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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife and I are very keen on inviting a non swinging friend of ours to join us for a mmf. Has anyone done this or have advice on the best way to approach it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Risky as there maybe reason he a non swinger ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

has he given any indication at all that he sees either of you in anything but a platonic light? If not tread as if you're walking on eggshells.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"My wife and I are very keen on inviting a non swinging friend of ours to join us for a mmf. Has anyone done this or have advice on the best way to approach it?"

Yes it happened to me a few years ago I knew the couple quite well and while on a night out his wife went to the loo he just asked me straight out if I would like to fuck his wife I tried to make a joke of it but he was serious and we all went back to theirs and had lots of fun. So yes it does happen.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"My wife and I are very keen on inviting a non swinging friend of ours to join us for a mmf. Has anyone done this or have advice on the best way to approach it?

Yes it happened to me a few years ago I knew the couple quite well and while on a night out his wife went to the loo he just asked me straight out if I would like to fuck his wife I tried to make a joke of it but he was serious and we all went back to theirs and had lots of fun. So yes it does happen."

are you still friends, is it ongoing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He is pretty dirty minded and I have spoken to him about some of the stuff we have done.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"He is pretty dirty minded and I have spoken to him about some of the stuff we have done. "

there's a big gap between being dirty minded and willing to join your mates in a threesome. As I say in all these threads, the only person able to tell answer your question is him. Why not just ask him straight out....very carefully. Would you be offended if he said no, he might not fancy your wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A crossed boundary could lead to a crossed friend?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Know this...

If you do decide to go for it you are putting that friendship on the line. By going ahead with it you risk losing that friend. Been there, done that, didn't work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife and I are very keen on inviting a non swinging friend of ours to join us for a mmf. Has anyone done this or have advice on the best way to approach it?

Yes it happened to me a few years ago I knew the couple quite well and while on a night out his wife went to the loo he just asked me straight out if I would like to fuck his wife I tried to make a joke of it but he was serious and we all went back to theirs and had lots of fun. So yes it does happen."

It happens......it's how I got into the scene....they were on another site but I soon got wind of fab too lol!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"My wife and I are very keen on inviting a non swinging friend of ours to join us for a mmf. Has anyone done this or have advice on the best way to approach it?"

I'm here... all you had to do was ask....

what do you mean its not me!!!! heartbroken!!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's very difficult to answer a question for someone you don't know about an unknown relationship with someone else you don't know. I guess the fact you are asking the question here means that you already know the answer,and you are passing the responsibility to convince yourself otherwise onto us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL I absolutely could not join my mate in a threesome with his misses. I could however, absolutely fuck his misses in a one on one situation and enjoy it. She is soooo hot.

But then, in reality, I couldn't do that either. Because, well he's mate and the bro code still stands.

If, he was more of an acquaintance though - sure, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is a male, so he prob will say yes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be your friend? All my mates give me is jobs they can't do and ear bashing with domestic problems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, I'd say leave well alone. There are plenty of men who will jump at the chance that won't jeopardise your friendship .

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Don,t Play with friends it goes wrong we made that mistake years ago it,s our rule no friends

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't with a friend: I like to keep my life as uncomplicated and drama free as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask yourself are you willing to lose the friendship if it goes wrong - any doubt at all - dont go there

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