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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a fascination with being dominated and made to do sexual things but cannot find a Domme/Dom.Do these people exist.Plenty of sub people about.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Use google and you'll find plenty of sites catered for just what you're looking for if you can't find it here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks but I just want to be broken in gently and find my level.I dont want dungeons etc at this stage if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they exist I'm one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you were only in the north east miss.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you go into a forum catered for what you are looking for, you will find it a lot easier there.

Any decent Domme/Dom (you really need to figure out which of these you want first though), will take it slowly with you.

If they know what they are doing, and arn't just playing "Lets Pretend", which some do, they will take note of your boundaries, and push them gently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats just it,im not sure what I want so dont want to go to a specialist.Some ordinary person who would order me about and force me to do things is what I am after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps alter your profile to state this is what you're looking for?

I switch and love the dom/sub play so if you're ever in Leeds drop me a line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they exist I'm one!"

Mmmm and a stunning one as well, though i am sub myself even if i wasn't i don't think i could resist doing as you said!

Well unless you wanted me to resist a bit!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Thats just it,im not sure what I want so dont want to go to a specialist.Some ordinary person who would order me about and force me to do things is what I am after."

But the problem with that is, an "ordinary" person, may not know the difference between being Dom(me) or just an arrogant Fucked up c**t. And you could end up getting hurt.

I'm not suggesting go to a specialist, just try someone that knows the difference between being a Dom(me) and an arsehole. Because trust me it is a very fine line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats just it,im not sure what I want so dont want to go to a specialist.Some ordinary person who would order me about and force me to do things is what I am after.

But the problem with that is, an "ordinary" person, may not know the difference between being Dom(me) or just an arrogant Fucked up c**t. And you could end up getting hurt.

I'm not suggesting go to a specialist, just try someone that knows the difference between being a Dom(me) and an arsehole. Because trust me it is a very fine line. "

Completely agree with this!!! Be careful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be careful,also look out for people charging you money,I have heard of that from this site,so watch out! Not everyone is honest and genuine here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they exist I'm one!"
I am one too at times i can switch x love kinky fun and games take sex into the unknown x jo xxx

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Thats just it,im not sure what I want so dont want to go to a specialist.Some ordinary person who would order me about and force me to do things is what I am after."

Sorry no ordinary person can do this, if you want domination you need it done by the right person, and that person has to get to know you.

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By *heAddamsCouple
over a year ago

corbridge


"Thats just it,im not sure what I want so dont want to go to a specialist."

As has already been said, if you dont know what you are doing, you really need to know that the other person does.

There is a thriving fetish scene in the North east, and ClubF (see the clubs section) do have occasional fetish events where you can go along and see demonstrations and the like.

And whilst you say you are not interested in dungeons, the club does have one of the best in the country!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes people on here do charge.

you can usually find them on another site which promotes those services.

and they use the same profile pics as they got on profiles here.

so easy to spot.

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Thats just it,im not sure what I want so dont want to go to a specialist.Some ordinary person who would order me about and force me to do things is what I am after.

But the problem with that is, an "ordinary" person, may not know the difference between being Dom(me) or just an arrogant Fucked up c**t. And you could end up getting hurt.

I'm not suggesting go to a specialist, just try someone that knows the difference between being a Dom(me) and an arsehole. Because trust me it is a very fine line. "

If you DO go to a specialist, ie. a Pro-Domme, remember one thing - sex is almost certainly not on the menu. If you are lucky, you might be allowed to crack one off after the session, depends on the Domme and her house rules. If you try it on, you may well leave via the window with seriously sore knackers.

It sounds like you are just looking for an assertive, bossy, confident woman - take your pick, there aren't many shrinking violets on here, are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes people on here do charge.

you can usually find them on another site which promotes those services.

and they use the same profile pics as they got on profiles here.

so easy to spot."

Get you Mr Poirot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ovett1 im with you on this one i have been looking for the same since i found this site and having th same problem i want to be brokeen in gentley too i feel really strongly about finding a mistress to do this with me the right way. if anyone is out there please contact me willoing and ready x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a swinging site and does not cater for bdsm as such, i think what the op is looking for is roleplay not really domination x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

domination sounds good lol xx

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