FabSwingers.com forum: profile opinion

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been on here a while.... I have met one person back when I first joined the site. Since then I hardly even get a response to my emails. I'm not ripped but I'm not in bad shape and I have a fair package

surely should be getting at least some success?

Anyone want to give me any profile tips?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst this goes against the grain of the advice of many, I think if you are professing to be well endowed you need to show it. Saying it and not showing it will make people sceptical.

Putting that aside, you seem to be working from the assumption that the more ripped you are, the more meets you will get. This is false.

Whilst admittedly some females and couples are very interested in muscles, a number are not and I suspect they would actually rank other factors above that such as reliability, discretion, looks and personality.

Just finally, I always bang on that the success of a single male is down to no other than right place right time. If you have a good profile and are available short notice on a weekend I suspect you will get a meet.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just took a look at your profile. Here are some things I noticed:

-Your pics are OK, but not great. I like to get a better idea of someone's body from their pics and with the angles of yours, it is a bit difficult.

-Will you really try ANYTHING once? I never understand why people put this (especially single guys). You definitely have things you want to try (fantasies) and things you won't do (red lines). Why not mention them? It always get me more interested in a profile when I see someones opinions come through instead of the uber generic "anything, anywhere."

- Other than that your profile doesn't say very much about you at all. It is, in a word, generic.

And on a very personal level, I don't like beards. So I, personally, wouldn't meet you because of the line in your profile about wavering between a beard and stubble...but that is a personal opinion and probably won't hurt you with others.

Take a look at the other million threads asking for profile advice and you will probably find more to help you out. Good Luck.

-Courtney