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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm expecting my 1st meet tonight ''maybe'' and I am excited but also a bit nervous. Spoke to them and they seem nice and got really good verifications. Is there any tips what can help me be the best I can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first swing was an all metal one when I was about 5.

Being serious, just be yourself. They've obviously chosen you to play because of who you are. Let them lead, be respectful of their needs whatever they may be. Relax, let them enjoy themselves and you will to.

As long as you haven't told any porkies along the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine last week. I actually had one coffee date and one dinner date. I would say just be yourself, see if you all get on and you're getting the right vibes and go from there.

Most importantly remember this is about what you want too. It's about all of you being satisfied and enjoying yourselves.

My coffee date couple were lovely but I didn't feel very relaxed and wasn't getting the right vibe that we were a good fit. The dinner date, well that was a blast from the minute I walked in and we had a grand old night!

Good luck and enjoy!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck op, tell us how it went.

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Just be yourself.

As everyone else says.

Swinging is a very easy-going activity. It's easy - they've already decided they'd like to meet you for reasons they've already seen and concluded from initial communications. So that's all already behind you. Perhaps, freed up in that way, take an interest in them and enjoy sharing time with someone else. Yes it's mainly about sex but there's a lot of buzz interacting with folk.

In my not always humble opinion (male half)

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I'm expecting my 1st meet tonight ''maybe'' and I am excited but also a bit nervous. Spoke to them and they seem nice and got really good verifications. Is there any tips what can help me be the best I can be. "

Just relax and be yourself....and have fun!

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm expecting my 1st meet tonight ''maybe'' and I am excited but also a bit nervous. Spoke to them and they seem nice and got really good verifications. Is there any tips what can help me be the best I can be. "

Relax, enjoy, treat everyone how you would like to be treated and don't forget discretion

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"My first swing was an all metal one when I was about 5

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Posh b**t**d; ours was a wooden one

Bet you had a slide too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first swing was an all metal one when I was about 5

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Posh b**t**d; ours was a wooden one

Bet you had a slide too "

It was second hand and rusty! So not so posh! Don't remember having a slide either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm expecting my 1st meet tonight ''maybe'' and I am excited but also a bit nervous. Spoke to them and they seem nice and got really good verifications. Is there any tips what can help me be the best I can be.

Just relax and be yourself....and have fun!

Well just letting yous guys know it didn't happen. They ended up not contacting me again. Owell I'll keep on fishing. Cheers for caring tho guys

Good luck "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm expecting my 1st meet tonight ''maybe'' and I am excited but also a bit nervous. Spoke to them and they seem nice and got really good verifications. Is there any tips what can help me be the best I can be.

Just relax and be yourself....and have fun!

Well just letting yous guys know it didn't happen. They ended up not contacting me again. Owell I'll keep on fishing. Cheers for caring tho guys

Good luck "

I'm sorry to hear that. Better luck next time.

Maybe in future be a little more discreet.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

you get alot of people let you down but dont worry.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Real shame

Unfortunately it happens, try not to take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never take anything personally. My head is always up high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fine, it happens to us all, the meet is on then they cancel or don't contact you back.

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