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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read , could do with some help lady's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is too hard to read pal, people wont try and move on

Seperate it out into paragraphs, imo no need for grammar perfect but sections make such a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read "

Ask them if they do anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read

Ask them if they do anal. "

I'd go with a 'fancy a fuck' message first, then move on to anal in your second message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you ever see the Doctor Who with the stone angels who moved closer when you weren't looking?

Your profile pics just reminded me of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read

Ask them if they do anal.

I'd go with a 'fancy a fuck' message first, then move on to anal in your second message "

Bastards! pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going, this post is making me piss myself, nice one chaps, fucking lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as you cannot accom, its something most potential p[laymates will consider negatively I'm afraid.

personally I think you might be trying a bit too hard selling yourself profile wise.

have you looked at the scene properly? plenty socials /clubs/parties..

try getting a cam verify at least for now..

msg wise:

try not saying things like "hi"

"how are you?"

people say dont copy n paste..but most initial msgs are gonna be copy n pasteish anyway.

try a compliment, maybe a reason why you would like to meet.Dont take a response as a given to then move onto asking to meet. best not asking for personal info(phone/whatsapp/kik) ,dirty pics etc..as most use this really just as a wank fodder tool.

its only been 3weeks m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them if you can lick their pussey during their lunch brake at work in a discreet area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read

Ask them if they do anal.

I'd go with a 'fancy a fuck' message first, then move on to anal in your second message "

What no multi tasking

"Fancy an anal fuck"

2in1 right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay genuine advice:

(but the creepy angel thing was serious )

You say you are athletic, do a physical job and hit the gym three times a week? Well you must be an awesome photographer because you manage to hide your physique brilliantly.

Have a look at the top photos (not necessarily the dribbling cock ones) and steal some ideas which you think would work for you.

Is there anything from your life, personality or work which you can incorporate into your photos?

Profile text is a huge splurge of text vomited onto the page. Take away half the words. Use shorter sentences.

Use new lines.

Relax. You've been here less than a month.

Chat in the forums without expectation and you'll relax. If you feel up to it see what local clubs you have and get to know the people there.

Chin up and good luck fella (but please change your profile pics )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if you can lick their pussey during their lunch brake at work in a discreet area "

Shag, I've total respect for anyone who can properly learn a foreign language, so this isn't a criticism of your spelling.

But... The spelling mistakes in your suggested message makes it perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to formulate your messages into tx speak. No more than 10 words. Don't forget the cock pic... or a few from different angles is even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if you can lick their pussey during their lunch brake at work in a discreet area

Shag, I've total respect for anyone who can properly learn a foreign language, so this isn't a criticism of your spelling.

But... The spelling mistakes in your suggested message makes it perfect "
Thanks yes I know how it spells but prefer to say pussey lol and ty yes its perfecto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read , could do with some help lady's "

Like they said, separate your paragraphs a bit and also use spellcheck, some of your words are incorrectly spelled. Maybe some more public pics too

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read

Ask them if they do anal.

I'd go with a 'fancy a fuck' message first, then move on to anal in your second message "

Dont forget the cock pic and the request to meet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always respond to people who show they've put an effort into reading my profile, I very rarely reply to one liner messages, especially ones that say "fancy a fuck" or send me cock pictures straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you ever see the Doctor Who with the stone angels who moved closer when you weren't looking?

Your profile pics just reminded me of that. "

Lol

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

To be honest, it doesn't really matter what you write. All you are doing us expressing an interest. If they fancy you, they'll be in touch, if they don't fancy you, they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read , could do with some help lady's "

Not a bad effort but the spelling, grammar and photos are terrible. Those issues alone would put us off (but might not others).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know the messages aren't being read?

If the messages are anything like the profile text I would hit delete straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not haveing much luck with getting my messages read looking for pointers for getting then read , could do with some help lady's "

Give up spend the money you would have saved on not buying a supporters pass on baby oil .

Why have I said that its because your profile is boring drivel and has been written to what you think people want to hear .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove paragraphs 2 and 6,

There not working for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep profile msg short and sweet...

But what catches the women eye is a interesting first message...

Again not to long

Saying (hi) wont cut it

Saying ( great pics) wont cut it

Saying ( do you fancy a fuck) wont cut it...

Example first msg from my current playmate said

" Holy Fuck, I think I need to lie down and have a wank "

" Or im I shocked you actually are stupid enough to show everyone on fab that very distinctive tattoo "

Not the nicest first msg ...

But caught my attention and not the delete button ....

And mmmmmmmmmmm bloody hell the sex is amazing !!

I get lots of msg every day, but its the opening msg that catches my attention

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