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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am married with kids but not getting anything from my other half,what I'm wondering is that is this not the right place to find what I'm looking for, I mean I have been honest with people when I message them like I'm married etc and attach a photo of mine etc. but not had any luck yet.

Any advice or thoughts be appreciated.

Thank you all.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Have you tried Ashley Madison?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am married with kids but not getting anything from my other half,what I'm wondering is that is this not the right place to find what I'm looking for, I mean I have been honest with people when I message them like I'm married etc and attach a photo of mine etc. but not had any luck yet.

Any advice or thoughts be appreciated.

Thank you all."

You've been here 7 days.

What were you expecting after a week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol you need patience

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By *unLondonLadMan
over a year ago

Camberley/London


"I am married with kids but not getting anything from my other half,what I'm wondering is that is this not the right place to find what I'm looking for, I mean I have been honest with people when I message them like I'm married etc and attach a photo of mine etc. but not had any luck yet.

Any advice or thoughts be appreciated.

Thank you all.

You've been here 7 days.

What were you expecting after a week?"

Probably 14 meets...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I am married with kids but not getting anything from my other half,what I'm wondering is that is this not the right place to find what I'm looking for, I mean I have been honest with people when I message them like I'm married etc and attach a photo of mine etc. but not had any luck yet.

Any advice or thoughts be appreciated.

Thank you all."

I have a few - borrow one of mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried Ashley Madison? "

Ha ha

No haven't be in big trouble then I think. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit harsh, only asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm biting my tongue and attempting to not judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're married

Can't accommodate

Can't travel

Spent no time on your profile

Been here a week...

Does the Mrs know? If not can I have her number and I'll invite her round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm biting my tongue and attempting to not judge "

Oops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay here goes.

Your profile is the way you sell yourself on here so you need a decent one to compete with the massive single man market out in fab land

Public photos

Interests listed

Interesting, snappy profile text.

There are some very successful men on here in the same position as you so it is doable.

And top tip ~ never diss the partner, it's bad form.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Your post on here is longer than your profile! Get rid of the ridiculous warning bollocks and use the space telling us something about yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't asking for judgement really but if you think you must why don't you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Countdown to UNLOS starts here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks appreciated "

Quote the people you're replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you "

OP ~ use the Reply & Quote button, makes it easier to see who you are replying too.

and people will always have an opinion on this subject as its an emotive one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like said asking for thoughts and advice and if my other half knows or not why is it anyone's business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman would of asked they would be all considerate and say yeah we understand lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you

OP ~ use the Reply & Quote button, makes it easier to see who you are replying too.

and people will always have an opinion on this subject as its an emotive one."
got that now thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't asking for judgement really but if you think you must why don't you. "

Not sure who has judged you... I posted what was wrong with your profile, hence that being advice...

As for asking if the Mrs knew, that was,curiosity!

Good luck and hope you find your fb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wasn't asking for judgement really but if you think you must why don't you.

Not sure who has judged you... I posted what was wrong with your profile, hence that being advice...

As for asking if the Mrs knew, that was,curiosity!

Good luck and hope you find your fb

"
thanks mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like said asking for thoughts and advice and if my other half knows or not why is it anyone's business? "

It's not, but you told everyone about your partner on a public forum so expect people to be interested.

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Many critics on here as you've found out..

But it's your business, your life..

And I know many married men on here who are very successful on this site

Take criticism with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman would of asked they would be all considerate and say yeah we understand lol."

Yes they would say , go to counseling. Try to work it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like said asking for thoughts and advice and if my other half knows or not why is it anyone's business?

It's not, but you told everyone about your partner on a public forum so expect people to be interested."
that's fair point there thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman would of asked they would be all considerate and say yeah we understand lol.

Yes they would say , go to counseling. Try to work it out "
thanks mate done all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like said asking for thoughts and advice and if my other half knows or not why is it anyone's business?

It's not, but you told everyone about your partner on a public forum so expect people to be interested. that's fair point there thank you. "

Just as an aside - you might like to consider how your partner would feel about you broadcasting details of your intimate life together (or lack of it) on a sex forum. If they haven't given their consent, it's not really a very kind thing to do IMO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many critics on here as you've found out..

But it's your business, your life..

And I know many married men on here who are very successful on this site

Thank you.

Take criticism with a pinch of salt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot accommodate or travel, if you're married and on here without your partners permission or knowledge then exactly how much time would you have to commit to a meet and when ? What exactly do you have to offer to a regular meet ? Your profile is your chance to tell everyone, it doesn't.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Like said asking for thoughts and advice and if my other half knows or not why is it anyone's business?

It's not, but you told everyone about your partner on a public forum so expect people to be interested. that's fair point there thank you.

Just as an aside - you might like to consider how your partner would feel about you broadcasting details of your intimate life together (or lack of it) on a sex forum. If they haven't given their consent, it's not really a very kind thing to do IMO."

Especially for someone whose username is gentlemen not a very gentry move at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your wife know you are cheating way to go fella you thought of talking to her or just using the no sex crap as justifying to yourself its ok what your doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, the warning bit, what exactly on your profile can be used, there's nothing on it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol you need patience "

Lots of it, but good things do come if you're patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate or travel, if you're married and on here without your partners permission or knowledge then exactly how much time would you have to commit to a meet and when ? What exactly do you have to offer to a regular meet ? Your profile is your chance to tell everyone, it doesn't. "
thanks mate I gather that now.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

As a married man cheating of here you stand very little chance I'm afraid.

For most swingers, cheating is a big taboo. You will be judged, you probably will not like most of the replies to your thread.

As for meeting ladies from here..... Think of it from their point of view. You will have the odd hour here n there to meet. You can't travel and accommodation is impossible with a wife at home. Would you select a guy who can only spend a short time with you or the guy who cam spend hours exploring your body and fantasies? Finally, your wife may find out and then the shit will really hit the fan. Would you want to be on the receiving end of that shit storm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does your wife know you are cheating way to go fella you thought of talking to her or just using the no sex crap as justifying to yourself its ok what your doing."

Not trying to justify myself, I don't have to everyone has things going on in their lives that is to obvious to others, good things or bad and not everyone is perfect but nevertheless got your criticism. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your wife know you are cheating way to go fella you thought of talking to her or just using the no sex crap as justifying to yourself its ok what your doing.

Not trying to justify myself, I don't have to everyone has things going on in their lives that is to obvious to others, good things or bad and not everyone is perfect but nevertheless got your criticism. Thank you. "

Your OP says you're not getting any as its some sort of justification for being on here. You didn't need to say that, just that you're married and leave it at that. Its your business why you're on here but you'll have to accept you won't appeal to many who are looking for a no strings fuck buddy, being married is a big string for some. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a married man cheating of here you stand very little chance I'm afraid.

For most swingers, cheating is a big taboo. You will be judged, you probably will not like most of the replies to your thread.

As for meeting ladies from here..... Think of it from their point of view. You will have the odd hour here n there to meet. You can't travel and accommodation is impossible with a wife at home. Would you select a guy who can only spend a short time with you or the guy who cam spend hours exploring your body and fantasies? Finally, your wife may find out and then the shit will really hit the fan. Would you want to be on the receiving end of that shit storm? "

People entitled to their opinion of course hence I am looking at the reactions and I'll take it from there, I haven't cheated on her in the past,never.thanks for taking time to reply though appreciated

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

A public flogging? Draw up a seat. OP you unfortunately have stumbled into a age old Forum trap! Have fun and stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does your wife know you are cheating way to go fella you thought of talking to her or just using the no sex crap as justifying to yourself its ok what your doing.

Not trying to justify myself, I don't have to everyone has things going on in their lives that is to obvious to others, good things or bad and not everyone is perfect but nevertheless got your criticism. Thank you.

Your OP says you're not getting any as its some sort of justification for being on here. You didn't need to say that, just that you're married and leave it at that. Its your business why you're on here but you'll have to accept you won't appeal to many who are looking for a no strings fuck buddy, being married is a big string for some. Good luck. "

Ta mate just learning and being honest I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a married man cheating of here you stand very little chance I'm afraid.

For most swingers, cheating is a big taboo. You will be judged, you probably will not like most of the replies to your thread.

As for meeting ladies from here..... Think of it from their point of view. You will have the odd hour here n there to meet. You can't travel and accommodation is impossible with a wife at home. Would you select a guy who can only spend a short time with you or the guy who cam spend hours exploring your body and fantasies? Finally, your wife may find out and then the shit will really hit the fan. Would you want to be on the receiving end of that shit storm?

People entitled to their opinion of course hence I am looking at the reactions and I'll take it from there, I haven't cheated on her in the past,never.thanks for taking time to reply though appreciated "

My advice would be to keep it that way and talk to her about it. How would she and the kids feel if found out ? Is a no strings shag worth losing everything over ? Your life, your choice but you have to live with your decisions. Ask yourself how you'd feel if it was her doing this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a married man cheating of here you stand very little chance I'm afraid.

For most swingers, cheating is a big taboo. You will be judged, you probably will not like most of the replies to your thread.

As for meeting ladies from here..... Think of it from their point of view. You will have the odd hour here n there to meet. You can't travel and accommodation is impossible with a wife at home. Would you select a guy who can only spend a short time with you or the guy who cam spend hours exploring your body and fantasies? Finally, your wife may find out and then the shit will really hit the fan. Would you want to be on the receiving end of that shit storm?

People entitled to their opinion of course hence I am looking at the reactions and I'll take it from there, I haven't cheated on her in the past,never.thanks for taking time to reply though appreciated

My advice would be to keep it that way and talk to her about it. How would she and the kids feel if found out ? Is a no strings shag worth losing everything over ? Your life, your choice but you have to live with your decisions. Ask yourself how you'd feel if it was her doing this."

You right mate thanks be out of here no time.cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for taking time to reply etc .averaging all replies it's probably best and safest being out of here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for taking time to reply etc .averaging all replies it's probably best and safest being out of here. "

He'll be back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He didn't stay long, he will be back lol.

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Poor guy didn't stand a chance..

Sorry but people do meet married people on here without their partners knowledge..

Don't be so quick to judge..nobody's perfect.

Soooo may hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor guy didn't stand a chance..

Sorry but people do meet married people on here without their partners knowledge..

Don't be so quick to judge..nobody's perfect.

Soooo may hypocrites"

Who is a hypocrite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor guy didn't stand a chance..

Sorry but people do meet married people on here without their partners knowledge..

Don't be so quick to judge..nobody's perfect.

Soooo may hypocrites"

Who judged?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

probably went to ashley madison after all...

think about it... they probably have fort knox's like security now!!!! no way they get hacked twice!!!

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Many hypocrites on this post, didn't name or say everyone..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Many hypocrites on this post, didn't name or say everyone.."

You may need to look up the dictionary definition

Now had we all been in the same situation as The OP but telling him he's wrong by doing it then yes we'd be hypocrites can't say I've seen as such happening on this thread

Unless your referring to the views that committed couples playing openly together shouldn't be swingers as they vowed to remain faithful for asking all others then maybe there's an element of an argument for hypocrisy , but there is a difference between couples playing And expanding their relationship, than a cheating spouse after their jollies elsewhere regardless of reason, and let's face it were it not for swinging couples in the traditional context this site would probably not exist and you, other singles, couples, and cheaters, nor I would be able to benefit from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol another unlos, gues he will be back later.

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