FabSwingers.com forum: First time with a couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They are some lovely couple who have message me & I'd love to meet up with them but Iv never done anything with a woman I would like to but I don't know where to start I would be very grateful if anyone could help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with a social meet and see how you all feel

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

if the other woman is BI just let them both play with you then you can reciprocate when you feel ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain to the cple. That you have no experiance but want to try. Let the other fem take the lead and respond when you feel ready. Or just lay back and recieve for the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it slow is key, think we would be the same with meeting a woman as we have never done it though are curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are some lovely couple who have message me & I'd love to meet up with them but Iv never done anything with a woman I would like to but I don't know where to start I would be very grateful if anyone could help."

Get photo verified.. Upload some pics and be a bit more specific in your profile description about what you're seeking..

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We were all new to it once. Most people remember that, and are more than happy to go at whatever speed you like. Talk beforehand, including any definite no-noes and any definite fantasies, and I'm sure you'll be fine. It's not as if you only get one chance, and I strongly suspect they'd rather leave you wanting to come back for more, than risk pushing you too far on your first time.

(Just steer clear of those shouty "BLOODY TIMEWASTER" profiles

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Have fun, you'll soon be wondering why you didn't take the plunge earlier.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be upfront and honest about your situation and meet a couple that respect it. Have fun and enjoy it!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

When you say you "would like to"... would like to what? Is there a specific activity that cones to mind? If so, that's where you start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say you would like to, is this because you're curious? Have you had fantasies? Read erotica? Seen girl girl scenes...(although most girl girl porn is crass and massively fake...)

If so, you'll have some idea in your head of the kinds of things you might like to do or have done to you, surely...do you fantasise about it when you masturbate? Then you can perhaps share some of those fantasies with people first before taking the plunge and see if you have any of those things in common...

It's really a case of taking things at your own pace with people who are happy to lead and help you to learn...the only time I was ever someone's "first", she'd fantasised about it for so long, she was very proactive because she knew what she wanted and how it would make her feel...

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

Make sure you choose your couple carefully. When I first started I didn't go with very experienced couples. I had no idea what I was doing. It certainly wasn't how I fantasised

I'd recommend a social meet first too. Good luck and youre sure to have loads of messages. A single female for couples is hard to come by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the other woman is BI just let them both play with you then you can reciprocate when you feel ready "

This

Let her take the lead until you feel comfortable. Have you told them you are nervous?

It must be really daunting to meet alone and especially for your first bi experience but just relax and I'm sure it will all flow naturally and you'll have a great time!

Sasha x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Tell them you are nervous and new. Be honest but try to relax and take your time.

The right couple will take their time with you too and everyone can then figure out together what each other enjoys and how you're all going to have fun together. When it works it can be mind blowing

Good luck xxxx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of great advice already on here for you OP.

I'd definitely choose your first with care and have a social first. Clubs are also an option.

Some women are uncomfortable with what you want but many (me included) aren't.

Just like any other meet, you need to be sure your boundaries will be respected.

Though as another posted said the whole idea is for you to want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to meet a couple for the first time ff or mf to try new things see where my boundaries are any tips for first timers

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I had a social meet with a lovely couple recently. I can't wait to meet up with them again. A social definitely first. I just knew they were both right for me and you will to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also curious to try.. But I find some couples a little intimidating.

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