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" ... Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? ... " woof, woof | |||
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"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!" That made me laugh so much! Lol x | |||
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"Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!! And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions " We're of the same opinion. | |||
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"... And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!! ... " Me too; if there is one thing I cannot stand then that is washed or unwashed miners | |||
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"... And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!! ... Me too; if there is one thing I cannot stand then that is washed or unwashed miners" Erm, I too meant, mingers | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Mrs Curious Couple 2015" If you wanna know what to expect , have look on our profile | |||
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" If you wanna know what to expect , have look on our profile " | |||
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"Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!! And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions " Yes we are all entitled to our opinions . And ours is that your opinion is based on guesswork and not reality , so it's not worth much at all is it ? The men are no worse than the desperate men in a club , and as for hygiene - everyone we have met have been impeccably clean . We spent three years in the club scene and found equally as many unwashed mingers at clubs . What we have found since we started dogging is that there are lot less judgemental people enjoying the dogging than there are on these forums . | |||
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"Taken a look of some of the doggers profiles so I suppose the clues in the title !! My opinion again " And what does that opinion imply ? | |||
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"Reading this forum can you explain get what dogging is too me?" Google it! | |||
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"Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!! And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions Yes we are all entitled to our opinions . And ours is that your opinion is based on guesswork and not reality , so it's not worth much at all is it ? The men are no worse than the desperate men in a club , and as for hygiene - everyone we have met have been impeccably clean . We spent three years in the club scene and found equally as many unwashed mingers at clubs . What we have found since we started dogging is that there are lot less judgemental people enjoying the dogging than there are on these forums ." Love your opinions lol. Very similar to my own. Never been dogging so can't comment. | |||
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"Scary wild west fun. We did it once many years ago but found it to be altogether too risky. Never say never again but doubt if we will. A bit of a queue formed for servicing and we just thought. Bloody hell. if a police car comes along now we are going to be in trouble. The adrenalin rush though is pure and to be fair the guys were all polite but what if they weren't. We just felt wow. This is sex at it's dirtiest and riskiest. Once in a lifetime is enough LOL." All very good points Just the way I think too It is there with my fantasy of a gangbang which I am more likely to make a reality than dogging | |||
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"Thank you at last someone that thinks the same !!! Neither have we or would we ever, you can find other ways to get the adrenaline high without exposing yourself to all kinds of danger !! " And that's your choice which we ffully respect . What we don't respect is the outright condemnation and disdain you have shown on this thread - despite the fact that you have never done it ! Quite how you feel you can make reasoned comments on a thread that asks what one can expect from dogging is beyond us . A bit like adding a comment on trip advisor for a holiday to Greece when youve never been . We have learned to accept that Iit's not for everyone and that's perfectly fine . Each to their own and all that . And we totally get the comments from those who tried it and didn't like it . Even those who feel the risk isn't worth it are stating a genuine reasoned case . Your 'opinions ' however are not worthy of anything other than the same level of contempt you have shown us . | |||
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"ive met few couplss and always wait for them to get relax before going over However some guys go over straight away and spoil the fun " Where is there to go in Crewe area? | |||
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"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!" | |||
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"Gloswingers I just hope for your own sakes you stay safe because the only way to ensure this is not to put yourself in unnecessary danger, all for the sake of a shag because I'm afraid we are not that desperate if you interprate that as disrespect that's your choice I'm bored with this now so signing off !!! " I would go if I had Police protection Unlikely that will happen; more likely that I'll get arrested | |||
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"Gloswingers I just hope for your own sakes you stay safe because the only way to ensure this is not to put yourself in unnecessary danger, all for the sake of a shag because I'm afraid we are not that desperate if you interprate that as disrespect that's your choice I'm bored with this now so signing off !!! " I'm afraid we aren't that desperate for a shag at all , but thank you for your good wishes towards our safety . For anyone who is genuinely interested in dogging / outdoor fun here's a few pointers . Stay safe , don't play if you think there are any non doggers about . Be respectful to the surroundings , clean up afterwards , don't leave wipes , tissues , condoms lying around . Always set your boundaries before playing . Stick to.them whatever . Never feel pressured . Always stay in control . Be firm if you don't want to play with the mingers ( ) some of them may be happy to keep watch for you . A bit of respect goes a long way . Arrange to met like minded people from fab at the venue . This establishes mutual attraction and often gets things started nicely . And above all enjoy it .... don't let your nerves be anything more than a stimulant . The adrenaline rush is great , and the sponenaity unbeatable | |||
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"I would really like to go dogging but wouldnt mind going with someone who can drive for a start x" Hi, I'm a driver and a dogger not far away from you. Fancy giving it a try? _tripper9 | |||
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"It depends on how you go about it , we went a few times years ago and to be honest it holds little to no interest for us as if we wanted to play with random people or people we had arranged to meet and be watched by lots of men we would go to the relative comfort of a club. Our main issue is not one of safety as that's a choice you make , our issue is one of non concent as playing in public areas you run the risk of exposing non consenting people's to your activities sometimes kids depending on your choice of time and location. Also it's the general mess that's left behind at these areas after which is no better than a addict leaving a used needle behind. I once heard someone say that dogging was like fishing , effectively unless you arrange to meet someone apart from single guys you could be sat for hours or days on end waiting for a bite ?? We have seen men who take a packed lunch and a flask and wait all night for some action come rain or shine Whatever you do or how you do it have respect for others who don't do it and you should be fine " As we said in our post earlier , the issues you have are understandable , but cleaning up and making sure only those who want to see can see , are not that difficult to do . | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Mrs Curious Couple 2015" Forget it - 95% gay men now - and hygiene leaves an awful lot to be desired. Used to be fun years ago - had it now in our experience. | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Mrs Curious Couple 2015 Forget it - 95% gay men now - and hygiene leaves an awful lot to be desired. Used to be fun years ago - had it now in our experience." So glad we aren't up your way then .... We have loads of fun down here | |||
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"It depends on how you go about it , we went a few times years ago and to be honest it holds little to no interest for us as if we wanted to play with random people or people we had arranged to meet and be watched by lots of men we would go to the relative comfort of a club. Our main issue is not one of safety as that's a choice you make , our issue is one of non concent as playing in public areas you run the risk of exposing non consenting people's to your activities sometimes kids depending on your choice of time and location. Also it's the general mess that's left behind at these areas after which is no better than a addict leaving a used needle behind. I once heard someone say that dogging was like fishing , effectively unless you arrange to meet someone apart from single guys you could be sat for hours or days on end waiting for a bite ?? We have seen men who take a packed lunch and a flask and wait all night for some action come rain or shine Whatever you do or how you do it have respect for others who don't do it and you should be fine As we said in our post earlier , the issues you have are understandable , but cleaning up and making sure only those who want to see can see , are not that difficult to do ." Totally agree but it does seem to be beyond the vast majority of people at 2 well known locations in our area one of which actuall happens to be part of the public footpath which forms the Cotswold way and is frequented by families and kids who have to avoid the discarded condoms and tissues , it only takes a small minority to give the rest a bad name so it's the responsibility of the rest to make sure it doesn't happen and give what you do a bad reputation that said the amount of stuff discarded it's more than a minority. | |||
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"is there not some sort of code at swinging sites... headlight flashes that mean yes and some that mean no! im assuming a newbie dogger would need to know them ! " Yeah, and switching on indicators from side to side means they swing both ways | |||
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"is there not some sort of code at swinging sites... headlight flashes that mean yes and some that mean no! im assuming a newbie dogger would need to know them ! Yeah, and switching on indicators from side to side means they swing both ways " And if they run you over on the way out it means they're not interested. | |||
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"We don,t bother any more we were dogging before it was called dogging to many barm pots about and men that can not take no for an answer" | |||
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"Ah c'mon guys they're looking for some help not a critique! My own experiences have been disappointment, usually a few cars with single guys in all waiting for something to happen before driving off again I think the days of turning up at random are gone and now most meets are planned in advance, couples post on here, vet the replies and then meet the ones they choose at a private location rather than a known dogging spot. " | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Take a book, torch, and a flask, as no one comes over to chat, guys sit in their cars waiting for you to go to them, its pretty crap these days, your best off arranging an out door meet with guys you know will show up xx Mrs Curious Couple 2015" | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Mrs Curious Couple 2015 Forget it - 95% gay men now - and hygiene leaves an awful lot to be desired. Used to be fun years ago - had it now in our experience. So glad we aren't up your way then .... We have loads of fun down here " Yes we can see from your photos lol ! Think Greater Manchester Police have had a real clampdown - all the old favourite haunts now gated off or patrolled regularly by police - who profess to have no manpower to deal with crime ! lol | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Mrs Curious Couple 2015 If you wanna know what to expect , have look on our profile " this lol | |||
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"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!" apology accepted | |||
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"Hi, Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment Thanks Mrs Curious Couple 2015" Boy racers and police might be expected and possibly collymore | |||
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"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio " Lmfao!!! That's the best reply to a post I've seen by far!! | |||
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"We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like. " its awesome you will mainly find men wanking but when i went alone lots of couples playing | |||
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"We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like. its awesome you will mainly find men wanking but when i went alone lots of couples playing" Yeah, mainly guys wanking but plenty I met when I tried it where clean, nice and up for playing a bit x | |||
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"We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like. " Cold, wet miserable and populated by sad wankers? | |||
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"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!" If you come across a miner, I'd be very surprised. I think they're a lot rarer than bi single fems with their own teeth! | |||
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"My honest opinion on dogging... Don't bother! My last experience of this cost me a front windscreen and rear glass! " Ever wondered why? | |||
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"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio " Haha?? | |||
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"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio " | |||
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"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!" I was a little surprised | |||
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"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio Haha??" great answer.plasterers radio hahahaha | |||
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"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!" | |||
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"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio " And if it’s anything like pigeon shit..Lick it off before it wrecks your paintwork | |||
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