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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all im dan from Norfolk I'm easy guy to get along with fairly good looking guy I been on this site a while now why am I finding it so hard to find a meet is it my profile? cause I'm a single male ect ?any help wouldn't go a miss thanks in advance dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More personality, less cock photos. Do a forum search for tips because every single one of these threads gets exactly the same answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich "

But I'm a Villa fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich

But I'm a Villa fan."

And that proves my point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich "
no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich

But I'm a Villa fan.

And that proves my point "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes its because your a single male get a female partner ( who plays alone ) and then youll see the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich no lol"

Sod ya then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More personality, less cock photos. Do a forum search for tips because every single one of these threads gets exactly the same answers."
I got face pics aswell I have a good pesonality well I think so any way lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you a Norwich supporter?

All intelligent, sexy people support Norwich no lol

Sod ya then "
lol why sod yer cause I don't like football hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More personality, less cock photos. Do a forum search for tips because every single one of these threads gets exactly the same answers.I got face pics aswell I have a good pesonality well I think so any way lol"

You need to show your personality in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes its because your a single male get a female partner ( who plays alone ) and then youll see the difference "
try and find one nearly impossible bud I have tryed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More personality, less cock photos. Do a forum search for tips because every single one of these threads gets exactly the same answers.I got face pics aswell I have a good pesonality well I think so any way lol

You need to show your personality in your profile. "
any help on that one please

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Whilst I admire confidence, people who describe themselves as "hot" or "good looking" seeking the same off putting. You'll also find some women have confidence issues so rule themselves out.

Bottom line there are literally thousands of hot good looking guys on site: unfortunately, you don't stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More personality, less cock photos. Do a forum search for tips because every single one of these threads gets exactly the same answers.I got face pics aswell I have a good pesonality well I think so any way lol

You need to show your personality in your profile. any help on that one please "

Write a bit about yourself, what you want from Fab & what you can offer.

Look at other profiles for ideas but your profile should be about you.

And living in Norfolk, bloody well start supporting Norwich

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm guessing your more rural location, that's sparsely populated compared to many of us, will influence things.

Your profile text needs a lot more on it Imo. You've got to sell yourself as it's a tough market for you single guys.

Add in the area that you'll cover too - certainty helps others if they browse you.

If there's some way to reorder your photo sequence, I think it would help too. Include a physique shot if you can. At the moment a cock pic comes first - ideally have one of your other pics first. .

You seem nice, so it's about increasing your chances, partly by educating your viewers. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm guessing your more rural location, that's sparsely populated compared to many of us, will influence things.

Your profile text needs a lot more on it Imo. You've got to sell yourself as it's a tough market for you single guys.

Add in the area that you'll cover too - certainty helps others if they browse you.

If there's some way to reorder your photo sequence, I think it would help too. Include a physique shot if you can. At the moment a cock pic comes first - ideally have one of your other pics first. .

You seem nice, so it's about increasing your chances, partly by educating your viewers. Good luck!"
Thanks For Advice xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More personality, less cock photos. Do a forum search for tips because every single one of these threads gets exactly the same answers.I got face pics aswell I have a good pesonality well I think so any way lol

You need to show your personality in your profile. any help on that one please

Write a bit about yourself, what you want from Fab & what you can offer.

Look at other profiles for ideas but your profile should be about you.

And living in Norfolk, bloody well start supporting Norwich "
thanks just cause I live hear don't mean I was born hear lol I'm a Essex lad lol the mighty hammers are more likely my team lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you check my profile see if it look apertiseing enough please

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Lose the 'hehehe'! Real men don't 'hehehe'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you check my profile see if it look apertiseing enough please "

For the text delete it all and start again.

It says literally nothing it's just waffle

Write what you like and what kind of thing you're looking for (don't just do what you've done now where you try to speak to everyone as you end up vague and ingorned) be honest.

Write somethings about you either sexual or otherwise that can be used by people to open a conversation with you.

People should be able to read your profile and see what makes you different from the other 50 guys that turned up in the search. As it is you could copy paste your profile text onto any random guy and it would fit.

One thing I know your worried about is ruling people out because you want as many chances as possible but it doesn't work be honest what you want and with who and then those people who are looking for the same will find you.

A good exercise is read your profile and see of you can easily write yourself a message or if you find yourself stuck for something to say.

As for pics variety helps bums, thighs and torsos do well with the ladies, cocks and arseholes exposed do well with the gay men if that's your thing.

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