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Why do people assume we're fake?

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

we are a couple looking who are looking for a female for Mr play with, with me (Mrs) watching. I manage the profile so if anyone needs this verifying I will happily do so, but so many people have accused us of being a single guy or fake! We have mixed pics on our profile and are very honest on the profile - maybe too honest/boring! We do have face pics in private gallery but are wary of just adding people ... Don't know what else to do!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno. Think your profile and pictures seem very "real". Maybe it's them doing some kind of Turing test on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it....you're verified, more than once so there's no logic to accusing you of being fake!? Dont let it phase you, just pity their lack of common sense.

Sasha x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Take no notice, they are probably the ones who are fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These people calling you fake are not ones you've politely turned down are they ?!

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Are we being too particular and fussy do you think?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume everyone is fake until they show me different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we being too particular and fussy do you think?! "

I think you should run your profile as you wish, look for what you want and ignore people who think otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, there's nothing about your profile that suggests you are fake at all, remember there are a lot of odd people here

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"These people calling you fake are not ones you've politely turned down are they ?!"

It's mainly in chat. The frustrating thing is if someone winks or messages I always respond obviously thinking they've read the profile - apparently not! We're then ignored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with the prior posts in this thread you're profile is good. However it's maybe your latest update that some may take as a couple that once played together being a single man playing alone. Incidentally there's nothing wrong with a guy playing alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only been accused on a couple of occasions and in both instances it was single guys who's balls were absolutely at bursting point desperate for a fuck and being disappointed when we refused to meet them. But thankfully it's very rare

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

We do need a bit of an update I think just not had time to do so and a little stuck as to what to put. I'm basically on crutches for the moment which I'm not sure are so sexy!!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"We have only been accused on a couple of occasions and in both instances it was single guys who's balls were absolutely at bursting point desperate for a fuck and being disappointed when we refused to meet them. But thankfully it's very rare"
agree with this, and then you get the "I'm genuine, so if YOU won't meet me, it proves you are not genuine" argument...etc etc ad infinitum. Your profile is really good OP, don't let it get you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's been widely reported that single men pretend to have a knowing partner who is on holiday,not well at the moment,pregnant and not taking part etc. Being burned makes people wary of the fire so to speak. To save any time wasting they steer clear. You have been honest on your profile and you are present to verify you are a couple. That's enough for me but I wouldn't want you watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea why they assume you're fake, especially if Mrs can verify genuine but on the face of it what you're asking for is a single lady to come and play with the man.

So not a million miles removed from a single guy wanting to meet a lady albeit with the twist of the wife watching in either in person or from afar. But essentially the 'play' is single female on man.

In that case, join the throng of guys looking for those ladies.. I guess it's a case of supply and demand. Some ladies will like the added security or thrill of the lady being there or watching in, others may be uncomfortable with it.

Either way I wish you luck and hope you find what you're looking for! Happy Fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it's been widely reported that single men pretend to have a knowing partner who is on holiday,not well at the moment,pregnant and not taking part etc. Being burned makes people wary of the fire so to speak. To save any time wasting they steer clear. You have been honest on your profile and you are present to verify you are a couple. That's enough for me but I wouldn't want you watching. "

That's it exactly.

Pretty tough to be a single guy.. tougher still to be a guy in a couple with a relationship that plays on his own. Good luck. You'll need it and a thick skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some reason a lot on here think a guy from a couple playing with the lady watching is 'fake' as no woman would want to watch. But when the fem half of a couple plays with the hubby just watching it's great!!

It's always puzzled us! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ditch the cock in sock pic - was cool when the chillies did it. That was 25 years ago and you're no Californian rock star.

But no you don't look fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason a lot on here think a guy from a couple playing with the lady watching is 'fake' as no woman would want to watch. But when the fem half of a couple plays with the hubby just watching it's great!!

It's always puzzled us! X "
it's a funny one that isn't it x

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

The play you like is called 'cuckquean' play.... Not seen often on here so many don't know about that fetish.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We have found out those are the fakes

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Haha I think Mr wishes he was a Cali rock star ... We just put that one one for a laugh it's one of my faves!!

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're kinda into cuckquean but I'm not particularly interested in the humiliation part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified by 7 people in 5 weeks. Dont think youre doing too badly

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"I assume everyone is fake until they show me different."

it's not just me then!

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Verified by 7 people in 5 weeks. Dont think youre doing too badly "

Indeed. I am still waiting on an opportunity to get verified by boo boo.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"we are a couple looking who are looking for a female for Mr play with, with me (Mrs) watching. I manage the profile so if anyone needs this verifying I will happily do so, but so many people have accused us of being a single guy or fake! We have mixed pics on our profile and are very honest on the profile - maybe too honest/boring! We do have face pics in private gallery but are wary of just adding people ... Don't know what else to do!! "

I think people will question your validity due to 2 reasons

1. You are requesting only female company and not male even tho you are a couple and some single men might want to play with your woman

2. You said you are a bit wary to add people , why would you be wary if your intentions was to get on fab and socialise ? Besides adding people would allow most members see that you do have mixed pictures of both you and your woman.

having said all these, the ball lies in the hands of the members if they wana engage in a swinging match with you two, i would advice you lower your restrictions so men can have a good taste of your woman as many would believe you are controlling and depriving your woman the same benefits you are after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've also had similar messages.

We have encountered so many fakers, single males pretending to be a couple or, single guys with 'massive cock pics' but yet do a reverse image search and they're all over Google!!

Also we find a lot of profiles changing location to suit their targets for dirty text talk, Kik etc.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

you sound very lovely, nothing wrong with your profile...for me its the skype and pics,,if both there in person,no pics, different story..for me...

hope you find what you are looking for xx

other than that your profile is fine imo x course id want face pics with a pm..but whats on display is good x

think about going to a club....if you run out of patience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I think Mr wishes he was a Cali rock star ... We just put that one one for a laugh it's one of my faves!! "

So long as he's rocking you world- he's doing a good job lol

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over a year ago

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Thank you adore the replies. I think we will be tweaking the profile a little over the coming weeks. I would like to play eventually (Mrs) however I am on crutches at the moment with limited movement and as the profile States the huge thing for me is watching Mr. He would never play without my permission ... I'm the one who initiated it all and manages it all! Maybe a dominatrix in the making

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Thank you for not bloody adore!!! Damn phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verified by 7 people in 5 weeks. Dont think youre doing too badly

Indeed. I am still waiting on an opportunity to get verified by boo boo."
One sunny day Bob! x

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