FabSwingers.com forum: Killer condoms

By *ussyhussy OP Couple
over a year ago

south west

Why is it that perfectly beautiful cock shrivel up and die when covered and what can we girls do to help you stay hard ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that perfectly beautiful cock shrivel up and die when covered and what can we girls do to help you stay hard ? "

I have never experienced that problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I have noticed in a few times. Never know what to do.

Felt really bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time, but at 2nd attempt mine stays hard in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use correct size condoms

Put it on him using your mouth/lips..i use to have the same problem until a woman i met on here did it to me lol

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By *ussyhussy OP Couple
over a year ago

south west

I'm sure you don't. I did not mean to generalize . I should have said "Some perfectly beautiful cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure you don't. I did not mean to generalize . I should have said "Some perfectly beautiful cock ""

maybe i have been lucky - i never considered it as an issue as it hasn't happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's to do with the gel in these things like the ones that makes him last longer and her shorter, or the fact that he's not getting much feeling and begins to "soften" in disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you have to stop what your doing

Open it usually in the dark or dim light

Then it can go on one way easily

If you put it on the wrong way it won't go on properly the right way

Then you have the bloody ones that can only be opened one way and then you need to find your glasses etc

That's If you haven't left them in trousers or at a club with them in a glasses bag and you can't find that

Then you have to take into account us guys attention span and ability to lose concentration and think of beer football or cars and even worse if the opening of the condom pack causes us to think of peanuts ( other things ridiculously hard to open in the dark) then we want food

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Makes me question how often they use them, to be honest...

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

They can be irritating but I'd rather have a killer condom than a killer STI...

I've been asked to bb on a meet before and refused it, I would happily walk out if they refused to use protection.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Makes me question how often they use them, to be honest..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting topic.........we must also remember that some men also have an allergy to the laytex in condoms and if caught out at a meet and not prepared/brought some no laytext condoms, hey ho they are scuppered

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"interesting topic.........we must also remember that some men also have an allergy to the laytex in condoms and if caught out at a meet and not prepared/brought some no laytext condoms, hey ho they are scuppered

Or you they could be considerate enough to make sure they have non latex ones

I think anybody who pulls the excuse about forgetting them is full of shit, I always have them in my wallet and I never leave home without myself wallet, it's not hard issues it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct size condom essential otherwise cock gets strangled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me question how often they use them, to be honest..."

Personally; rarely. I don't often penetrate anyone other than my wife.

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

We always take a selection of latex sizes original, large and liar

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By *rodie53Man
over a year ago

Manchester

A tad of fireie jackmin the end keepur interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me question how often they use them, to be honest..."

Not entirely fair. Marc hasn't had this issue, but still...before we started doing this, we had been together almost 9 years. That is almost 9 years of condomless sex. And we can't be the only ones. So I would imagine sensitivity could be an issue for some.

-Courtney

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

"before we started doing this, we had been together almost 9 years. That is almost 9 years of condomless sex. And we can't be the only ones. So I would imagine sensitivity could be an issue for some.

-Courtney"

I can chime in on that topic. After 7 years of sans condom with a former partner, I had genuine difficulties getting used to covering up again

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Makes me question how often they use them, to be honest...

-Courtney"

Touché. I'll admit I didn't think of that. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me question how often they use them, to be honest...

-Courtney

Touché. I'll admit I didn't think of that. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"before we started doing this, we had been together almost 9 years. That is almost 9 years of condomless sex. And we can't be the only ones. So I would imagine sensitivity could be an issue for some.

-Courtney

I can chime in on that topic. After 7 years of sans condom with a former partner, I had genuine difficulties getting used to covering up again

And I can help you get used to it again, if you'd like

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its certainly important to find the right size...dont let your ego buy the box your dick cant cash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I find them going on with the aid of a mouth helps

Also I hate how unnatural the process can ne, therefore if kissing/playing with your partner to do it whilst continuing to kiss can assist. Like not stopping the flow

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

And I can help you get used to it again, if you'd like

-Courtney"

One train ticket to Leeds, please!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Correct size condom essential otherwise cock gets strangled."

Totally agree, makes a huge (!) difference

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"before we started doing this, we had been together almost 9 years. That is almost 9 years of condomless sex. And we can't be the only ones. So I would imagine sensitivity could be an issue for some.

-Courtney

I can chime in on that topic. After 7 years of sans condom with a former partner, I had genuine difficulties getting used to covering up again

And I can help you get used to it again, if you'd like

-Courtney"

There is a big difference, but the reduction in sensations in the cock can be made up with the sensations that build in the mind. Also if you are swinging as a couple, then how often do you get to have you wife kissing your neck from behind as you fuck another lovely lady in front of you.

Plenty of stimulation to be had.

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By *ecktheHallsCouple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

I (mr) haven't used a condom for 10 years, as i've only had full sex with my wife in that time. However, i used to just buy any old type thinking that they were all the same, until i worked out the sizing was different, made a huge difference. Poor thing had been strangled a bit previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this a few times....he forgets to bring any then when I say its fine I have plenty in my bag I get lots of excuses. The best 1 is that their cock is to big to fit!

Unfortunately, twice we had to end things as I refused to continue without 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (mr) haven't used a condom for 10 years, as i've only had full sex with my wife in that time. However, i used to just buy any old type thinking that they were all the same, until i worked out the sizing was different, made a huge difference. Poor thing had been strangled a bit previously."

I'm not surprised

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By *ecktheHallsCouple
over a year ago

Near Leeds xx

I'm not surprised

Haha, next time we'll have to delve into your bag of tricks lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"before we started doing this, we had been together almost 9 years. That is almost 9 years of condomless sex. And we can't be the only ones. So I would imagine sensitivity could be an issue for some.

-Courtney

I can chime in on that topic. After 7 years of sans condom with a former partner, I had genuine difficulties getting used to covering up again

And I can help you get used to it again, if you'd like

-Courtney

Plenty of stimulation to be had."

I don't really swing with my wife...as I am Courtney and I have a husband.

Also, as I said, Marc doesn't really have this happen to him. I was just saying that I can see how it can be an issue for some. We've seen it happen to others. And many men are far more stimulated by the actual physical sensations than the mental ones.

Anyway, as I said, there are for sure plenty of ways to deal with it. Its just that there can be other reasons why men might have a problem.

-Courtney

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Ive had this a few times....he forgets to bring any then when I say its fine I have plenty in my bag I get lots of excuses. The best 1 is that their cock is to big to fit!

Unfortunately, twice we had to end things as I refused to continue without 1 "

I can't help but laugh my head off when they expect the meet to go ahead without them.

Once I've composed myself, they get shown the door.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know!!! And the excuses keep changing when I find solutions for them lol!

Its like they think if they plead long enough we will say 'oh hk on then, just this once'

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

It could be nerves, and not really related to the condom directly, the delay ones did once did stop me feeling anything at all, but I'm less sensitive there :/

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Some guys don't like fucking in front of other people & then we have condom issues - yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try talking to him while he is putting the condom on. Say dirty things to keep him stimulated.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Why is it that perfectly beautiful cock shrivel up and die when covered and what can we girls do to help you stay hard ? "

Its the spermicide which causes the 'premature' fatality

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

A football friend

of mine who knows a lot about women says its best if women put condoms on men's cocks using their bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that perfectly beautiful cock shrivel up and die when covered and what can we girls do to help you stay hard ? "

Use the Female Condom.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

For me (him) it was definitely the break in the moment that distracted me, causing shrinkage.

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