FabSwingers.com forum: Don't seem to have much luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't seem to have much look on here it's a shame coz I am honest an clean an a reliable meet but I've been on here a while now an never had the chance. My be its coz I'm a single male I feel I've got a good profile with lots of good pic an I still not get any meets where am I going wrong could you please check me out an give me some advice please thankyou xxx

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Profiles just mediocre and way too many cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of good pics?

Where?

Your status sounds moany.

Your profile is forgettable.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Read the other similar posts on this issue in the Forum search link.

But ditch ALL the cock pics, it does your profile no good at all and get a face pic up instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The measuring tape picture made me chuckle.....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I don't seem to have much look on here it's a shame coz I am honest an clean an a reliable meet but I've been on here a while now an never had the chance. My be its coz I'm a single male I feel I've got a good profile with lots of good pic an I still not get any meets where am I going wrong could you please check me out an give me some advice please thankyou xxx"

I would suggest that you read the advice on the oodles of similar threads, lose all the cock picks and check your spelling and grammar. If you're not good at the language side of things, ask a trusted person to check if for you.

Nita x

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

The way I see it, single males need at least one USP (unique selling point) to attract attention. For some guys, it's an abnormally large cock. Others may be in good shape, or really handsome. If you're charismatic, generous (sexually), open minded, intelligent, and/or well educated, that helps.

Then it's a matter of carefully crafting your profile so as to highlight what makes you desirable, and of course, what you're looking for. Contrary to what it says on your profile, you shouldn't be on here to be 'used' (unless you're a real sub

), you need to have fun too!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"The measuring tape picture made me chuckle.....

Me too

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Profile is bland at best, really not a good one at all. It says nothing - and tells me even less.

A lot of cock pictures... really if we have seen it once, thats enough. Unless you are appealing for gay men - they seem to enjoy looking at them!

And has a D on the end of it, and a spell check would not go amiss...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Your pics aren't great at all the ones that aren't of your cock are out of focus so of poor quality

The profile text is very generic basically says your a nice guy and you want fun and that's about all it says

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Profile is bland at best, really not a good one at all. It says nothing - and tells me even less.

A lot of cock pictures... really if we have seen it once, thats enough. Unless you are appealing for gay men - they seem to enjoy looking at them!

And has a D on the end of it, and a spell check would not go amiss... "

All of this, plus the fact you can't accom and don't say why suggests you might be attached, you have been on over a year with no veri's, and you are straight but only have men on friends list and looking to meet TV/TS's, all these things will put many people off.

Good luck though and keep trying, hope the advice you get helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text seems ok to me. It's clear about what you want from someone.

But yeah your pics are off putting. You started off good, your oldest 2 public pics are good, then it turned into a cock fest on your page.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Where is that tape measure starting from ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My feedback would be:

- can't accommodate so many people on here will think you are cheating

- also the inability to accommodate generally limits your attraction to others

- Not my personal issue, but few spelling errors

- your profile suggest you are up for anything which I think to some comes across desperate

- not enough body shots

- the tape measure photo isn't great. Without wishing to be harsh you are not starting at the base of your penis

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Profile is bland at best, really not a good one at all. It says nothing - and tells me even less.

A lot of cock pictures... really if we have seen it once, thats enough. Unless you are appealing for gay men - they seem to enjoy looking at them!

And has a D on the end of it, and a spell check would not go amiss...

Good luck though and keep trying, hope the advice you get helps x"

All very true and you list a number of things you'd like to do and places where you'd like to do it, but don't give any clear reason why anyone would want to do it with you,...especially not in a car.

The profile needs a major overhaul, and the fact you've been on here for a year with no apparent meets will work against you too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like I say to all men, its about patience and also if your area is fab active lol.

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

If you keep on doing the same old things.......

Then you will keep on getting the same old results..........

Effort in = results out!

Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate seeing someone put clean on their profile or message. Just makes you wonder why they have stated that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do all men measure their cocks with the start of the tape measure under their balls? Your profile is just like every other cock pic profile on here. Use spellcheck with your text and have a look at your stats ie. your body type.

I wonder if any changes will be made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your avatar would be an instant no no for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanx for all advice I've sorted out pics an deleted profile txt

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't know what your profile read like before, but your op is longer!

If you can't sell you, well, you stand no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the most you're prepared to write in a profile then it's no surprise you're having no luck.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Thanx for all advice I've sorted out pics an deleted profile txt "

Presumably you're going to add more text, but better quality this time?

Leaving it as it is will get you nowhere on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah less cocks is good, one is fine imo. I don't think you need to put much on your profile text if you're messages are good and can get someones interest so they chat to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has his profile changed since the start of this thread, as to me it looks terrible. One sentence is an instant delete from me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Has his profile changed since the start of this thread, as to me it looks terrible. One sentence is an instant delete from me"

Yes but that one sentence was a slight improvement on the last one I saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has his profile changed since the start of this thread, as to me it looks terrible. One sentence is an instant delete from me

Yes but that one sentence was a slight improvement on the last one I saw "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Profiles are a 'Through-The-Looking-Glass' affair.

The more someone goes on about something, the less genuine I feel it is. Just as people with shiny, happy avatars turn out to the miserable ones...

Bottom line; it's a bunch of pixels designed to promote interest.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Profiles are a 'Through-The-Looking-Glass' affair.

The more someone goes on about something, the less genuine I feel it is. Just as people with shiny, happy avatars turn out to the miserable ones...

Bottom line; it's a bunch of pixels designed to promote interest. "

Gosh, you are depressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't accommodate instant stop looking at profile

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