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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have arrange a meet at mine tonight with a sexy 24 year old girl, and was just wondering if any one has any tips on how to spice things up a bit. seriouse suggestions only please..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ermm have you ever done this before me wonders

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

many times, just looking for NEW ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys, choccie body paint, sensual massage, ice cubes, scarves for tying up, blindfold.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what about talking dirty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldnt talk dirty unless you know that shes into that, it could come across as offensive. Im presuming as a guy you wont have sex toys as such.

A good idea would be a nice bottle of wine or if you want to splash out champagne, and drinking that, out of her pussy of course

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would leave the dirty talk out.

Quiet drink to get to know each other, great music in the background..

Honesty re expectation setting and boundaries.

Humour and no pressure..

Hope you both have a nice time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the tips goin to get some champs now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you met her before? If this is your first meet I'd do as the others suggest and not indulge in dirty talk. Also, don't go overboard with the alcohol and although a bit of mild bondage is fun, not for a first meet. It's a matter of trust.

Most of all - don't 'try' too hard - just relax and have fun. We ladies don't always need staged theatricals to have a good time!

sugar x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"many times, just looking for NEW ideas "

If this is true, you've been very receptive to some very OLD ideas.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

...Damn, I'm not supposed to post criticism like that anymore...

Sorry, OP.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Don't you just love these look at me posts?

FFS If you've no imagination of your own you won't be much good on a meet no matter how much advice your given.

Stop shooting yourself in the foot is the best I can offer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"many times, just looking for NEW ideas "

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I guess the meet has passed now and hopefully gone well. But for future reference why not ask the person you're meeting what they like/don't like. Any suggestions given here might go down like a lead balloon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the meet was amazing

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"the meet was amazing "
I hope you don't think you're going to get away with that!! Spill the beans, what did you do to spice things up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well she turned up in a minnie skirt (no niks) hi heels, came in had a kiss and glass of wine and chat for 10mins beore she said she needed the toliet, within mins i heard her calling me up stairs there she was laying in stockings and heels playing with her self, i dived straight in with my tounge.

there was no dirrty talk or toys just hours of oral an naughty sex.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

You kinky beast!!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

/me makes mental notes

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

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