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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I'm simply writing to get an honest opionon. I've been trying to chat to couples both older and younger, also females younger and older and I simply have had no look. I just wondered if there is any point in carrying on trying? PLEASE HELP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

less cock pictures, you have a nice body but cocks are common if you haven't noticed.... you can't just give up you are in a highly competitive environment, be original be all that you are etc. rewrite your profile, you are effectively selling yourself a short profile with a few cock shots is like a Tesco value lager, poor quality and leaves a bad taste in your mouth......

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Do you send a face pic with your messages? 3 badly taken cock shots are unlikely to get you anywhere I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you send a face pic with your messages? 3 badly taken cock shots are unlikely to get you anywhere I'm afraid "

Yes I have always sent a face picture with my messages. I have never really struggled with girls of here (that is in no way big headed) I iust don't realise why I'm struggling so much. Is it my age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried clubs? May be a way to get verified as a nice bloke, which goes a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried clubs? May be a way to get verified as a nice bloke, which goes a long way! "

I haven't tried clubs because I'm not really sure what to expect as a young single guy. I have tried contacting some likeminded girls to accompany me but still nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need better pics. I know what your dick looks like (which is remarkably similar to other dicks I've seen) but I don't really know what the rest of you looks like.

And you could rewrite your profile. Fix the spelling/grammatical mistakes.

Good luck!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"less cock pictures, you have a nice body but cocks are common if you haven't noticed.... you can't just give up you are in a highly competitive environment, be original be all that you are etc. rewrite your profile, you are effectively selling yourself a short profile with a few cock shots is like a Tesco value lager, poor quality and leaves a bad taste in your mouth...... "

I agree with the above....I like to see pics of bum, chest, arms, part of face if you feel to shy to put full face pic on - some arty or humorous element to the photo is good too !And in the profile you could say a little bit about what you enjoy doing, what you enjoy doing to others, what you are interested in chatting about too, not necessarily sexy stuff.

But the best advice is - go to clubs, chat to people. We don'tactively seek single men but if I saw you at a club (just based on what I have seen in your photos)there is a very good chance I would flirt with you ans see if I was arousing your interest! m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's absolute luck of draw in first instance. Keep trying and if as you say you are not bad looking and don't come across as a person that mucks people about you will appear on someones hot list one of these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to go to clubs your not a million miles away from some decent ones that allow singles. Just bite the bullet and go on your own. socialise and get a decent reputation in the club and you will find clubs open doors to other experiences.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


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Yes I have always sent a face picture with my messages. I have never really struggled with girls of here (that is in no way big headed) I iust don't realise why I'm struggling so much. Is it my age?"

Erm, this doesn't make sense. Never struggled, but struggling????

Honestly get yourself to a club, some have 'Newbie Nights' perfect opportunity to meet some other new people and some that are experienced and can give you some advice face to face, you never know you might really surprise yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Yes I have always sent a face picture with my messages. I have never really struggled with girls of here (that is in no way big headed) I iust don't realise why I'm struggling so much. Is it my age?

Erm, this doesn't make sense. Never struggled, but struggling????

Honestly get yourself to a club, some have 'Newbie Nights' perfect opportunity to meet some other new people and some that are experienced and can give you some advice face to face, you never know you might really surprise yourself "

What I meant by it is that I am struggling in the swinging scene. I haven't had any luck in the form of meeting or even having a decent conversation with anyone. I think getting to a club is probably the best idea.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oakham is dead. You need the joys of Stamford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nine inch cock and a good body what about personality you need to stand out from the crowd x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oakham is dead. You need the joys of Stamford "

I love Stamford and Deeping lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I'm simply writing to get an honest opionon. I've been trying to chat to couples both older and younger, also females younger and older and I simply have had no look. I just wondered if there is any point in carrying on trying? PLEASE HELP "

Google ...escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello,

You are local to me I agree with the cock photos. Far too many. Just keep it to one, maybe two. Leave a little to the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short profile which says very little. Nowt but a few cock shots. Thousands of other guys in competition.. Do you stand a chance?

With that profile and those odds, probably not.....sorted out and advice acted on then yes....plenty of us have lots of success.... Check out other guys profiles...the ones with plenty verifications and see how different their profiles are to yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah don't give up, its not easy, but put a bit of effort in and you'll get a meet eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I'll try updating my profile over the weekend x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks everyone I'll try updating my profile over the weekend x"

When you write it, think like a lady and ask yourself 'would I meet me?'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do, I still believe my age has a big part to play in ot though. The majority of people are quite a bit older than me and look for older guys

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Will do, I still believe my age has a big part to play in ot though. The majority of people are quite a bit older than me and look for older guys "

Nevertheless.....that will change in time. Be grateful you're 23 and swinging and not 45.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Will do, I still believe my age has a big part to play in ot though. The majority of people are quite a bit older than me and look for older guys

Nevertheless.....that will change in time. Be grateful you're 23 and swinging and not 45. "
nearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the pics you have and put body pics up. Take out any info about your cock from the profile and go to clubs and socials to get yourself known. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ditch the pics you have and put body pics up. Take out any info about your cock from the profile and go to clubs and socials to get yourself known. Good luck."

Clothed or non clothed? Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest question for all the people who have replied in this thread..

Are you guys tired of giving the same advice?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Honest question for all the people who have replied in this thread..

Are you guys tired of giving the same advice?

"

Nope, I'm a masochist. It behoves the guys who are doing ok on here to offer advice to those who ask. Same problems get same advice and whilst most don't bother doing anything, the odd one will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest question for all the people who have replied in this thread..

Are you guys tired of giving the same advice?

Nope, I'm a masochist. It behoves the guys who are doing ok on here to offer advice to those who ask. Same problems get same advice and whilst most don't bother doing anything, the odd one will. "

I commend you fine sir

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I'll try & keep this brief with bulletin points

(Don't laugh, I said I'd TRY).

• Profile - beef it up. Search previous threads for advice on profiles & decide what you've got the ladies would like. Usually good pics, a decent profile text that isn't smarmy or big headed & that reflects your personality. STAND OUT. There's a lot of competition.

• Socials - watch the Forums for local Social Meets. Go to one & get your face known & don't be afraid to request folk verify you. If they like your company & personality they will.

• Chat Room - use them to chat as well as jerk off on cam. The local rooms are usually fun to chat in.

• Try & avoid Cam Verifications & only show Veris that are Meet Veris. They don't HAVE to be sexual in content.

Good luck dude.

Oh & if you do remove your current pics...

... can you mail me then? Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest question for all the people who have replied in this thread..

Are you guys tired of giving the same advice?

"

Sometimes yes....but every now and then, maybe once in a blue moon...someone actually acts on it.

Though most don't...and just repeat their post again...until eventually UNLOS,

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