't hang around these parts for the amazing company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...as well as harsh unwanted comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the number of men on here compered to women has nothing to do with it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'm mainly here to correct people's spelling in the forums.

Sorry.

Here here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'm mainly here to correct people's spelling in the forums.

Sorry.

Peoples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou so much that's wat I needed to hear I appreciate your help and advice thanks again happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this"

Did your mates down the pub tell you this site was full of easy women that are desperate for a fuck? Unfortunately that's not true. Read the forums. Find out what swinging is.

Many people do want just a shag. Many want socials and friendship. ...And everything in between.

None of those things are wrong. Just figure out which you prefer and find people the same as you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

Did your mates down the pub tell you this site was full of easy women that are desperate for a fuck? Unfortunately that's not true. Read the forums. Find out what swinging is.

Many people do want just a shag. Many want socials and friendship. ...And everything in between.

None of those things are wrong. Just figure out which you prefer and find people the same as you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah,I just come on to wank over pics n troll the forums...

All my veris are from an alternate universe where an alternate version of my good self gets semi regular sex...the lucky devil!

Seriously though,patience n perseverance is key.

Good luck n keep on truckin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

You won't have offended anyone. Most get uppity who ever speaks."

Like bloody thirsty wolves.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sometimes I log on to Fab to arrange a meet, sometimes I log on to Fab to read the forums. Depends how I feel.

Time wasters are people who arrange a meet then don't turn up. If you're already logged into Fab then how can your time be wasted more?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

Or policemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

Wrong. Its just another in an endless procession of 'look at me' posts designed to drum up interest.

Yaaaaawwwwn."

Either that or its a 'ive bombarded every female in a 50 mile radius and they all think im a twat so now im crying on the forum' thread

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I don't get sex but nowt wrong with you stop crying

Get out there tell them how great in bed you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love aural sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I log on to Fab to arrange a meet, sometimes I log on to Fab to read the forums. Depends how I feel.

Time wasters are people who arrange a meet then don't turn up. If you're already logged into Fab then how can your time be wasted more?"
i have chatted to a few women on here and two of them wanted to meet i gave the second the benefit of the dout but whan she asked to meet at a certain bar in manchester that i know for a fact you have to book A MONTH advance .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

I would mate, but I've just had a pizza, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love aural sex...."

Is that when you can hear the people next door, lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Sometimes I log on to Fab to arrange a meet, sometimes I log on to Fab to read the forums. Depends how I feel.

Time wasters are people who arrange a meet then don't turn up. If you're already logged into Fab then how can your time be wasted more? i have chatted to a few women on here and two of them wanted to meet i gave the second the benefit of the dout but whan she asked to meet at a certain bar in manchester that i know for a fact you have to book A MONTH advance ."

So you chose not to meet her. How did that waste any more of your time? Sure, you could have been making arrangements with a, shall we say, more plausible female. But you were already on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I log on to Fab to arrange a meet, sometimes I log on to Fab to read the forums. Depends how I feel.

You have to book a month in advance to go in for a drink? That's a busy bar

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Sometimes I log on to Fab to arrange a meet, sometimes I log on to Fab to read the forums. Depends how I feel.

You have to book a month in advance to go in for a drink? That's a busy bar

Sounds like a place to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

but very selective

and most will not meet the grade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on occasion I'm known to have a sneaky meet, but mainly here for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of female friends who use this and the feedback is usually that they get so many messages they just automatically delete anyone with no photos, people who are mono syllabic , people who use 'babe' or 'hun' a lot or guys who take cock pics with the flash on and generally lack a sense of aesthetics.

Iv only met 3 girls from here but had better luck on fetlife for my tastes.

You will notice a lot of women have angry sounding profiles on here. Its frustrating for them for obvious reasons.

But most of all, no one likes a moaning mini.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have my moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'm mainly here to correct people's spelling in the forums.

Sorry.

Here hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I log on to Fab to arrange a meet, sometimes I log on to Fab to read the forums. Depends how I feel.

So Either she was messing you.

Or, she had already booked, been let down by other person and so was looking for the +1?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up guilt as charged yes please

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

oooooooo Guess what ? They do it too.

I have never had a Hi I'm a traffic warden though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a veritable fuck fest for some

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "
. Yes. I had three meets last week ,but not from this site . Two are long term regulars and I also turned down two regulars because I was in Ireland at the weekend .

However to obtain meets you have to have an interesting and detailed profile plus good pictures ..You really have to make the effort to market yourself and identify your unique selling points .

I did a thread a short time ago asking members to identify their 15 unique selling points . All those who replied had interesting detailed profiles and good pictures . A profile which states that you are male and looking for sex will not get anyone very far on this site .

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Neither.

Keep asking.

P.S. The Soldier thing always puts me off.

You don't get ..Hi a Baker here.

Hi a van driving man. Hi a Brickie here.

Why do soldiers do that ?

Don't forget the fireman

oooooooo Guess what ? They do it too.

They do that outside of fab though in everyday life. Teachers and doctors are the same. They always have to get it into a conversation. Not sure why they do that

So what do you do lol

I'm a gynecologist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to find out what the fuss was about after my first club experience, I'm here to get some, but sending messages out all over the place doesn't work for me, so I just post where I'm gonna be and when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

This is a swinging site NOT a sex site, there is a difference.

A well written profile and interesting messages will get you much further than a 'poor me' post.

Socials, clubs etc are good places to start, it's not instashag

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing?

This is a swinging site NOT a sex site, there is a difference.

A well written profile and interesting messages will get you much further than a 'poor me' post.

Socials, clubs etc are good places to start, it's not instashag"

This

But try telling it to the guys who get abusive when they get rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that your list of interests is too long. As a single what are you offering to swap? If the answer is nothing then why have swaps on the list? The fisting might put people off too, we wouldn't meet anyone who wants that. There's a few more too, are you really interested in them or did you get tick happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want Facebook friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots meet......... But if you want advice then look at:

(A) loads of other similar posts on this kind of topic

(B) your own rather brief profile....it is your advert. Your "hook". The way you sell yourself.

If your profile is do short....then you are selling yourself short.

Also remember this is a swinging site....it is about lifestyle....it isn't "instashag "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Op

What did you expect when you signed up 3 weeks ago?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Some people struggle to get meets on here, others dont. I think there are a large numbers of factors that come into play, but your biggest one is probably going to be the fact that you are a single guy.

As you are in the military, you are also literally surrounded by hundreds of other single guys, of a similar age to yourself, which is going to make it even tougher for you to stand out from the crowd. There are only so many women in your local area who are wanting to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Op

What did you expect when you signed up 3 weeks ago?"

To be banging Pussy left right and centre..obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here for chat and banter if I want action then I go to a club x

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing?

when you signed up to this site did you realise that men outnumber the ladies 100-1

and you would be in competition with them all;

1-1/2 lines on your profile won't cut it.

what are your unique selling points(why a lady should pick you)and what can you do for the lady that others can't do ?

aim your profile a pleasing the ladies.

What you like to do can be covered at the end and brought up when you are chatting to them as once you get a meet you will find most of your wishes will happen.

The most important part is to make the lady feel special.

I hope this helps and you don't take it the wrong way, as this was my strategy when I was a single on here and found it did work.

any way good luck

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Answering your question: yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

Wrong. Its just another in an endless procession of 'look at me' posts designed to drum up interest.

Yaaaaawwwwn.

Either that or its a 'ive bombarded every female in a 50 mile radius and they all think im a twat so now im crying on the forum' thread"

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Sorry if I offended anyone just trying to get people's thoughts on this

Wrong. Its just another in an endless procession of 'look at me' posts designed to drum up interest.

Yaaaaawwwwn.

Either that or its a 'ive bombarded every female in a 50 mile radius and they all think im a twat so now im crying on the forum' thread

The thing is, the status with "...need to find a meet" isn't going help.

Keep up the good work

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By *cuk11Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes seem some guys sign up here thinking its instashag.com

Wow didn't think that would be an actual site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude some of the comments made towards you are a bit harsh but it's only because these questions get asked a lot and for long term members it gets a bit annoying. Don't take it personally and have patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I do try to have sex but people keep putting me off!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I do try to have sex but people keep putting me off!"

I know that feeling!

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

You've only been here 3 weeks lol. Posts like this certainly won't help your chances of finding a meet.

My advice just relax, get involved in the forums, try to get to social events when you see them advertised and most of all be yourself. Guaranteed that will help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Part of their basic training perhaps ? "

Negative ghost rider. He should know better

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Try tinder. Much better and more to the point imo

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

No.

I'm here to study the mating habits of you humanoids and report my findings back to the Galactic Biological Society.

Thus far I'm mostly bemused...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try tinder. Much better and more to the point imo"

Tinder has become a dating app in the states

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

I find that this place is just full of time-wasters

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over a year ago

"Try tinder. Much better and more to the point imo

Tinder has become a dating app in the states

wasn't it always a dating app?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I do try to have sex but people keep putting me off!"

Try a smaller audience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find myself having trouble finding a meet is there too many time wasters or is it me that's not appealing? "

This is described as a swingers site not a casual meets site, even if that's how some people use it.

You may have unrealistic expectations, but these threads rarely go well for the op.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We enjoy meeting people here and having good sex with them.

That's why we are on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HEAR to have sex? Is that aural sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try tinder. Much better and more to the point imo

Tinder has become a dating app in the states

wasn't it always a dating app?"

Tinder was created to be a quick hook up app by location. When it started it was great. If someone was online close by , you could meet at a bar or invite them over and have crazy sex all night . It was a little safer due to them verifying you through Facebook.

Now people on tinder want to meet during the day for lunch or really want to date. 5 of my friends in long term relationships have all met on tinder

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over a year ago

"Try tinder. Much better and more to the point imo

Tinder has become a dating app in the states

wasn't it always a dating app?

Now people on tinder want to meet during the day for lunch or really want to date. 5 of my friends in long term relationships have all met on tinder

Thanks for that

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By *sontopMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi I'm a single 50y old male and have been on here for 2 months I've had 2 meets with wonderful couples

You could try removing your age limits on meets

Just be patient it will happen when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"HEAR to have sex? Is that aural sex? "

Sounds like it

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