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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"

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Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect?

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woof, woof

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We don,t bother any more we were dogging before it was called dogging to many barm pots about and men that can not take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says 'not looking for single guys' and that you're looking for women only. The dogging 'experience' may come as a considerable disappointment to you, depending on what your expectations are. Needless to say, the male participants outnumber all the others.

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah c'mon guys they're looking for some help not a critique!

My own experiences have been disappointment, usually a few cars with single guys in all waiting for something to happen before driving off again

I think the days of turning up at random are gone and now most meets are planned in advance, couples post on here, vet the replies and then meet the ones they choose at a private location rather than a known dogging spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on when you go (Fri and Sat far busier) and where you go, you'll arrive and there will be a a few cars there, perhaps less. Mostly guys in the cars but there will be the odd couple, although infrequently. You'll pull up and being a couple your car will attract interest. Then you might get followed if you move off. The experienced doggers would allow you to settle and wait to see what your intentions are. The polite ones will ask before becoming involved.

If it's couples you want to meet exclusively, best arranging that on here with those of similar interest with the venue being a non-dogging location but still private. Be prepared for no-shows however.

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Thank you for the responses, will have a discuss with the Mr!

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I don't think the random doggin experience has gone at all. What seems to have changed is that guys arrive, see nothing happening, then drive off. Most don't seem to realise that you need to wait quite some time (usually) to see anything crack off.

OP - Don't go with any expectations, different areas tend to have different regulars and different experiences. Don't for get, you can drive away t any time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you try and plan it first with some people you feel comfortable with and get the experience of what it would be like before you start meeting strangers

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!!

And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I am an occasional dogger and I want to take issue with your comments.I AM desperate BUT I shower daily.I think that means you're only half right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes tell bout me I'd say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!"

That made me laugh so much! Lol x

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

expect disapointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!!

And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions "

We're of the same opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi

dogging is hit and miss for males but any couples who turn up should have plenty of choice

If you get too many let the guys know and most will come back later

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By *uddlesnSkippyCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

From experience, the single men don't let you settle before they start prowling around the car - if you drive off they will follow you to the next car park. Never yet seen another Couple at a dogging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met few couplss and always wait for them to get relax before going over

However some guys go over straight away and spoil the fun

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


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And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!!

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Me too; if there is one thing I cannot stand then that is washed or unwashed miners

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...

And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!!

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Me too; if there is one thing I cannot stand then that is washed or unwashed miners"

Erm, I too meant, mingers

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi Josie I take you are also using your mobile lol !!!!

Pred spellings not always helpful when trying to get your point across ha ha x

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

I've spoken to couples who have tried it. None of the couples enjoyed the experience in most cases they felt vulnerable and trapped. Put me off trying

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I would imagine on days like today Wet feet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest opinion on dogging...

Don't bother!

My last experience of this cost me a front windscreen and rear glass!

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We've been dogging for years and love it

Dogging isn't dead, but you need to know where to go and how to handle yourselves and others around you!

Mrs D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015"

If you wanna know what to expect , have look on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing I found most disappointing, when I've checked dogging vids on the hamster site.

Nobody brings their dog.

Why bother then?

Not like the good old days when my neighbour used to take an hour, late at night, walking his pooch up + down the road. Guess he was old skool

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


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If you wanna know what to expect , have look on our profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!!

And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions "

Yes we are all entitled to our opinions .

And ours is that your opinion is based on guesswork and not reality , so it's not worth much at all is it ?

The men are no worse than the desperate men in a club , and as for hygiene - everyone we have met have been impeccably clean .

We spent three years in the club scene and found equally as many unwashed mingers at clubs .

What we have found since we started dogging is that there are lot less judgemental people enjoying the dogging than there are on these forums .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gloswingers - class profile and comments!

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Hi like any activities on here there is a certain element of pot luck.

Being near Blackburn I can say that there are some fairly busy dogging venues and some lovely countryside (as opposed to just dogging places) maybe choose some people to go dogging with rather than leaving it to total chance?

This may not be absolute definition of dogging but may be a good way to start.

_tripper9

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

She reads in interest. Never been myself but know loads that have, heard the stories and wanted to try. Seems quite negative on here where most of the people I've spoken to it has been a positive experience. I do believe we have some thriving sites around my area though. Which I'm sure helps.

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By *9bottMan
over a year ago

chester

.....AM desperate BUT I shower daily....still not enough! I expect " just out of shower " freshness ... Just to avoid sweaty bollocks armpits and god knows what else lol

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

So agree with "Gloswingers" we are a couple who have been doggers for 20 years, so many people on here base their answers on what they guess dogging involves, never having been at all, crap like oh everyone is dirty and you will catch every disease known, we have had so much fun over the years, even getting out of the car to give a full on show on a wooden picnic table for around 20 men, all clean all polite and all very grateful for such a hardcore show to wank about, there have been times when we have had to tell people to walk on as we were not interested, and even times when we have allowed touching or a bj, also had fun with other couples we have seen there, dogging can be whatever it is your wish to make it, its your game you set the rules (just watch out for plod and any vanilla passers by) don't let the kill joys on here tell you what you should or shouldn't do and yes if you want to save some time arrange it like an outdoor meet on here ...

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Thank you everyone for the responses - you have all been helpful

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Taken a look of some of the doggers profiles so I suppose the clues in the title !!

My opinion again

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

I have been to my local dogging site a couple of times. Probably not hung around long enough for a couple to appear, just desperate bi guys. One particular guy the last time left me feeling rather uncomfortable and unsafe and that was still in daylight hours!

Being rather selective as to who I will play with I think I would be waiting a very long time at a dogging site! Unless it's something pre arranged it's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taken a look of some of the doggers profiles so I suppose the clues in the title !!

My opinion again "

And what does that opinion imply ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't take your wallet with you

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"And don't take your wallet with you"

Or your real number plates..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this forum can you explain get what dogging is too me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary wild west fun. We did it once many years ago but found it to be altogether too risky. Never say never again but doubt if we will. A bit of a queue formed for servicing and we just thought. Bloody hell. if a police car comes along now we are going to be in trouble.

The adrenalin rush though is pure and to be fair the guys were all polite but what if they weren't. We just felt wow. This is sex at it's dirtiest and riskiest. Once in a lifetime is enough LOL.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Reading this forum can you explain get what dogging is too me?"

Google it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I find the idea of dogging pretty revolting as you can't see particularly well if it's dark and I imagine the sort of men that turn up are just desperate !! And what about hygiene ? Smelly unwashed miners come to mind!!

And before anyone jumps angrily on my comment's.... We are all entitled to our opinions

Yes we are all entitled to our opinions .

And ours is that your opinion is based on guesswork and not reality , so it's not worth much at all is it ?

The men are no worse than the desperate men in a club , and as for hygiene - everyone we have met have been impeccably clean .

We spent three years in the club scene and found equally as many unwashed mingers at clubs .

What we have found since we started dogging is that there are lot less judgemental people enjoying the dogging than there are on these forums ."

Love your opinions lol. Very similar to my own. Never been dogging so can't comment.

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Thank you at last someone that thinks the same !!! Neither have we or would we ever, you can find other ways to get the adrenaline high without exposing yourself to all kinds of danger !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More concerned about if caught potential to end up on sex offenders register I no longer go dogging because risk.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Scary wild west fun. We did it once many years ago but found it to be altogether too risky. Never say never again but doubt if we will. A bit of a queue formed for servicing and we just thought. Bloody hell. if a police car comes along now we are going to be in trouble.

The adrenalin rush though is pure and to be fair the guys were all polite but what if they weren't. We just felt wow. This is sex at it's dirtiest and riskiest. Once in a lifetime is enough LOL."

All very good points Just the way I think too

It is there with my fantasy of a gangbang which I am more likely to make a reality than dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you at last someone that thinks the same !!! Neither have we or would we ever, you can find other ways to get the adrenaline high without exposing yourself to all kinds of danger !! "

And that's your choice which we ffully respect .

What we don't respect is the outright condemnation and disdain you have shown on this thread - despite the fact that you have never done it !

Quite how you feel you can make reasoned comments on a thread that asks what one can expect from dogging is beyond us . A bit like adding a comment on trip advisor for a holiday to Greece when youve never been .

We have learned to accept that Iit's not for everyone and that's perfectly fine . Each to their own and all that . And we totally get the comments from those who tried it and didn't like it . Even those who feel the risk isn't worth it are stating a genuine reasoned case . Your 'opinions ' however are not worthy of anything other than the same level of contempt you have shown us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would really like to go dogging but wouldnt mind going with someone who can drive for a start x

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By *ade400Couple
over a year ago

Nantwich


"ive met few couplss and always wait for them to get relax before going over

However some guys go over straight away and spoil the fun "

Where is there to go in Crewe area?

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Gloswingers I just hope for your own sakes you stay safe because the only way to ensure this is not to put yourself in unnecessary danger, all for the sake of a shag because I'm afraid we are not that desperate if you interprate that as disrespect that's your choice I'm bored with this now so signing off !!!

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Gloswingers I just hope for your own sakes you stay safe because the only way to ensure this is not to put yourself in unnecessary danger, all for the sake of a shag because I'm afraid we are not that desperate if you interprate that as disrespect that's your choice I'm bored with this now so signing off !!! "

I would go if I had Police protection

Unlikely that will happen; more likely that I'll get arrested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gloswingers I just hope for your own sakes you stay safe because the only way to ensure this is not to put yourself in unnecessary danger, all for the sake of a shag because I'm afraid we are not that desperate if you interprate that as disrespect that's your choice I'm bored with this now so signing off !!! "

I'm afraid we aren't that desperate for a shag at all , but thank you for your good wishes towards our safety .

For anyone who is genuinely interested in dogging / outdoor fun here's a few pointers .

Stay safe , don't play if you think there are any non doggers about .

Be respectful to the surroundings , clean up afterwards , don't leave wipes , tissues , condoms lying around .

Always set your boundaries before playing . Stick to.them whatever . Never feel pressured .

Always stay in control . Be firm if you don't want to play with the mingers ( ) some of them may be happy to keep watch for you . A bit of respect goes a long way .

Arrange to met like minded people from fab at the venue . This establishes mutual attraction and often gets things started nicely .

And above all enjoy it .... don't let your nerves be anything more than a stimulant . The adrenaline rush is great , and the sponenaity unbeatable

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

I go dogging by myself or with a male friend and I feel as safe there as do in club .. I know gloswingers very well they are a great couple who are kind and well respected xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *heshcplCouple
over a year ago

warr

Some people appear to have had bad experiences, I suspect they found a site online and just popped along a big mistake, we have over the years had some great times and a few bad,the bad doggers are easily spotted and avoided but there is no shortage of them that is true..

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By *rinhueCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

This thread came up at a good time. We're thinking about trying it. Never considered just arranging meets. There's a lot of good stuff here so thanks. Anyone in Blackpool area keen on helping our first time?

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By *illywonka76Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Glos swingers are what dogging is all about. Friendly and welcoming non judgemental have met them a couple of times and they have made my experiences if dogging memorable ones

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"I would really like to go dogging but wouldnt mind going with someone who can drive for a start x"

Hi, I'm a driver and a dogger not far away from you.

Fancy giving it a try?

_tripper9

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

A last comment from us as this thread seems to have attracted the usual idiots, to any couples interested in trying dogging, treat the experience as if you are just pulling up at a lovers lane somewhere, enjoy each other a bit with the windows up and doors locked, if someone comes along stop what you are doing wave them over wind the window down an inch and talk to them, if you don't like the look of them, drive off, it's as simple as that, you are in charge, just because you call it dogging doesn't mean you have to do anything with anyone who turns up, its always your choice you can do what ever you are comfortable with or nothing at all, we have had so much fun over the years and have always kept ourselves safe, even been spoken to by the police a few times, but as we have always stopped and rearranged our clothing before they approach us, we have been doing nothing wrong, (choose a spot where you can see all exits from a distance and use doggers to keep watch, they are always happy to help in return for a show) other people are comfortable to attend clubs for a bareback gang bang, that's their choice, much riskier and something we would never do, just our opinion ... and to all those who have never been but still have an opinion, if you have nothing nice to say, try saying nothing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how you go about it , we went a few times years ago and to be honest it holds little to no interest for us as if we wanted to play with random people or people we had arranged to meet and be watched by lots of men we would go to the relative comfort of a club. Our main issue is not one of safety as that's a choice you make , our issue is one of non concent as playing in public areas you run the risk of exposing non consenting people's to your activities sometimes kids depending on your choice of time and location. Also it's the general mess that's left behind at these areas after which is no better than a addict leaving a used needle behind.

I once heard someone say that dogging was like fishing , effectively unless you arrange to meet someone apart from single guys you could be sat for hours or days on end waiting for a bite ??

We have seen men who take a packed lunch and a flask and wait all night for some action come rain or shine

Whatever you do or how you do it have respect for others who don't do it and you should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on how you go about it , we went a few times years ago and to be honest it holds little to no interest for us as if we wanted to play with random people or people we had arranged to meet and be watched by lots of men we would go to the relative comfort of a club. Our main issue is not one of safety as that's a choice you make , our issue is one of non concent as playing in public areas you run the risk of exposing non consenting people's to your activities sometimes kids depending on your choice of time and location. Also it's the general mess that's left behind at these areas after which is no better than a addict leaving a used needle behind.

I once heard someone say that dogging was like fishing , effectively unless you arrange to meet someone apart from single guys you could be sat for hours or days on end waiting for a bite ??

We have seen men who take a packed lunch and a flask and wait all night for some action come rain or shine

Whatever you do or how you do it have respect for others who don't do it and you should be fine "

As we said in our post earlier , the issues you have are understandable , but cleaning up and making sure only those who want to see can see , are not that difficult to do .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015"

Forget it - 95% gay men now - and hygiene leaves an awful lot to be desired. Used to be fun years ago - had it now in our experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015

Forget it - 95% gay men now - and hygiene leaves an awful lot to be desired. Used to be fun years ago - had it now in our experience."

So glad we aren't up your way then .... We have loads of fun down here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on how you go about it , we went a few times years ago and to be honest it holds little to no interest for us as if we wanted to play with random people or people we had arranged to meet and be watched by lots of men we would go to the relative comfort of a club. Our main issue is not one of safety as that's a choice you make , our issue is one of non concent as playing in public areas you run the risk of exposing non consenting people's to your activities sometimes kids depending on your choice of time and location. Also it's the general mess that's left behind at these areas after which is no better than a addict leaving a used needle behind.

I once heard someone say that dogging was like fishing , effectively unless you arrange to meet someone apart from single guys you could be sat for hours or days on end waiting for a bite ??

We have seen men who take a packed lunch and a flask and wait all night for some action come rain or shine

Whatever you do or how you do it have respect for others who don't do it and you should be fine

As we said in our post earlier , the issues you have are understandable , but cleaning up and making sure only those who want to see can see , are not that difficult to do ."

Totally agree but it does seem to be beyond the vast majority of people at 2 well known locations in our area one of which actuall happens to be part of the public footpath which forms the Cotswold way and is frequented by families and kids who have to avoid the discarded condoms and tissues , it only takes a small minority to give the rest a bad name so it's the responsibility of the rest to make sure it doesn't happen and give what you do a bad reputation that said the amount of stuff discarded it's more than a minority.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

is there not some sort of code at swinging sites... headlight flashes that mean yes and some that mean no! im assuming a newbie dogger would need to know them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Love dogging and have had really good nights with no 2 the same!

We dog in the New Forest. I go with a fuck buddy. He "hosts" the meets. so depending on who's there when we arrive, usually single men, lots of. We either wind the windows down and start 1 on 1. Or I get out and make a show in the back of the car (estate boot). My host knows what I like and will direct the men...condoms have a play, she like s cum in her mouth ect. By doing a show, makes sure the men are hard. I dont want to waste time making stiffies. He will po lightly say no to the men he knows I wont go near.

I find that if theres another fem in the car park, they get funny as they like all the men to themselves. So we move on.

Don't play with anyone on drink or drugs. Make sure that one man does not hog all the action, give others a chance. Have plenty of condoms to hand out. Although they should take their own. Clean up afterwards. Condoms, wipes ect. Complaints will bring the Police around ect.

Enjoy......

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"is there not some sort of code at swinging sites... headlight flashes that mean yes and some that mean no! im assuming a newbie dogger would need to know them ! "

Yeah, and switching on indicators from side to side means they swing both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there not some sort of code at swinging sites... headlight flashes that mean yes and some that mean no! im assuming a newbie dogger would need to know them !

Yeah, and switching on indicators from side to side means they swing both ways "

And if they run you over on the way out it means they're not interested.

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest


"We don,t bother any more we were dogging before it was called dogging to many barm pots about and men that can not take no for an answer"

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest


"Ah c'mon guys they're looking for some help not a critique!

My own experiences have been disappointment, usually a few cars with single guys in all waiting for something to happen before driving off again

I think the days of turning up at random are gone and now most meets are planned in advance, couples post on here, vet the replies and then meet the ones they choose at a private location rather than a known dogging spot. "

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well what to expect , advise you take a crossword to do , as they will all sit in there cars dicking about with there phone , the old im on a call . Then if one does venture out they all get a dose of bravado . If you do play then be prepared for you car to be surrounded . Then if you do leave the venue don't go home take a scenic drive as most will follow .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Take a book, torch, and a flask, as no one comes over to chat, guys sit in their cars waiting for you to go to them, its pretty crap these days, your best off arranging an out door meet with guys you know will show up xx

Mrs Curious Couple 2015"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015

Forget it - 95% gay men now - and hygiene leaves an awful lot to be desired. Used to be fun years ago - had it now in our experience.

So glad we aren't up your way then .... We have loads of fun down here "

Yes we can see from your photos lol ! Think Greater Manchester Police have had a real clampdown - all the old favourite haunts now gated off or patrolled regularly by police - who profess to have no manpower to deal with crime ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *urious_couple_2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

I used to frequent a place in my early 20's with a boyfriend when we wanted a bit of fun it was a dark secluded car park in some woods ... I didn't know at the time a popular dogging area. Drove by it a few weeks ago with the husband it's now gated off ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And don't take your wallet with you

Or your real number plates.."

And wear a cat mask

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By *rbusyhandsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never been dogging but chatted with some curious fb's about it...though never know where to go...

How do you find places both actual dogging spots and more private places just for your own fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been dogging many year all over the UK and a few spots in Europe,me and experienced doggers always give a cpl or fem time to feel comfortable being there before approaching wait for the invites always on there terms always engage in chat and keep the idiots in check,after all I want them to come back and keep coming back because they enjoyed it,the pussy idiot types tend to be newbies who think it's a free for all,the chat boy racers have usually been tucked up in bed by 11 pm ,any clowns are usually sorted by the regulars give it a try I'd say it's safer than a blind meet of here letting a stranger in your home alone,at least there are others about most of them decent blokes just looking for a bit of a frill

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

For us dogging is a way of having un pressured fun with people we choose to have fun with. Tried the club thing but was not for us.

You make the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in Kent for the night tomorrow (weds) if your out pm me if interested

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By *utdoor couple.Couple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015

If you wanna know what to expect , have look on our profile "

this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried it once, going with an experienced couple we know well.it so wasn't for us, didn't feel safe. But glad we tried it as you need error know till you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What to expect?

A sausage party at most dogging spots.

Your car windows looking like a plasterers radio.

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By *elly totsCouple
over a year ago

teesside


"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!"
apology accepted

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi,

Husband and I are toying with the idea of going dogging. What should we expect? Will it be mainly men? We're new to the lifestyle and are just exploring a little at the moment

Thanks

Mrs Curious Couple 2015"

Boy racers and police might be expected and possibly collymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few people are asking where is best to go.

I have never gone out dogging but do find myself out quite often late of an evening.

I have found that when it is dark most beauty spots with car parks become potential dogging spots.

A few times I have bought a take away, pulled onto a carpark and had a few lights flash me/us.

The last time I was on a dogging site I had been to a meet off here which ended quicker then expected (I don't think he fancied me) I pulled up on a carpark whilst trying to fix another meet when a car pulled next to me.

There was two gorgeous ladies in there and they put their light on and put down the windows.

One looked at me and smiled and I carried on trying to arrange something.

Then she opened her door and hitched up her skirt, spun her legs around and revealed no knickers!

I mouthed "very nice" then drove off, wondering if they where up for fun, entrapment, police, prostitutes or other because if it seems too good to be true it probably is.

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

You know this thread is wellover a year old?

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By *orny billingham bangersCouple
over a year ago

butlins skegness


"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio "

Lmfao!!! That's the best reply to a post I've seen by far!!

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By *oung oxon coupleCouple
over a year ago

bicester

Anyone know of any good spots close to Oxford? We would like to give it ago, though maybe when a tad warmer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like. "

its awesome you will mainly find men wanking but when i went alone lots of couples playing

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like.

its awesome you will mainly find men wanking but when i went alone lots of couples playing"

Yeah, mainly guys wanking but plenty I met when I tried it where clean, nice and up for playing a bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no expectations at this stage we are just starting to explore and wondered what dogging would be like. "

Cold, wet miserable and populated by sad wankers?

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!"

If you come across a miner, I'd be very surprised. I think they're a lot rarer than bi single fems with their own teeth!

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl


"My honest opinion on dogging...

Don't bother!

My last experience of this cost me a front windscreen and rear glass! "

Ever wondered why?

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By *icole123Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio "

Haha??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio "

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Expect a lot of single Men. We've been quite a few times but never taken part. I'd say the ratio of Men to Women is about 10/1.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!"

I was a little surprised

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio

Haha??"

great answer.plasterers radio hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live near a very active dogging area, I walk my dogs there 2 or 3 times a week early in the morning and sometimes see up to 8 men , but have never seen a female there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m interested in dogging more so as I’m bit of a voyuer would be nice to join you one night not sure of rules myself I’d be more than happy to watch if you didn’t want to involve me !

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By *tarlite123456Man
over a year ago

Leics


"Oops meant mingers apologies to any miners out there !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expect to drive off with your car looking like a plasterer's radio "

And if it’s anything like pigeon shit..Lick it off before it wrecks your paintwork

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