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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. | |||
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"That people are on here looking to fulfil fantasies so why shouldn't they do so with others who match their fantasy?" Not sure many people would share a fantasy with a 5.0 male | |||
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"Welcome to the magical world of people. There will be people who like everybody and people who like nobody. There will be people who like you, but that are not your taste and visa-versa. Ultimately though, isn't it the differences that make people so fantastic. Cal" Cheers for the sarcasm  | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to." thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat | |||
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"What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes?" You mean you want to take a lady out for a drink? Have you tried dating sites? Or do you mean you want to go to an organised social event? Have you looked in thr Events pages? Or are you still looking for sex? In which case, you are in amongst 400 other local fellas who want the same thing, and with only 70-80 females you have a fuckload of competition. | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " Well you could just arrange to meet at clubs or you say . Shall we play now Unless they are a experienced couple with no security issues then they will be just as worried as you  | |||
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"thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" Tiny bit of advice which has already been given, but I'll just reiterate one more time for you: telling someone they are picky because they have said what they are looking for won't help. And just makes you look like you have a sense of entitlement. So, you say nobody chats. How have you tried to get people to chat? People chat in the chat rooms and thr forums all the time. Do you mean that you have been firing off messages to people you don't know and expecting them to be sat waiting for a message just like yours so that they can reply to it and start chatting about all the things you two have in common? | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" . Members decide who they wish to meet based on information in profiles plus pictures. We all make choices in life . Everyone is entitled to be picky . What you have to do is have a great well. written profile with good pictues and then you might make it to the starting line . Would you meet a ninety year old ? | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " We're quite particular in our requirements. When we joined Mr N said I could have anything I wanted so that's what I do. You call it particular, I call it discerning. I don't go into Starbucks wanting a latte and order a cappuccino why would I come on here wanting sex with a tall, dark man and then message a smaller blond? Of course it's not that cut and dried but you get the picture  | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" Way too picky? Why can't people be picky? Are you saying that because they are not choosing you, the reason most (not all ) people are on here is so they can meet who they want, when they want, where they want, they may or may not include you | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" Seriously? I will continue to be picky and meet those who I think I can have fun with, who meet my requirements. If you just want a friendly chat and sympathy fuck you really are on the wrong site OP. | |||
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"That people are on here looking to fulfil fantasies so why shouldn't they do so with others who match their fantasy?" This. | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " . When you say that the meets did not go as expected what were your expectations and what were the reasons that they did not go as expected . | |||
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"Women are not too picky There are so few of them The men lower their standards to get a shag . Most women will know if a guy contacts them and they are punching above their weight and not be interested in case they get used " | |||
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"That people are on here looking to fulfil fantasies so why shouldn't they do so with others who match their fantasy?" Simply this! I don't get the "give me a chance" mentality. For most this is fantasy. If you don't match what the person you fancy requires c'est la vie!  | |||
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"In normal life l am attracted to certain attributes, looks and personality types. On here they are no different. If it means I only get to meet one or two people a year because of my 'pickyness' then so be it. I'm not gonna meet people im not into just for the sake of it. I'd rather go without." This!  | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. " It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. " From a personal point of view, my time is limited. Profile text and photos are the initial lure but it's the content of the message that will make me decide to meet. I've met unverified men with dodgy pictures: blimey, I moved one in a year ago. There's an alarming sense of entitlement I've noticed developing on this site. | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here." That's weird me jason would have more luck getting a shag of my Facebook friends than here | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. " Exactly! | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. " I understand that, my comment was a generalisation not aimed at every individual. I know life and commitments get in the way but honestly, its not that difficult to find an two hour window if you really want to. Also I'm not saying don't talk to people on here, I'm saying don't just judge them on the profile. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. Exactly! "And when they grow up and start leaving home it's get harder not easier | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here. That's weird me jason would have more luck getting a shag of my Facebook friends than here " I prefer not to randomly hit on my friends. Tends to make things messy. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. From a personal point of view, my time is limited. Profile text and photos are the initial lure but it's the content of the message that will make me decide to meet. I've met unverified men with dodgy pictures: blimey, I moved one in a year ago. There's an alarming sense of entitlement I've noticed developing on this site. " No sense of entitlement here or even any expectations, well maybe one... To be looked as a person not just a profile. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. I understand that, my comment was a generalisation not aimed at every individual. I know life and commitments get in the way but honestly, its not that difficult to find an two hour window if you really want to. Also I'm not saying don't talk to people on here, I'm saying don't just judge them on the profile. " Two hour window for what?  . Meets take up a lot more time than that. Planning can take ages. Can't talk for anyone else but I'm not wasting any of my spare time on someone who may not be worth my time (or I their's). | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. I understand that, my comment was a generalisation not aimed at every individual. I know life and commitments get in the way but honestly, its not that difficult to find an two hour window if you really want to. Also I'm not saying don't talk to people on here, I'm saying don't just judge them on the profile. " I haven't got the time or the inclination to message someone with a rubbish profile and crappy pics on the off chance that they might turn out to be alright when there's plenty with decent profiles and nice pics to message. And yes it is difficult to find an hour or two window for the reasons I listed above. | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here. That's weird me jason would have more luck getting a shag of my Facebook friends than here I prefer not to randomly hit on my friends. Tends to make things messy." Not randomly of Course | |||
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"Point missed by a mile. " Basically most guys can drop everything and go for a shag If you have young kids at home your chances to play are limited so you choose your meetings a lot more careful Not rocket science | |||
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"Point missed by a mile. " I don't see how anyone has missed the point at all. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. It's not that easy if you are a single parent with a young child who works and has few options for people to babysit. Organising a meet for me is a pain in the arse so I need to know at least the attraction is there and have chatted on here a while first. I can't just pop out for a coffee whenever I feel like it. So it's not closed minds, just making the most of my available time. I understand that, my comment was a generalisation not aimed at every individual. I know life and commitments get in the way but honestly, its not that difficult to find an two hour window if you really want to. Also I'm not saying don't talk to people on here, I'm saying don't just judge them on the profile. I haven't got the time or the inclination to message someone with a rubbish profile and crappy pics on the off chance that they might turn out to be alright when there's plenty with decent profiles and nice pics to message. And yes it is difficult to find an hour or two window for the reasons I listed above. " I have no children and work in town. I could meet a fab random for a coffee meet every day. I have no intention of doing that, it would still be a massive waste of my time even if that time is easily found. I'll keep on judging people by their profiles and messages, ta. | |||
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"Women are not too picky There are so few of them The men lower their standards to get a shag . Most women will know if a guy contacts them and they are punching above their weight and not be interested in case they get used " is that cos they are a 8, so would they be happy if we went for a 3? Lol. | |||
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"Women are not too picky There are so few of them The men lower their standards to get a shag . Most women will know if a guy contacts them and they are punching above their weight and not be interested in case they get used is that cos they are a 8, so would they be happy if we went for a 3? Lol." you must know that with women you can never get it right and it's how you handle yourself when your always wrong that counts | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. From a personal point of view, my time is limited. Profile text and photos are the initial lure but it's the content of the message that will make me decide to meet. I've met unverified men with dodgy pictures: blimey, I moved one in a year ago. There's an alarming sense of entitlement I've noticed developing on this site. No sense of entitlement here or even any expectations, well maybe one... To be looked as a person not just a profile. " but if the profile makes you look like a total twat, you are not going to want to know the person. wether we like it or not profile content is important. We are happy to meet people for coffee, but the profile has to have something which intrigues us enough to want to do so | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. From a personal point of view, my time is limited. Profile text and photos are the initial lure but it's the content of the message that will make me decide to meet. I've met unverified men with dodgy pictures: blimey, I moved one in a year ago. There's an alarming sense of entitlement I've noticed developing on this site. No sense of entitlement here or even any expectations, well maybe one... To be looked as a person not just a profile. " But that is all you are on here...until someone takes enough interest in you to look beyond it.. Frankly, if I've got a 2 hour window for a coffee in town, I'd rather spend it with a friend I know, or the monkey than a random from here who thinks I should "give them a chance" even though they don't make enough effort to catch attention in the first place... | |||
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"Women are not too picky There are so few of them The men lower their standards to get a shag . Most women will know if a guy contacts them and they are punching above their weight and not be interested in case they get used is that cos they are a 8, so would they be happy if we went for a 3? Lol. you must know that with women you can never get it right and it's how you handle yourself when your always wrong that counts" Yes I know and thats right, you can never be sure there with them. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. From a personal point of view, my time is limited. Profile text and photos are the initial lure but it's the content of the message that will make me decide to meet. I've met unverified men with dodgy pictures: blimey, I moved one in a year ago. There's an alarming sense of entitlement I've noticed developing on this site. No sense of entitlement here or even any expectations, well maybe one... To be looked as a person not just a profile. " Everyone on here is just a profile as there is nothing else to go on. I'm sure I've missed some lovely people by not replying to them but that's the nature of the beast. I don't use fab's as my only way of meeting others, I use it to enhance what I already do & so far it has served me well. | |||
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"I'm picky hence the lack of a long list of meets. It's about personal choice but to be honest I would meet more people if only for a social. I'm always amazed at how so many on here have closed minds. How on earth can you judge anyone from a small profile and a few photos! I prefer to make my mind up about someone once I have met them. It takes nothing to meet for a lunch time coffee or an evening drink for a couple of hours. Yes you can meet some right weired folk but equally you could be missing out on something special simply because of a dodgy photo. From a personal point of view, my time is limited. Profile text and photos are the initial lure but it's the content of the message that will make me decide to meet. I've met unverified men with dodgy pictures: blimey, I moved one in a year ago. There's an alarming sense of entitlement I've noticed developing on this site. No sense of entitlement here or even any expectations, well maybe one... To be looked as a person not just a profile. " Surely your profile is a reflection of you as a person. The content should indicate the type of person that you are . A detailed profile avoids time being wasted as members can make an informed decision on you as an individual. If a profile is only two lines members cannot make that decision. It also indicates a very lazy attitude.  | |||
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"People are particular on who they choose to have sex with. Some are more particular than others." "My vagina is not an equal opportunities zone." | |||
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"People are particular on who they choose to have sex with. Some are more particular than others. "My vagina is not an equal opportunities zone."" Made me chuckle! | |||
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". If a profile is only two lines members cannot make that decision. It also indicates a very lazy attitude. "5 lines is enough would it be right to name a guy with 400 verification on the forum | |||
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" I know life and commitments get in the way but honestly, its not that difficult to find an two hour window if you really want to. . Maybe thats the point, some people ( like us ) don't want to meet with people every night / lunchtime to see if we are suited to someone just because they asked. If the profile and pics don't appeal, then we are not meeting them to waste ours and their time. " We don't want to meet people every day and why should we Too much aggro . And to be honest if we had a spare hour in the day we would go for lunch together and have couple time | |||
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"We are pretty specific in what we ask for and still get deluged with guys way outside what we asked for trying on the off chance. And as other threads have mentioned, sometimes guys (and girls and couples) don't turn up. You may be better off going the club route, being in the same space as people helps and chatting comes easy. Good luck OP" And if they don't turn ip always others there | |||
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"We are pretty specific in what we ask for and still get deluged with guys way outside what we asked for trying on the off chance. And as other threads have mentioned, sometimes guys (and girls and couples) don't turn up. You may be better off going the club route, being in the same space as people helps and chatting comes easy. Good luck OP And if they don't turn ip always others there " Very very true | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here." I have great friends who do both. The key word is friends. | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here.I have great friends who do both. The key word is friends." Not sure what you are getting at , but those we meet for sex are not friends as such to us . Sure we enjoy the sex , the laughs and their company , but we meet them for sex . Friends are people we enjoy for going out for a meal with , to the cinema or having round for a drink and a chat . People we share our time with where sex isn't the agenda , conversations about the kids , holidays, work etc.... We don't mix the two . | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " False dichotomy. There is enough people here that they can have their "regular guy who wants a social and see how it goes" who is also over 5'10" and however many inches they desire. It's not like every tall or hung man is an arsehole and every short guy with a small cock is God's gift to women and humour. And the same goes the other way round there are enough women you can find funny, witty, geeky, artsy, fat, thin, serious, dom, sub tall, short, old, young and every possible combination of the above on here. This site's motto should basically be "fuck settling, find perfect" | |||
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" thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat If I want a friendly chat I look up my friends on Facebook. If I want sex I chat with people on here.I have great friends who do both. The key word is friends. Not sure what you are getting at , but those we meet for sex are not friends as such to us . Sure we enjoy the sex , the laughs and their company , but we meet them for sex . Friends are people we enjoy for going out for a meal with , to the cinema or having round for a drink and a chat . People we share our time with where sex isn't the agenda , conversations about the kids , holidays, work etc.... We don't mix the two ." See gothic, dirty and no attachment, if the bike hadn't been destroyed before my trip Mrs glos' would have been someone who I'd have loved to indulge a grunge fantasy in a public toilet with. | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " My thoughts are that if their preferences included rather than excluded you you would never have started this thread | |||
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"Op have you tried dogging meets , gangbangs, or the bdsm community? I think this might be a good starting point for you. Why would you suggest BDSM to someone who has expressed no interested in it? Causeway subs are blatantly easy innit+? If people think there are lots of single men moaning that they can't get laid on here... they should see BDSM contact sites. It's far worse. And about thirty times as entitled." Haha epic ain't it | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " I'd be a bit shocked if I'd arranged a social with a man & they dropped their trousers in the middle of Starbucks  | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " but I am guessing that the couples you met with, even thought it didn't go as you planned, didn't meet you because you were an average guy... they saw something in you that was individual...
people always like to complain about the things that exclude them.... just focus on the best "you" you can be
you are never going to appeal to everyone... so why are you fussed about it?
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks False dichotomy. There is enough people here that they can have their "regular guy who wants a social and see how it goes" who is also over 5'10" and however many inches they desire. It's not like every tall or hung man is an arsehole and every short guy with a small cock is God's gift to women and humour. And the same goes the other way round there are enough women you can find funny, witty, geeky, artsy, fat, thin, serious, dom, sub tall, short, old, young and every possible combination of the above on here. This site's motto should basically be "fuck settling, find perfect" " | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks but I am guessing that the couples you met with, even thought it didn't go as you planned, didn't meet you because you were an average guy... they saw something in you that was individual...
people always like to complain about the things that exclude them.... just focus on the best "you" you can be
you are never going to appeal to everyone... so why are you fussed about it?
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " What's the point fucking someone with a tiny cock who is too short when you want someone with a big cock and who is tall? Your point makes zero sense.or will you just fuck anything for the sake of it? | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" It's SEX!!! People aren't allowed to be picky about who they'll meet to fuck??! How about we just all get raffle tickets, pop our adresses on and compulsory sex with whoever knocks on the door? Oh no wait, sorry, wrong site. Thought I was on fabswingers, not lets-have-a-cuppa.com | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks We're quite particular in our requirements. When we joined Mr N said I could have anything I wanted so that's what I do. You call it particular, I call it discerning. I don't go into Starbucks wanting a latte and order a cappuccino why would I come on here wanting sex with a tall, dark man and then message a smaller blond? Of course it's not that cut and dried but you get the picture "Reminder to self:- Book appointment for several sessions on the rack at York dungeon. | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks We're quite particular in our requirements. When we joined Mr N said I could have anything I wanted so that's what I do. You call it particular, I call it discerning. I don't go into Starbucks wanting a latte and order a cappuccino why would I come on here wanting sex with a tall, dark man and then message a smaller blond? Of course it's not that cut and dried but you get the picture
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"Op have you tried dogging meets , gangbangs, or the bdsm community? I think this might be a good starting point for you. Why would you suggest BDSM to someone who has expressed no interested in it? Causeway subs are blatantly easy innit+? If people think there are lots of single men moaning that they can't get laid on here... they should see BDSM contact sites. It's far worse. And about thirty times as entitled." I think the bdsm community is more excepting because it's not all about sex and looks. I don't know about the UK but in America. You will see everything at fetish/bdsm events . | |||
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"Op have you tried dogging meets , gangbangs, or the bdsm community? I think this might be a good starting point for you. Why would you suggest BDSM to someone who has expressed no interested in it? Causeway subs are blatantly easy innit+? If people think there are lots of single men moaning that they can't get laid on here... they should see BDSM contact sites. It's far worse. And about thirty times as entitled. I think the bdsm community is more excepting because it's not all about sex and looks. I don't know about the UK but in America. You will see everything at fetish/bdsm events ." You do see everything. But you generally have to be both sexually attractive to someone AND have similar BDSM tastes. So it is, actually, quite a bit harder to meet people. Also you have to be into BDSM. Which the OP doesn't appear to be. Or do people really do BDSM just to get shagged? | |||
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If you wouldn't have a drink with them in normal life, then don't try to fuck them in this one. But remember that goes both ways.
Don't send stock print messages and chill the fuck out.
N.B. Still taking bookings to chat to f couple plus have got 3 bi fem wing buddies to make up couple.
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"Op have you tried dogging meets , gangbangs, or the bdsm community? I think this might be a good starting point for you. Why would you suggest BDSM to someone who has expressed no interested in it? Causeway subs are blatantly easy innit+? If people think there are lots of single men moaning that they can't get laid on here... they should see BDSM contact sites. It's far worse. And about thirty times as entitled. I think the bdsm community is more excepting because it's not all about sex and looks. I don't know about the UK but in America. You will see everything at fetish/bdsm events . You do see everything. But you generally have to be both sexually attractive to someone AND have similar BDSM tastes. So it is, actually, quite a bit harder to meet people. Also you have to be into BDSM. Which the OP doesn't appear to be. Or do people really do BDSM just to get shagged?" Men will do anything to get a shag | |||
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"Meeting a guy on here just for a social and char that you are not attracted to via profile will nearly always lead to one situation. Him being convinced you will change your mind and he's getting it.. even though you know full well he's not. So many guys message we say no thanks wouldn't want to meet not my type. They say ok but ok to chat yes that's fine always in no more than 3 messages usually they are again asking to meet despite it being made blatantly clear we would never meet. I don't really care what I'm labelled I will only ever consider meeting guys on here that I find initially physically attractive. Then attitude and personality got to fit. Why the hell would I waste time meeting a guy I don't find attractive or fits with what I find attractive. We play mainly away from fab and away from fab I only play with the same age range build etc so not chance I'm going to change that for here. Fed up with people on here who can't get the meets they think they are automatically entitled to because they joined moaning that people are too fussy picky etc because in doing so it clearly excludes them. Swinging doesn't mean you have to meet and fuck anyone and everyone whether attracted to them or not. " Thanks for you opinion. Firstly I'm sorry if i started the thread to mean that I am entittled to have any meet that is not the case. I think thats is a very stupid way of looking at any site. Secondly I don't think fabs is a pick up off the shelf fuck buddy site that people treat it as. You wouldn't walk in a bar or club and approach the person who fits your bill straight away without looking around and talking to people. Pictures paint a diffrent picture of people | |||
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"Meeting a guy on here just for a social and char that you are not attracted to via profile will nearly always lead to one situation. Him being convinced you will change your mind and he's getting it.. even though you know full well he's not. So many guys message we say no thanks wouldn't want to meet not my type. They say ok but ok to chat yes that's fine always in no more than 3 messages usually they are again asking to meet despite it being made blatantly clear we would never meet. I don't really care what I'm labelled I will only ever consider meeting guys on here that I find initially physically attractive. Then attitude and personality got to fit. Why the hell would I waste time meeting a guy I don't find attractive or fits with what I find attractive. We play mainly away from fab and away from fab I only play with the same age range build etc so not chance I'm going to change that for here. Fed up with people on here who can't get the meets they think they are automatically entitled to because they joined moaning that people are too fussy picky etc because in doing so it clearly excludes them. Swinging doesn't mean you have to meet and fuck anyone and everyone whether attracted to them or not. Thanks for you opinion. Firstly I'm sorry if i started the thread to mean that I am entittled to have any meet that is not the case. I think thats is a very stupid way of looking at any site. Secondly I don't think fabs is a pick up off the shelf fuck buddy site that people treat it as. You wouldn't walk in a bar or club and approach the person who fits your bill straight away without looking around and talking to people. Pictures paint a diffrent picture of people" Yes but if you are in a bar you may just be polite and talk to others but you'll aim for the one that fits what you like. This is a swingers site we have bars pubs and facebook for chatting to our friends who we wouldn't consider playing with but can have a good laugh with. We also like to be friends and are with the guys that I am attracted to and play with. We don't use a swingers site to chat to endless guys who do not attract us in the slightest. On here we don't discuss previous meets we don't want to discuss our home and work life etc doesn't leave much apart from the weather. We have regular playmates and non play friends we can talk with about all of that. It's not things we would discuss with a guy from here who could be anybody. So no point I'd rather be down the pub chilling with mates chatting. | |||
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"I get this thread now What people mean is because they are members of a swingers site , all other members must have sex with them immediately I'm just glad I am not an astronaut, imagine the trouble I would get into because I turned my space rocket round to meet someone as soon as they messaged me " I'm glad you aren't an astronaut too, what are you doing checking fab when you should be keeping your eyes on the galaxy | |||
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"Meeting a guy on here just for a social and char that you are not attracted to via profile will nearly always lead to one situation. Him being convinced you will change your mind and he's getting it.. even though you know full well he's not. So many guys message we say no thanks wouldn't want to meet not my type. They say ok but ok to chat yes that's fine always in no more than 3 messages usually they are again asking to meet despite it being made blatantly clear we would never meet. I don't really care what I'm labelled I will only ever consider meeting guys on here that I find initially physically attractive. Then attitude and personality got to fit. Why the hell would I waste time meeting a guy I don't find attractive or fits with what I find attractive. We play mainly away from fab and away from fab I only play with the same age range build etc so not chance I'm going to change that for here. Fed up with people on here who can't get the meets they think they are automatically entitled to because they joined moaning that people are too fussy picky etc because in doing so it clearly excludes them. Swinging doesn't mean you have to meet and fuck anyone and everyone whether attracted to them or not. Thanks for you opinion. Firstly I'm sorry if i started the thread to mean that I am entittled to have any meet that is not the case. I think thats is a very stupid way of looking at any site. Secondly I don't think fabs is a pick up off the shelf fuck buddy site that people treat it as. You wouldn't walk in a bar or club and approach the person who fits your bill straight away without looking around and talking to people. Pictures paint a diffrent picture of people Yes but if you are in a bar you may just be polite and talk to others but you'll aim for the one that fits what you like. This is a swingers site we have bars pubs and facebook for chatting to our friends who we wouldn't consider playing with but can have a good laugh with. We also like to be friends and are with the guys that I am attracted to and play with. We don't use a swingers site to chat to endless guys who do not attract us in the slightest. On here we don't discuss previous meets we don't want to discuss our home and work life etc doesn't leave much apart from the weather. We have regular playmates and non play friends we can talk with about all of that. It's not things we would discuss with a guy from here who could be anybody. So no point I'd rather be down the pub chilling with mates chatting." I understand the concept I'm not saying you should sill the beans of life to people. It shouldn't be a fuck and go I do think there needs to be more chances given aside from physical preferences from people but what do I know the culture of superficial people rules the world Also why can't people you swing with be friends? I understand sex friends but not normal friends if this site has been created for people to shag like peices of meat maybe i'm in the wrong place | |||
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"I do love these nobody wants to shag me posts.... They all make it sound like its everyone elses fault and when you look at their profile its a pic of their cock and a profile text which consists of Looking for fun or something similar. Not always but usually... Simple.. if you want to get meets put the effort in." I've got the opposite problem too many people want to shag me I need a receptionist up . . . . . . . . *this may not be true* | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " I think that the day you start meeting gay guys or women over 60, is the day you can accuse others of being picky | |||
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"Meeting a guy on here just for a social and char that you are not attracted to via profile will nearly always lead to one situation. Him being convinced you will change your mind and he's getting it.. even though you know full well he's not. So many guys message we say no thanks wouldn't want to meet not my type. They say ok but ok to chat yes that's fine always in no more than 3 messages usually they are again asking to meet despite it being made blatantly clear we would never meet. I don't really care what I'm labelled I will only ever consider meeting guys on here that I find initially physically attractive. Then attitude and personality got to fit. Why the hell would I waste time meeting a guy I don't find attractive or fits with what I find attractive. We play mainly away from fab and away from fab I only play with the same age range build etc so not chance I'm going to change that for here. Fed up with people on here who can't get the meets they think they are automatically entitled to because they joined moaning that people are too fussy picky etc because in doing so it clearly excludes them. Swinging doesn't mean you have to meet and fuck anyone and everyone whether attracted to them or not. Thanks for you opinion. Firstly I'm sorry if i started the thread to mean that I am entittled to have any meet that is not the case. I think thats is a very stupid way of looking at any site. Secondly I don't think fabs is a pick up off the shelf fuck buddy site that people treat it as. You wouldn't walk in a bar or club and approach the person who fits your bill straight away without looking around and talking to people. Pictures paint a diffrent picture of people Yes but if you are in a bar you may just be polite and talk to others but you'll aim for the one that fits what you like. This is a swingers site we have bars pubs and facebook for chatting to our friends who we wouldn't consider playing with but can have a good laugh with. We also like to be friends and are with the guys that I am attracted to and play with. We don't use a swingers site to chat to endless guys who do not attract us in the slightest. On here we don't discuss previous meets we don't want to discuss our home and work life etc doesn't leave much apart from the weather. We have regular playmates and non play friends we can talk with about all of that. It's not things we would discuss with a guy from here who could be anybody. So no point I'd rather be down the pub chilling with mates chatting. I understand the concept I'm not saying you should sill the beans of life to people. It shouldn't be a fuck and go I do think there needs to be more chances given aside from physical preferences from people but what do I know the culture of superficial people rules the world Also why can't people you swing with be friends? I understand sex friends but not normal friends if this site has been created for people to shag like peices of meat maybe i'm in the wrong place " You've not given any reason that people should relax their physical preferences other than "it's not fair, I'm not the stereotypically attractive man and I want a shag too". Suck it up buttercup, I'm genderqueer with a shaved head and piercings - most people don't want to meet me either. I don't whinge about it either, I just go out and make opportunities for myself instead. | |||
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"thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" The main reason our profile states we're not looking for single men is because in our experience "friendly chat" always seemed to mean that we'd change our minds about meeting. We're neither in our first flush of youth nor body beautiful so knowing this I don't think we have unrealistic expectations. I (female half) would be wary of exceptionally good looking people being interested as I was when I had a single female profile. However, when we meet it has to be right for everyone and we simply don't have time to chat / social meet endlessly when there's no initial attraction. | |||
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"thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat The main reason our profile states we're not looking for single men is because in our experience "friendly chat" always seemed to mean that we'd change our minds about meeting. We're neither in our first flush of youth nor body beautiful so knowing this I don't think we have unrealistic expectations. I (female half) would be wary of exceptionally good looking people being interested as I was when I had a single female profile. However, when we meet it has to be right for everyone and we simply don't have time to chat / social meet endlessly when there's no initial attraction." I'm sorry for your bad expirences. Both parties have to be attracted to each other and trust has to be present | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " I wouldnt meet a 5.0 guy as im 5'7 and you are too young anyway and nor am I into facial hair. Ive been there. Your profile is a little bit ranty too and your status about your cock doesnt really need to be there. People will meet you because they want to, not because of your big cock, well some might, but not me. Good luck | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks I wouldnt meet a 5.0 guy as im 5'7 and you are too young anyway and nor am I into facial hair. Ive been there. Your profile is a little bit ranty too and your status about your cock doesnt really need to be there. People will meet you because they want to, not because of your big cock, well some might, but not me. Good luck " thanks for your response xx | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks I wouldnt meet a 5.0 guy as im 5'7 and you are too young anyway and nor am I into facial hair. Ive been there. Your profile is a little bit ranty too and your status about your cock doesnt really need to be there. People will meet you because they want to, not because of your big cock, well some might, but not me. Good luck thanks for your response xx" You've got a big cock??? Why didn't you say that before??? Can you Fed-Ex it | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks I wouldnt meet a 5.0 guy as im 5'7 and you are too young anyway and nor am I into facial hair. Ive been there. Your profile is a little bit ranty too and your status about your cock doesnt really need to be there. People will meet you because they want to, not because of your big cock, well some might, but not me. Good luck thanks for your response xx You've got a big cock??? Why didn't you say that before??? Can you Fed-Ex it "Haha guess you haven't seen my pictures. I could always send a cast model of it for you to use as a dildo | |||
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"That people are on here looking to fulfil fantasies so why shouldn't they do so with others who match their fantasy?" this pretty much sums up what in was going to say! Everyone is here for different reasons but most seem to be here to fulfil their fantasies so why should they settle for anything less | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks I wouldnt meet a 5.0 guy as im 5'7 and you are too young anyway and nor am I into facial hair. Ive been there. Your profile is a little bit ranty too and your status about your cock doesnt really need to be there. People will meet you because they want to, not because of your big cock, well some might, but not me. Good luck thanks for your response xx You've got a big cock??? Why didn't you say that before??? Can you Fed-Ex it
Haha guess you haven't seen my pictures. I could always send a cast model of it for you to use as a dildo "Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes, pleaseeeeeee; that is all I look for in a man My life without a big cock is one empty shell with nothing else to live for | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks I wouldnt meet a 5.0 guy as im 5'7 and you are too young anyway and nor am I into facial hair. Ive been there. Your profile is a little bit ranty too and your status about your cock doesnt really need to be there. People will meet you because they want to, not because of your big cock, well some might, but not me. Good luck thanks for your response xx You've got a big cock??? Why didn't you say that before??? Can you Fed-Ex it
Haha guess you haven't seen my pictures. I could always send a cast model of it for you to use as a dildo
Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes, pleaseeeeeee; that is all I look for in a man
My life without a big cock is one empty shell with nothing else to live for"OK no need for sarcasm. I was far fetched you didn't think I'd actually do that. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die. "No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site "It isn't a sex site. This might be where you're forming the wrong impression. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die. "Its the season. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site "So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site " | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to."No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that? | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to.
No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that?
"Can you explain what standards you mean? I'm not trying to argue I'm genuinely interested because a lot of men say similar things to this. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to.
No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that?
"I'm just going to copy and paste what you yourself wrote and you have a wee read. " I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site " | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to.
No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that?
I'm just going to copy and paste what you yourself wrote and you have a wee read.
" I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site ""You don't understand where i'm coming from maybe you should make single male profile and expirence the responses they receive its horrible to say the least | |||
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"My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that seems to tied to standards " Not really...it's just quite possibly the most boring thing in the entire world ever.. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to.
No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that?
I'm just going to copy and paste what you yourself wrote and you have a wee read.
" I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site "
You don't understand where i'm coming from maybe you should make single male profile and expirence the responses they receive its horrible to say the least "Well I'm a single male and have never received a horrible response in four years. No response, yes, but never a horrible or insulting one... I think you may be over doing the sympathy search throughout this whining thread.... | |||
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"......"people are on here looking to fulfil fantasies so why shouldn't they do so with others who match their fantasy?" Not sure many people would share a fantasy with a 5.0 male...." OP: does your answer above suggest that one reason why people won't meet you is your height? "I'll answer my own question.....I think yes. | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" Why does it make them picky because they don't want a friendly chat? | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site "In the big wide world out there, do you have women tripping over themselves for a glimpse of you? If so, then wouldn't you be better off there than on this sex-site where the women are setting very high standards and aren't responding in the manner you are accustomed to | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
In the big wide world out there, do you have women tripping over themselves for a glimpse of you?
If so, then wouldn't you be better off there than on this sex-site where the women are setting very high standards and aren't responding in the manner you are accustomed to"When someone sends you a message on here with just the word "die" you know how i feel not the first time this year thats happened to me | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks " Man the hell up ....rejection is a part of life...deal with it ! | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
In the big wide world out there, do you have women tripping over themselves for a glimpse of you?
If so, then wouldn't you be better off there than on this sex-site where the women are setting very high standards and aren't responding in the manner you are accustomed to
When someone sends you a message on here with just the word "die" you know how i feel not the first time this year thats happened to me"Block, report, forget and move on. And if messages (however unpleasent) from stranger on what you keep refering to as a 'sex site' bother you that much maybe question if this is the right site for you? Though I do wonder what you are sending to provoke such a response | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
In the big wide world out there, do you have women tripping over themselves for a glimpse of you?
If so, then wouldn't you be better off there than on this sex-site where the women are setting very high standards and aren't responding in the manner you are accustomed to
When someone sends you a message on here with just the word "die" you know how i feel not the first time this year thats happened to me"Why do I suspect we will never get an honest answer as to what you sent to prompt that message | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
So you thought if you signed up you'd get sex regardless? This isn't Fabhookers. This whole attitude is the reason a lot of men get no meets. Just because you're prepared to lower your stnadards doesn't mean everyone else has to.
No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that?
"But being a free sex chat service is tediously dull especially with someone you don't find attractive. With someone you've got a spark with when your both in the mood but sadly can't meet it can be fun but with a random stranger it's just "hey I'm having a walk entertain me" and no body can be arsed with it. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
In the big wide world out there, do you have women tripping over themselves for a glimpse of you?
If so, then wouldn't you be better off there than on this sex-site where the women are setting very high standards and aren't responding in the manner you are accustomed to
When someone sends you a message on here with just the word "die" you know how i feel not the first time this year thats happened to me
Why do I suspect we will never get an honest answer as to what you sent to prompt that message"Can't comment on that but I can tell you I got a fuck off and die message on another site lol. My crime? I simply messaged to say she didn't sit on the fence. Her status read need a big fucking cock right now. | |||
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"Yet another "women shouldn't have standards so i can get laid" thread. Nice to see the oldies never die.
No not at all. I think people standards are defined by type of person they are sadly most on here have high ones. Its a sex site
In the big wide world out there, do you have women tripping over themselves for a glimpse of you?
If so, then wouldn't you be better off there than on this sex-site where the women are setting very high standards and aren't responding in the manner you are accustomed to
When someone sends you a message on here with just the word "die" you know how i feel not the first time this year thats happened to me
Why do I suspect we will never get an honest answer as to what you sent to prompt that message
Can't comment on that but I can tell you I got a fuck off and die message on another site lol. My crime? I simply messaged to say she didn't sit on the fence. Her status read need a big fucking cock right now."To be fair your comment just sounds confusing given the context there and they probably assumed it was an attempt at being snarky. | |||
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"No I didn't think that I thought it would be diffrent expirence. Why would anyone expect sex auomaticlly from a site?. My expectation was to sexy talk and see how it develops but even that sems to tied to standards. Just cause i'm a guy doesn't mean I want stick my dick in to you ever thought that? " Personally I only have sexy-chat with people I want to actually get into bed with at some point. If a guy doesn't want to put his penis in me then I don't want to have sexy-chat with him. If someone wants to have sexy-chat without any physical interaction then they can pay a webcam escort for that. | |||
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"Please stop saying people are on here to fulfill fantasies. Makes it sound so childish. We are all adults looking for sexy fun. Well except for the ones only using the site for the forums and to keep in touch with friends. Also stop saying it's not a sex site. Whilst sex is not to be seen as just a gimme the primary reason people join is for that reason. Op. Sell yourself on your profile primarily. Good pics and good write up are very important. You have to stand out to your audience. Ps dont use my profile as an example or you'll get nowhere lol. As to your messages I don't know. I haven't found any secret formula. If you do let me know! Good luck. " Actually your profile is okay, not bad looking though a smile would be nice, so if you were nearer, I wouldn't say no thanks | |||
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"Please stop saying people are on here to fulfill fantasies. Makes it sound so childish. We are all adults looking for sexy fun. Well except for the ones only using the site for the forums and to keep in touch with friends. Also stop saying it's not a sex site. Whilst sex is not to be seen as just a gimme the primary reason people join is for that reason. Op. Sell yourself on your profile primarily. Good pics and good write up are very important. You have to stand out to your audience. Ps dont use my profile as an example or you'll get nowhere lol. As to your messages I don't know. I haven't found any secret formula. If you do let me know! Good luck. Actually your profile is okay, not bad looking though a smile would be nice, so if you were nearer, I wouldn't say no thanks "Well that's put a smile on my face. Thank you very much | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat" This site isn't aimed at people who want a friendly chat. It's aimed at people who want to fulfil their sexual fantasies. In that respect it's not too surprising that people are picky. | |||
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"I been on fabs for a while now and still can't find the right people. I have a couple of meets both didn't go as expected for various resasons. Recently I have been looking though profiles as you do and most of the local couples are so in particular in what they require. i.e males must be over "5.10". or bus me 8 inches plus. What happened to a regualr guy who wants a social and see how its goes? not a guy who gonna turn up and drop his pants. Apologies for the rant. What are peoples thoughts? Thanks Everyone has their tastes. There are so many folk on this site, especially single males, therefore ladies and couples have to be particular to cut out a large amount of users who would message them. Even then they probably still get a large amount of messages from people who aren't the right height, age, cock size for what they are looking for. It maymean they miss out on meeting some great people but in the long run it saves then time and means my tee chance of finding someone they will be attracted to. thanks for the reply i just think people are way too picky on here not spoken to anyone who just wants a friedly chat This site isn't aimed at people who want a friendly chat. It's aimed at people who want to fulfil their sexual fantasies. In that respect it's not too surprising that people are picky." Not necessarily. I've nothing against a friendly chat. But I'm still 'picky' about who any friendly chats will be with. Like meets - nobody is entitled to a conversation either. A | |||
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