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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just from what i've seen it seems hard to keep swinging friends for an extended period of time. Always seem to come and go after a few weeks. We're determined to keep as many of the great people we know now. Any tips/thoughts and have you managed to retain a swinging friendship for more than a few months.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have the contact details and we will correspond once in a while to catch up, not mentioning sex initially at all. I've several swinging friends I've known for years.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

People come and go on the site, and circumstances change but I've managed to keep friends with one young couple for almost four years now.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

I have met and kept some wonderful lifelong friends from fab. Who are now in my 'private' life as well as my fab one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice to hear that it is possible, was beginning to wonder if there was some dynamic in swinging that limited lifespan of friendships lol.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

only if they weren't real friends to start off with! most of my 'fab'friends i have known for years... catching up as often as we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends I've known on fab, and now off fab, for up to 8 years. Many come and go but those I really click with are still in my phone. We don't talk daily but we do check on each other and catch up regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the contact details and we will correspond once in a while to catch up, not mentioning sex initially at all. I've several swinging friends I've known for years. "

I have several long term friends from fab....some still on sit, others not. We keep in touch by kik, whatsapp, text etc....and meet up n see each other. My best friend started as a fab meet. No longer on site but local and see regularly.

Don't really see friends on here as that different to others....if you get on well then you keep in touch....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To maintain a friendship you need to go beyond the swinging relationship. Most we have met have moved on some have become vanilla friends we sometimes shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have built up a nice little network of friends on here and the scene in general this has led to some great times and opens lots of doors. People dip in and out of the lifestyle it's only natural so sometimes you lose touch only for them to make contact again.

We keep in touch via the site and consider our little network true friends.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

we are looking to build up a network of sexy friends to play with, but haven't been very successful yet. Maybe we are just shit in bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive given out contact details before and then a day or so later, dont hear from them even though they are still active on site. Block and delete, also do the same if I dont hear back from friends off my list on here. If they dont reply, they certainly arent going to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest friend is 2 years and still going, most of my friends last a long time, they drop out for various reasons, ones just got back with her ex and making a go of it. Most of the time, things run their course over time, some of my friends I meet very infrequently, but have been going for some time. Absence makes the lust grow stronger.... Or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a really good network of friends from the site. We just do the same as we do in our non swinging life to maintain the friendship...but people come and go in that side of life too, it's inevitable...

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